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alright, i see a good look girl walking down the street and i want to ask her out, anyone know what im supposed to say to her to ask her out?

im smart funny and goodlooking so noone comment that she will say no, because you've got to keep positive.
 
I been trying to formulate a course of action for such a situation as well but so far nothing creative or constructive has challenged my mind expet the usual "miss I'm sorry but you're so beautiful I had to stop you etc etc" which is too stereotypical and seem phony and what woman would ever actually say ohh really I think you're cute and sweet when obvioulsy the regular reaction would be wtfff, get the f***k away you weirdo. Well for starters a smile should be shown and if she smiles back or reacts positively to to it, then we can one move to phase 2, which we still have to establish, but if all these smart forum members help us out maybe we can figure smth out, but then again i don't know maybe since you are a self proclaimed good luckin intellegent smart guy a line from you or a smile would melt the innocent fair young maiden going about her bussiness so......... i guess it also depends on the people ;)
 
Look directly at her and when she makes eye contact smile. If she returns your smile then there is a slight interest. Problem is many people are busy even too busy to talk now days so trying to stop her on the street maybe difficult task. Hopefully the smile is mutual and you 'll just simply need to stop her and ask her name politely. if she is with friends acknowledge her friends first then greet her last. THen simply ask her out but try to do it in a almost non chalant way. Be charming and funny. that always easy the tention of a stranger approaching out of the blue. Good luck.
 
"im smart funny and goodlooking so noone comment that she will say no, because you've got to keep positive."

Don't forget to add modesty to your list of traits...
 
geno said:
alright, i see a good look girl walking down the street and i want to ask her out, anyone know what im supposed to say to her to ask her out?

im smart funny and goodlooking so noone comment that she will say no, because you've got to keep positive.

walk to her, and say straight in her face : WANNE ****???

hehe no joke ( well you can try it ;)) follow her, maybe she will go into a superrmarket.. or something like that... when she gets a product you can talk to her about it.. or ask her the way to something...

ask her the time? or let your BIG BIG BIG wallet drop on the floor.. so she can see all your credit cards ...

something like this.. 🙂
 
dutch baka said:
walk to her, and say straight in her face : WANNE ****???

hehe no joke ( well you can try it ;)) follow her, maybe she will go into a superrmarket.. or something like that... when she gets a product you can talk to her about it.. or ask her the way to something...

ask her the time? or let your BIG BIG BIG wallet drop on the floor.. so she can see all your credit cards ...

something like this.. 🙂


Someone suggested to me one time the usage of the line
"I like your shoes, wanna f***
 
... get some ice, trow it in front of her, STAMP ON IT,, and say: well now they ice is broken...

great ***,, you like basketball?
 
Most men would be happy to sleep with the next hottie they see on the street, whereas most women will not, so men have to devise clever ways to fool them, haoahoaoa, the problem is how :p

so maybe soe of the women here could give us some insight as to what would would make them allow for such course of action to happen, what does the mysterious stranger have to do or say in order for you to go ohhhh, tell me more 😊
 
Iron Chef said:
"im smart funny and goodlooking so noone comment that she will say no, because you've got to keep positive."

Don't forget to add modesty to your list of traits...

:D

............
 
Iron Chef said:
"im smart funny and goodlooking so noone comment that she will say no, because you've got to keep positive."

Don't forget to add modesty to your list of traits...


Nice one Iron Chef!, that's the first thing I thought when I saw this post.
 
Try this...

I once heard a technique for meeting girls on a 'Derek and Clive' record (Peter Cook and Dudley Moore)

It is simply this: ''get your Knob out, put it in her hand and cry''

I've yet to try it - but if all else fails....Rich
 
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As a girl, I would say this;

-Don't use stupid cliched lines
-Don't disrespect her in anyway (not that you would)
-Give a good reason as to she should go out with you
-Present yourself in a respectful manner

Just to make a note: I wouldn't date you just because you were smart, good looking, funny.

And I would also say this:
If a guy came up to me and said wanna f**k? I would find the nearest heaviest item I could find and happily knock him over the head with it. And then I would giggle and walk away. 😊
 
Ma Cherie said:
If a guy came up to me and said wanna f**k? I would find the nearest heaviest item I could find and happily knock him over the head with it. And then I would giggle and walk away. 😊

hahaha i know some guys who did this .. sometimes it works to say really straight... sometims a slap in the face...

for myself,, i am WAY TO SHY.. to say something like this.. 😊
 
geno said:
alright, i see a good look girl walking down the street and i want to ask her out, anyone know what im supposed to say to her to ask her out?

im smart funny and goodlooking so noone comment that she will say no, because you've got to keep positive.
Business Man, you need to give a little more personal detail, just as you would to the 'hot chic' you have in mind. Otherwise you can come across as insincere which only deserves a slap in the face. So if you are asking for a formulaic 'pick-up line,' forget it ! End of deal. No business. :D

Do tell more about your infatuation. It's not some hypothetical, possilbe, unknown hottie as you seem to make out. There is one particular person, right :? I know this for a near fact because you sound rather tense.
 
lexico said:
Business Man, you need to give a little more personal detail, just as you would to the 'hot chic' you have in mind. Otherwise you can come across as insincere which only deserves a slap in the face. So if you are asking for a formulaic 'pick-up line,' forget it ! End of deal. No business. :D

Do tell more about your infatuation. It's not some hypothetical, possilbe, unknown hottie as you seem to make out. There is one particular person, right :? I know this for a near fact because you sound rather tense.


ahh, that is sort of true, i see the same girl walking about we have eye contact and we both smile but then what should i do?

oh i love the thing about modesty.....oh yeah, i am truely modest i tell you, but not too much because that makes me egotistical.

Oh Ma Cherie,

"Just to make a note: I wouldn't date you just because you were smart, good looking, funny."


i didn't say this was assure a date i was just clearing things that might be said, but obviously these are good traits.
 
geno said:
ahh, that is sort of true, i see the same girl walking about we have eye contact and we both smile but then what should i do ?
O, good. You've already established a relationship although no words were spoken. It sounds like there's no repulsive feelings towards each other, and that is good.

Now since no one has made any moves till now, but you seem to want to explore the possibilities about you two. I'd say you can think ahead using your imagination. The things involved in your case would be several-fold, but nothing out of this world either. I'd presume she's about your age ? Ask yourself some of these questions, and it might help you formulate how you want to go about this.

1. What about her attracts you ?
2. What do you two have in common ?
3. What else do you (would you like to) know about her ?

I guess you could say something like, 'Hello, I'm such-and-such. I don't know you, but I've noticed you take your rides here. I wonder if you're free this weekend ?' If she says yes, great. If not, ask her for her name and contact. 'How would I reach you by cell phone or email ?' If she seems uncomfortable about giving out her name or contact, give yours on a piece of paper and see what happens.

There's really no magical formula, but it helps to be natural, to feel good about yourself and to be positive like you said. The greatest thing about knowing people is that they are unpredictable until you get to know them. Then they often turn out to be predictably positive; then again the details are still unpredictable. :)
 
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lexico said:
There's really no magical formula, but it helps to be natural, to feel good about yourself and to be positive like you said. The greatest thing about knowing people is that they are unpredictable until you get to know them. Then they often turn out to be predictably positive; then again the details are still unpredictable. :)

This says it all, right then the next time i see her, im going to go for it, alrighty then, i shall keep you all updated on the outcome.
 
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