Boy x boy - why is it sexy?

[Doc]

...and Jesus doesn't have a middle initial and he doesn't appreciate you using his name that way.

H=Holy And it's joke from the movie Fletch so

...and congrats on breaking the cycle and not liking women making out. I'm sure you have your own guilty pleasures you aren't telling us. To each his/her own.

You're right I do have my own guilty pleasures, but you'll never know them so

Hey... and not nice singling out people and making fun... it's your choice to be in here. you know

It's called teasing, ever heard of that? *poke* *poke* Guess not so

...and a few more of these little guys cause I can

Hey guess what? I can do that too so

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[pinkkillerkisou]

Sorry never heard of it

Well then make a thread about them and disgust us right back

Yes... it's not nice either...

So what... I can do this

 

[Ma Cherie]

Goodness, pinkkillerkisou. I find that signature of yours strangly arousing.

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Haha... the signature? Don't you mean the thing in my post? *scratches head*

 

[Ma Cherie]

Yeah, that's what I mean dear, your post. Goodness, my brain isn't fuctioning correctly. But arousing nontheless.

 

[Doc]

Sorry never heard of it

Well then make a thread about them and disgust us right back

Yes... it's not nice either...

So what... I can do this

*poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* I'm going to keep poking you in the ribs until you stop being mean to me. *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke*

BTW I can do this


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[antaBAKA]

i cant do that......and i havnt really seen yaoi but shounen ai is good.....but yah....i also like the fact that its discreet and there is no hardcore action in it.....for some reason its good.....

 

[Maze]

mmm...

HELLO to all shonen-ai and yaoi fans out there!
I'm back!!

One quick question:
which types of seme and uke do you prefer most?
I find the persistant, agressive yet gentle and caring seme + a little cold and indifferent but shy and easily embarrassed uke THE BEST! (no wonder my best pairing is Raphael and Mikael from Tenshi ni Narumon hehe )

what about you, guys?


And yeah, shonen-ai is sometimes soooo much better... that unresolved sexual tension floating in the air... awww...

 

[isayhello]

You're right I do have my own guilty pleasures, but you'll never know them so

Doc:ramen:

(We told You everything about our yaoi pleasures!)
Please do share your guilty pleasures with us. (Doesn't happen to be Love Hotels does it? )

Oh, and WHERE did you get that clipd from (with the policemen and the gun XD .. that's a swedish movie you know.. *proud*... you saw it?) (Fletch is a good movie XDDD )

There's nothing sick with liking yaoi or shonen-ai or guys kiss. Besides... I don't know about the other people on this thread, but it's not that I'm mad about ANY guys kissing.. and I'm not interested at all in gay guys actually! (this sounds soo strange, how can I explain?)
As long as they are bishonen and hold hands and kiss, fine by me! But NO german gay porn video, thanks!
Shonen ai is pure beauty, that's all. Who doesn't like pure beauty? ☝

So what... I can do this *video of Miyavi kissing*

You just made me very very happy. To watch Miyavi-beauty-above-all-beauties-with-the-most-perfect-body-and-face-the-man-is-pure-sex kiss... It just gives me... *nosebleed* I'm soo happy... !

One quick question: which types of seme and uke do you prefer most?

To tell you the truth, I agree with your pairing.. I love Raphael and Mikael from Tenshi ni Narumon too! They're just great! Other than that, I want at least one of them to be tough, dark or even a little evil... I guess that would be the seme.. The uke will always have to be more cute and unknowing.
I really think Yuki and Kyo from Fruits Basket would make a great couple, cause they hate eachother, but they still can't help that they seem to have some sort of connection... (hidden love?) oops... that's just my own daydream wish.. XD
The most important thing is that there has to be lots and LOTS of unresolved sexual tension... that stuff is good to watch! *insane giggle*

 

[Maze]

mmm...

Other than that, I want at least one of them to be tough, dark or even a little evil... I guess that would be the seme.. The uke will always have to be more cute and unknowing.

But you know... it was Mikael who turned out to be a bad guy (moreover an insane one) ... but yeah, he still managed to come out really cute, but that beside the point... Raphael was the only good and normal guy in that series... that kinda breaks the bad seme/good uke rule in some way...
The same can be applied to Kanone/Eyes relationship from anime Spiral...

 

[Doc]

(We told You everything about our yaoi pleasures!)
Please do share your guilty pleasures with us. (Doesn't happen to be Love Hotels does it? )

First of all, my guilty pleasure has to deal with things with a little more class than with love hotels. I would never share my secrets with anybody because I'm not that kind of guy. Besides it's more fun with having a little mystery in your life anyway.

