Glad for you, GookanGohan
I am found of fencing too. With some boldness i dare say that i passed that stage of yours (although, with european style). But now i am into kenjutsu and let me give you some advice (but i am not chiselling in since we also percieve it on our own with help of books, videos and common sence)
If you practice ... m-mmm ... live fencing i strongly recommend you get some protective gear, especially if you do not 'fix' your blows (to fix means to stop it close to the body, or end up with slightest touch)
Knuckles are to suffer first, then goes the forearm. Joints are easily damaged and take long time to heal completly, if you don`t want to end up with fingers crooked by arthritis get gloves. Or make padded ones on opisthenar (or whatever is the word for a rear side of the palm

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Next, watch out for the head and collar bones.
Since you are the only girl, don`t try to overcome guys with force. Most
of the times this is not your way; motion, stamina, dexterity, speed and precise strokes - that`s what you can do better. Learn to use inertia of your partner and of your own.
Motion is very important. Sword, hands, body and legs (pay a lot of attention to what they are doing) must act altogether. Perhaps, you heard about the idea of 'Ken - Ki - Tai'. Your mind and spirit are not allowed to wander. The whole world named 'you' must be in process of training, in fencing. It`s not easy, but experience accumulates by tiny drops with every effort, but can be lost in gallons when is not given proper attention.
But still, i think you should get book and take your time on learning basics, read the advices of masters of martial arts, Kendo and so on. Fencing is not a funny game, it`s a hard work and strong discipline, respect for your partners, for the sword and for yourself.
And, please, give some attention to the Firesword post. Everyday trainig, repitition of same movement hundreds of times are 50% of succes on your way toward the Swordsman