What's a (Western) woman to do?

[bonita]

mmm....I dunno exactly. They're so cute and kind. I like gentle people. And, well, i think they look and sound cool. And also my bf is Japanese, that may have contributed to my appreciation. Have you been to italy?

 

[Duo]

yeah a couple of times, i also lived in rome for 8 months, it's the best. Hmm, interesting what you say about asians, in a way i guess ur right, but still, i dont think i could allow myself to have such a preferance, there are just 2 many cuties out there asian and non

 

[bonita]

Yeah! Rome is really fantastic! I have some great pics. I'm in Milano though, it's not quite as mmm...impressive...Do you speak Italian?Any other languages?
Well, ofcourse the most important thing in a partner is the person, not the nationality. But I'm just saying I'm kind of more struck with Japanese guys. If things didn't work out with my bf, then i wouldn't neccessarily go out with another Japanese guy. It just depends on who you meet and how you get on. But I'm really happy at then mo, so it's all good.

 

[Duo]

yeah i speak italian, english, getting to know french and about it. I get what you are sayin. I dont mean to sound rude or anything, i'm just wondering, that's all.

 

[bonita]

wow! now your speaking my languages! I'm learning italian now I didn't think you meant to be rude! i just wanted to explain a bit more so you wouldn't misunderstand me. Didn't mean to sound defensive!

 

[ObscureAngel]

um, i've never really thought of it that way......... i get plenty of looks and stares from Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Tai... well pretty much most Asian men... not just stares like, " ew that is that?" i mean " WOW" stares.

its odd they won't approch you untill something is said, i mean i just got out of a 3 year relatio0n ship with a Chinese man named Ken, he was actually very nice... he said nothing about fear of rejection