Oh, and WHERE did you get that clipd from (with the policemen and the gun XD .. that's a swedish movie you know.. *proud*... you saw it?) (Fletch is a good movie XDDD )

I never saw the Swedish film, but I suspected it was either of Swedish, German, or some other country close to one another in that region. How could I tell? Volvo police car and the gun was a Sig Sauer (which is a Swiss gun company, but the guns are made in Germany). Plus the uniform and location were a dead giveaway too that it was somewhere in Sweden and around those areas with the design of the buildings. Very European. That clip was an avatar from a member at the Running With Scissors board (RWS is the makers of the Postal 2. The same game series that got banned in Sweden for a while by some loser in the government. )Yes Fletch is a great movie. It's my favorite comdey of all time. I memorized the lines from that movie too.

There's nothing sick with liking yaoi or shonen-ai or guys kiss. Besides... I don't know about the other people on this thread, but it's not that I'm mad about ANY guys kissing.. and I'm not interested at all in gay guys actually! (this sounds soo strange, how can I explain?)
As long as they are bishonen and hold hands and kiss, fine by me! But NO german gay porn video, thanks!
Shonen ai is pure beauty, that's all. Who doesn't like pure beauty? ☝

First of all, I'm just giving you guys a hard time. I find it funny that you love homosexual hentai with two guys, but absolutely freak out about the same thing with two women. Second of all, I never said anything was wrong with two men being together. Some of my friends are homosexual and it doesn't bother me. Homosexuals are people just you and me. Third, I just find it strange that you girls like to see two guys kissing, but then again like I posted earlier in this thread I think it has to do with the same thing with men and lesbians. You guys deep down want to be part of the action. I mean what women wouldn't want to do it with two guys that are very sensitive in emotion, and very passionate during sex? It's basically the same for a guy with two women (although some guys are just a bit more out of tune with emotion, and just want sex period).

Don't take it so hard that I'm bugging you guys okay? Beside you need a male in this thread to shake things up a little bit. Get things to be interesting instead of just saying the same damn thing over and over again about how you love yaoi. Get's old after a while doesn't it? Just remember I'm just teasing you guys, and I'm not judging you. That's not my place. Just remember to have some fun even if somebody decided to play Devil's Advocate in this thread.

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[isayhello]

First of all, my guilty pleasure has to deal with things with a little more class than with love hotels. I would never share my secrets with anybody because I'm not that kind of guy. Besides it's more fun with having a little mystery in your life anyway.

I'll do my best to find out. *starts researching*

I never saw the Swedish film.
Yes Fletch is a great movie. It's my favorite comdey of all time. I memorized the lines from that movie too.

The Swedish film is OK, but the clip you showed is actually the best part in it, so you can understand that it's not that great...
I could not not like Fletch.. my brother has some wierd obsession with that film and watches it over and over again... He says something about 'the movie making him feel safe' or something... my brother is psychotic..

First of all, I'm just giving you guys a hard time. I find it funny that you love homosexual hentai with two guys, but absolutely freak out about the same thing with two women. Second of all, I never said anything was wrong with two men being together. Some of my friends are homosexual and it doesn't bother me. Homosexuals are people just you and me. Third, I just find it strange that you girls like to see two guys kissing, but then again like I posted earlier in this thread I think it has to do with the same thing with men and lesbians. You guys deep down want to be part of the action. I mean what women wouldn't want to do it with two guys that are very sensitive in emotion, and very passionate during sex? It's basically the same for a guy with two women (although some guys are just a bit more out of tune with emotion, and just want sex period).

Ok, ok, I get you. It's OK. Actually, I agree with what you said.. or partly. I mean, I can see why I like yaoi. It's two men. And I love pretty bishonen - so when there's two of them I guess that's even better! And, seing them as emotional and loveable as they usually are in shonen-ai moves me.

Maybe I DO want to be part of the action. One of my friends (guy friend) told me about the same thing.. that what I really wanted was to be part of the action and that I dream about a guy (or two) that are as emotional and passionate as in the yaoi series, and that's why I like yaoi.
He also told me the reason I like yaoi is because my self consciousness and self esteem is really low (he assumed) and I can't really bear the though of actually being with these guys - instead I choose to safely watch them together..
Yaoi, with two men, instead of a man and a woman, also gives the girls reading/watching the yaoi a sense of ownership, since there's no girl rivaling and taking the love from the male characters... I'm not sure this is how I feel, but that's been said about yaoi...

