Boy x boy - why is it sexy?

[Ma Cherie]

It's really difficult to explain why boyXboy sex is, well.........sexy. I only have theories as to why it's sexy. For one, as I've said before, I think it's the artwork. Two, I believe it's more fascinating when two boys are having sex with each other. I don't know why, I just do. Are perhaps it's one of those sexual turn-ons. Who knows, really.

 

[isayhello]

Wah, Black Piano, you seem to know a lot of YAOI! I have never seen any shonen-ai or YAOI anime movies. Only read the manga, but it's difficult to get my hands on it. Do you all buy it from the internet, or do you go to some shop? I wanna see a shonen-ai movie! KYA!

boyxboy is.... special. When I first heard about it, it was just so...nice. I loved it! (and love it still) but none of my friends understand the attraction, neither my female friends nor the males. especially the boys all think it's sick... *cries* I wanna know some bi-boys, so I could get some real YAOI action! *nosebleed*

 

[Jo Rose]

Hi. I read wot u guys were talkin bout and I totally agree (big, hairy men, NO). Even though I havn't only been a yaoi/shonen ai fan for very long, I love it! and i'm glad there are some people I can talk to bout it cause my friends, well, don't like talkin bout it and think theres somthin wrong with me for likin it.

In answer to the main question, I dunno why I like it sooo much, i just do. And in answer to isayhello's question, ebay is a good place to buy it from.

 

[isayhello]

and i'm glad there are some people I can talk to bout it cause my friends, well, don't like talkin bout it and think theres somthin wrong with me for likin it.

In answer to the main question, I dunno why I like it sooo much, i just do. And in answer to isayhello's question, ebay is a good place to buy it from.

Hi! ---yah, my friends think the same, that it's sick and all. But there's SOMETHING wrong with THEM for not liking YAOI - can't they see it's really reall beautiful and HOT?!?!?!? *angry*
Anyways, will try ebay, ebay is a good place. Me like ebay.

YAOI

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

you're STILL LUCKY - even if he only teases you!!! *jealous* just teasing would be... *jealous* I don't know any guys like that. *jealous* Swedish guys suck! *jealous*

Anyways, when all you YAOI-lovers of this thread are asked WHY you like the boyxboy action, how do you explain it? Do you give some psychological explanation or you just say you like it cause it's hot?
I sometimes find the "psychological" explanations to this subject interesting.

I'm sorry. You should move... haha. Maybe they are out there but you just need to look harder. It really annoys me when guys can't show emotions towards there other guy friends. Maybe I'm just used to being around gay/bi guys or ones that are comfortable with their sexuality or intouch with their emotions or whatever but that's seriously dumb when guys are all like uptight and won't hug or stuff. If someone is important to you show it... and let me watch tee-hee

Psychologically speaking I just think it's curiousity. People are naturally sexual. It's just our nature. I think it's all about experimentation and learning. Who thought learning could be so hot and fun. Yep that's right. See now all you have to do is tell your mom your educating yourself and yaoi is perfectly ok.... boy do I wish that were true.

 

[isayhello]

Lol, yah, Pinkkiller: we're all studying YAOI here! - just educating ourselves. *all happy* Now I have found a purpose - a meaning. Why shouldn't YAOI be as important as my other homework? ------never though about it that way.

I'll become an expert on the subject BOYLOVE (including YAOI) *cries tears of joy*

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Lol, yah, Pinkkiller: we're all studying YAOI here! - just educating ourselves. *all happy* Now I have found a purpose - a meaning. Why shouldn't YAOI be as important as my other homework? ------never though about it that way.

I'll become an expert on the subject BOYLOVE (including YAOI) *cries tears of joy*

Now now you must get your priorities in order. Yaoi is definitly more important than your other homework... equal in importance... puhhh my tushie.

*checks university course listing to see what yaoi classes are available*

 

[isayhello]

Now now you must get your priorities in order. Yaoi is definitly more important than your other homework... equal in importance... puhhh my tushie.

*checks university course listing to see what yaoi classes are available*

Even more important than homework? *stares innocently in disbelief*
Ok..............*thinks it over*................. YAY! So, I don't have to do the math, the history or the science? Who needs that when one can watch hot boyxboy action?
So... what course will I be taking? Um, Um.... *let's see* maybe something light to start with... like "An Introduction course; Shonen-ai through the ages"... sounds like fun?

Oh, about that: annother thing; sometimes my friends suggest, since they know I'm all into YAOI, that I should hire a pornvideo with gay men.... but NO NO NO NO NO NO - it's all wrong! I am really really not into these pornmovies. Strange it might seem. But those movies are NOT hot, and all the men are all muscular and nasty and not asian. hehe. But it's not that I don't like the real life YAOI - I go MAD when Toshiya licks Kyos neck and stuff like that... the difference... is .... stunning... *Dies*

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Oh you still have to do your other homework... but not with the same attention to detail as for your yaoi homework. Yay! "Shonen-ai through the ages" haha that sounds like a real class *wishes it were real* Ewww yuck yea I don't like gay porn... nasty nasty men... yuck yuck yuck *vomit* *kyo blinks and stares.... vomits with me* *glomps kyo* He's so cute when he vomits *huggles him and calls him forbidden word that starts with k and ends with awaii* ahhh... *dies of weirdness* now it there was jrock yaoi porn then... *nosebleed*

 

[isayhello]

jrock yaoi porn would be amazing......... why don't Kyo and Totchi-kun and Miyavi and everyone else get together and make a pornmovie??? They would really please their fans, that's one thing that's sure.......................................................................
*dead*

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

*faints* OMG!!! Do you even understand how much money they would make if they did... but I don't want to share... they can yaoi in my bedroom and I'll make home videos and share them with only a few very privledged people. You would like a copy, ne?

 

[isayhello]

make that TWO copies!!!!!!!!! (in case I watch the first copy so much it breaks) or, or... should I ask nicely: PLEASE GIVE ME A COPY!! *desperate*

You're right, 1st: they WOULD make a lot of money. They wouldn't have to make another CD or hold another concert in their entire lives (at least not to make money)
2nd: I wouldn't really want them to make an official porn-yaoi-video... Like you, I wouldn't wanna share it with millions of stupid, evil fangirls (and boys).

no... better kidnap them and make homevideos, like you said...
I'd seriously give anything to see a yaoi-video with Toshiya..................... *gone*

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Of course you may have one... and take 3 copies just to be safe *wink*

Yea but I wouldn't want jrockers to stop making music though... they can make music in my bedroom (the previous statement can be interpreted more than one way) *gives jrockers suggestive look*... there we go that's brilliant brilliant BRILLIANT!!! *yet another nosebleed*

Totchi should be cloned and then he could yaoi with himself... that would be completely weird in an insanely beautiful way

 

[isayhello]

lol imagine that - Kyo x kyo!!!! soo strange, and yet... so hot? wow!

but i'd rather see something with kyo x totchi-kun...

we'd let them make their music... anytime.

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Haha... no matter what KyoxTotchi will always be the hottest. We should not try to fight it... those two have chemistry. It's only fitting we let nature run it's course.

Of course they must "make music"

*daydreams... has nosebleed... remains oblivious to the large amount of blood loss... dies*

 

[isayhello]

****: I actually started having a real, true nosebleed right now. must be the...strange... desire... I've had....lately... to....see..... Totchi-kun and Kyo... go yaoi.

*TRUE nosebleed* (how anime isn't THAT!?)

*isn't dead yet*
blood dripping................................................. leaves computer.....

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Hehe... never had a yaoi induced nosebleed before... almost had one the other day. You know how you get that nosebleed headache right before it happens... erhmm maybe that's just me...

Please don't die! ...I'll take Totchi-kun if you do. Hope that's incentive enough.

 

[isayhello]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO *wakes from the dead, blood all over the floor and computer* don't take Toshiya from me!! *is fully revived*

I'm fine now. Promise. *blood still dripping*

headache? can't say I've ever had a nosebleed-headache before. I get a nosebleed quite often - I'm so frail! *all dramatic*

But I won't die. Couldn't let you take Totchi-kun from me. (we were supposed to share him, couldn't let you get all the fun.)

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Yay! It worked.

I am weird so yea I have pre-nosebleed headaches...

Of course we'll share... sharing is caring la la la la la *dances and throws confetti*

 

[Maze]

bishonen...hmmm...yummy

Hello minna!

What an interesting thread!
Why do girls like yaoi and shonen-ai so much? I don't have the slighest idea, but what I've noticed is that I like to slash some of my male friends into a yaoi couple VERY much.^^ They think I'm wierd but some of them like to act as if they were a couple just for the sake of making fun of the real gay guys....
I think I'm more into a shonen-ai and just as Isayhello-san I love teacher/student relationship the best ( Raphael/Mikael from Tenshi ni Narumon being my favourite ) but hardcore ones are a nice change from time to time

I think that it is interesting how yaoi fangirl's ideal type of man differs so much from the typical one (I mean a big, sturdy, often hairy type of man) which, let be honest, most of the girls/women prefer (at least in European/American culture) I myself am so into bishonen, yaoi, shonen-ai that I'm trying to look everywhere for slim, delicate, almost feminine type of guys like the ones portrayed in most manga/anime (and is it just me, or most of them happen to be Japanese? )

Anyway, I'm curious to see your opinions!