Men in Japan has explained the yaoi phenomena as a 'sex-fright' among young women. Loving yaoi=being scared of sex? (I don't think so)

But.. at the same time, japanese popculture really supports the whole yaoi culture.. feminine, beautiful, thin guys are really popular in media or among women, and man x man action is popular too. Even in childrens animes (as said before)... It's puzzling.. since I can see a line drawn between being Gay and being Yaoi. Being Gay isn't popular, at least not in the 'Gay' way. Being occasionally 'Yaoi', on the other hand, is really popular (among men)

Last: I've got no problem with girl x girl action. It's not attractive, that's all. But I don't hate it or think it wrong in any way.

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

*poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* I'm going to keep poking you in the ribs until you stop being mean to me. *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke* *poke*

BTW I can do this


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*cuts off all you fingers*
Now try and poke me...*sticks out tongue*

And I would continue this "Look what I can do" game but the next thing I was going to post was wayyyyyy to graphic so I'll leave it to your imagination.

You just made me very very happy. To watch Miyavi-beauty-above-all-beauties-with-the-most-perfect-body-and-face-the-man-is-pure-sex kiss... It just gives me... *nosebleed* I'm soo happy... !

Gotta spread the Meev love wherever I can

 

[Doc]

*cuts off all you fingers*
Now try and poke me...*sticks out tongue*

And I would continue this "Look what I can do" game but the next thing I was going to post was wayyyyyy to graphic so I'll leave it to your imagination.

Lucky for you my hands are cyborionic, or I'd probably have to hunt you down for that one. You post something graphic?! Keh! I can do worse you petty little girl, I can do worse! Now don't go starting anything either because me and isayhello already made amends, and you should do the same.

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[geist_seig]

nothing wrong with yaoi or shounen ai, always cute.. yet different strokes for different folks..

 

[stalky]

don't you think that our dreams (so mine too ) about this feminine guys are only dreams? i mean that theres no so many guys who are not afraid of showing their real (more feminine) personality - most of boys behave like typical macho and even if deep down they are different people - they won't show it to us and i don't think its going to change...

 

[geist_seig]

hmm, Its all amatter where you look..

 

[stalky]

i wish you were right

 

[Doc]

don't you think that our dreams (so mine too ) about this feminine guys are only dreams? i mean that theres no so many guys who are not afraid of showing their real (more feminine) personality - most of boys behave like typical macho and even if deep down they are different people - they won't show it to us and i don't think its going to change...

That's because men, no matter what culture, are brought up to be that way. Women are brought up to be the way they are because of it too. That's why men never tell secrets or have sympathy talks with their buddies. They were brought up not to be like that. I was brought up to be just like any other male, but it didn't turn out that way. I'm more feminine than you think. I'm not afraid to admit it either. I'm always a good listener, keep secrets, and help my friends when they need (talk to them). Most men don't do that, only women do. If a guy does have any of those qualities he's considered a homosexual. Well I hate to break it to you, but I'm not gay.

Men are more emotionally fragile than women are. Men are also more intune with their emotions than women are. Men also have more stress than women do, even a pregnant woman. Why? It's because men can't speak openly about how they feel. They're not supposed to by general belief. Men are more likely to commit suicide than women would on emotional heartbreak, betryal, and hurt. There are guys who are in tune with themselves and are not macho. To be honest I hate macho crap. There are very few testostrone filled activities and intrests that I like. There are men out there, you just have to look for them.

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[stalky]

well i agree in with that what you wrote there - but it6 doesn't mean that all women thinks the same and all men behaves the same - i'm a woman and i never tell people about my feelings (maybe when i'm angry i show that) i don't like listen to people's secrets and people rather don't like to tell me such things (only those courageous one) because i'm sarcastic and too straightforward
but lets back to the topic
i think that there's a lot feminine guys but they are afraid of show they real personality, because the society (maybe) won't accept them
people should be more tolerant - not all guys are macho and all girls are sweet, kind, lovely
you said about the way men and women are bringing up in in every culture - so we can see that stereotypes are the same in every part of world

hmm... shouldn't we talk about yaoi here???

 

[alexriversan]

ya, i found ways not to use these words...
the thing is part of what we are(same sex relationship)
now, i can talk with a girl, not necessarily including sex?

probably that's called "macho stereotype", woman just waiting for "strong" man and just for sex purpose.

and, if you tell "hey i like woman only" i have bad news for you: woman are NOT looking for these guys.

emotional interaction is not allowed, or better say: was not allowed.
soon it might become normal, and no gheys anymore.

what "it" might be: well man and woman have similar bodies, except a small difference. the perception is the same.

means homosexuality, to use this word, is an illness: unable to react on partners of the opposite sex. i do not know if it really exists, or if it is completely made up.

ya, i do not read such manga*, just tv basketball animation... i do not even have it around. but, i consider my opinion as true, and important.

recently i have learned the word "choke", and it can be applied to girl/boy context very well: boy "chokes up" because of strong emotion for the girl, gets red and so on. but that's not the only meaning.