 

[isayhello]

Hello Maze-san:: Raphael and Mikael of Tenshi ni Narumon are completely HOT - and funny thing is that the Tenshi-anime isn't a shonen-ai series at all, but just a normal one, untill Raphael and Mikael all of a sudden start... well... acting really lovable towards eachother!! KYA!

I have also noticed and found it interesting that our (the girls who love yaoi) ideal-man differs from the "normal" ideal. As you say, I totally agree: most women, and all of my female friends, all love men who look like Brad Pitt or worse *shivers* Those guys doesn't interest me one bit, I cannot find them attractive! At first, I though there was something wrong with me *hehe*----but then I discovered the wonderful world of Japan, japanese men (who more often than european and american men tend to be thin and beautiful) and yaoi. But these thin, beautiful, feminine men aren't easy to find - at least not in Sweden. *cries*
Japanese men aren't always beautiful and thin, but it seems there are more japanese men looking like that than there is caucasian men... ? Might just have been looking in the wrong places...

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

There are beautiful feminine, thin, pale, white men. They are hard to find though. OMG... I just thought of one *gets real excited and searches for picture* Ahhh I got him... Behold Brian Molko here Can a man really be that pretty... well a white man... we've established that Japanese men can be gorgeous *drools*

Granted he has looked all sorts of funky when experimenting with different look he is still beautiful... and he kisses other guys too... *faints*

 

[Maze]

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I just wish all those 'manly' men could acknowledge that not only their "kind" has the right to be women's ideal... Unfortunately, they think that the only kind of man woman can fall in love is a macho, Arnold Schwarzeneger-like man (no offence to his fans!) and any male who acts just slightly effeminate they label as 'homo', 'gay', 'fag' or something worse...and often ostracize...
I don't quite get it... why can't man look pretty, even beautiful? Why can't they act more delicate, calmer...? The thing is those stereotypes work not only among straight guys, but also gay ones (the only tolerated ones are transvestites but that's another case...)
It gets on my nerves when I see another interview about men and women (or something similar)on TV where practically every female claims that man without muscles, one that doesn't have a "instinct of a hunter" isn't really sexually attractive ("man using cosmetics? man wearing make up? colourful,frivolous clothes? Oh My God, that's friggin' gay!") well, as I said I don't have nerves to listen to this...
Let's hope things change for better... someday...

Sorry if it was somehow OFT...

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

I just wish all those 'manly' men could acknowledge that not only their "kind" has the right to be women's ideal... Unfortunately, they think that the only kind of man woman can fall in love is a macho, Arnold Schwarzeneger-like man (no offence to his fans!) and any male who acts just slightly effeminate they label as 'homo', 'gay', 'fag' or something worse...and often ostracize...
I don't quite get it... why can't man look pretty, even beautiful? Why can't they act more delicate, calmer...? The thing is those stereotypes work not only among straight guys, but also gay ones (the only tolerated ones are transvestites but that's another case...)
It gets on my nerves when I see another interview about men and women (or something similar)on TV where practically every female claims that man without muscles, one that doesn't have a "instinct of a hunter" isn't really sexually attractive ("man using cosmetics? man wearing make up? colourful,frivolous clothes? Oh My God, that's friggin' gay!") well, as I said I don't have nerves to listen to this...
Let's hope things change for better... someday...

Sorry if it was somehow OFT...

Wow... well said. and I'm completely with you. I really hope things will change. That makes me so angry. We don't "have" to like manly men. We live in an age now where men don't have to kill mammoths and stuff for survival. Were civilized now. We don't need ape men to protect us and feed us. What's wrong with men who care about there appearances? If women can put there best face on why can't men?

I'm glad my b/f understands. He's bi so it makes it easier. He doesn't get weirded out by my taste in men. Then again we fight over who gets what jrocker... I think it's kinda cute sometimes I still think I would be the one to get lucky with Mana... tee-hee!

 

[isayhello]

yeah! Men should dare to be more feminine, or at least dare to care about.. how they look. I mean, many guys I know don't even wanna confess they care about what they wear... or.. anything.
Men with make-up are most of the time just pretty, and I really don't think all men with makeup look "gay"...
Gambatte, all you bishonen!!!
The old ideals have to go - no more Arnold Schwarzeneger-men! We need a new male ideal!
Oh, and Pinkkiller: Who's that Brian Molko? Is he someone famous? *feels stupid* or is he just a friend of yours? He's really beautiful, rare sight since he's caucasian and all...