*means i am a bandwagoning fanboy

 

[isayhello]

That's because men, no matter what culture, are brought up to be that way. Women are brought up to be the way they are because of it too. That's why men never tell secrets or have sympathy talks with their buddies. They were brought up not to be like that. I was brought up to be just like any other male, but it didn't turn out that way. I'm more feminine than you think. I'm not afraid to admit it either. I'm always a good listener, keep secrets, and help my friends when they need (talk to them). Most men don't do that, only women do. If a guy does have any of those qualities he's considered a homosexual. Well I hate to break it to you, but I'm not gay.
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I agree with what you said. I think there problem is that there seem to be two 'groups' of men - either you're really 'guyish' and manly and act like you're 'supposed' to, OR you're feminine. And ALL feminine guys are considered homosexual. What people don't seem to accept are guys who explore their more feminie sides WITHOUT being gay.

What's interesting is that part of the yaoi phenomena has nothing to do with homosexuality. It's more a fascination for feminine men spending time together because it's beautiful when they do. They don't have to be gay, they only have to be together. Jrockers do the 'fanservice' yaoi-things with eachother, not because they are gay (in most cases), but because they want to attract their female fans!

hmm... shouldn't we talk about yaoi here???

we are, aren't we? Just look at this:

That's such a pretty picture!

 

[stalky]

you're rights isayhello, but we also like yaoi because there's so much so pretty bishies... and - guys don't be mad - they're just better than most real guys, so boys should start to read yaoi to know what we are expecting from them

and look at this pic:

 

[pinkkillerkisou]

Lucky for you my hands are cyborionic, or I'd probably have to hunt you down for that one. You post something graphic?! Keh! I can do worse you petty little girl, I can do worse! Now don't go starting anything either because me and isayhello already made amends, and you should do the same.

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<--a few of these little guys to set the mood of the post

...and you did not just call me a petty little girl. That's it... it's on... I am quite sure my maturity level is three thousand times higher than yours... I may seem like a silly little yaoi fangirl but... well... ok... *shuts up* I am more mature then you it seems... You want me to stop being mean... you keep pushing the subject. Even if you still post back to this... I'l ignore you... that's the only way to stop it.

I don't forgive... and I don't forget... and call me crazy but you seem to enjoy this...

No I won't post what I was going to post... I'll get banned for sure.


....Ok. Back on the topic of yaoi/shonen-ai... I have picked my pairings for my jrocker shonen-ai comic/story... wahaha It will be 3 pairings/stories that all take place at the same-ish time... all the characters are related (no not the incest type of related... their stories intertwine is what I mean) Ok the pairs are...

- MiyavixToshiya (Isay really got me to love this pair)
- SatsukixKaoru (*dies already* )
- KaryuxZero (Paooooon There are too cute... couldn't resist)

 

[Doc]

<--a few of these little guys to set the mood of the post

...and you did not just call me a petty little girl. That's it... it's on... I am quite sure my maturity level is three thousand times higher than yours... I may seem like a silly little yaoi fangirl but... well... ok... *shuts up* I am more mature then you it seems... You want me to stop being mean... you keep pushing the subject. Even if you still post back to this... I'l ignore you... that's the only way to stop it.

I don't forgive... and I don't forget... and call me crazy but you seem to enjoy this...

No I won't post what I was going to post... I'll get banned for sure.


....Ok. Back on the topic of yaoi/shonen-ai... I have picked my pairings for my jrocker shonen-ai comic/story... wahaha It will be 3 pairings/stories that all take place at the same-ish time... all the characters are related (no not the incest type of related... their stories intertwine is what I mean) Ok the pairs are...

- MiyavixToshiya (Isay really got me to love this pair)
- SatsukixKaoru (*dies already* )
- KaryuxZero (Paooooon There are too cute... couldn't resist)

Me? Enjoying our little banter? Just kidding. Hey you were the one that pushed it to the next level by threating to post a very inappropriate picture on the forum. Besides I went back on topic anyway. You really think I find you disgusting for being a yaoi fangirl don't you? To be completely honest I don't. As they say different strokes for different folks. The only reason why I teased you was because this thread was dying a very horrible death, and needed some CPR. I mean instead of having a very intellectual discussion on why women like yaoi, it ended up turning into a "I love yaoi" on every post. I just tried to kick it back into the swing of things that's all. You just took my lighthearted fun too seroiusly, and went to the next level.

I seriously don't find what you like disgusting (now if you had fetish about fecies and urination, then I would probably flame you). As I told isayhello, I'm trying to dig deeper into the meaning of why women like it so much. Come on, stop sulking and join in on the fun. Besides you might learn something on why you like yaoi so much. Just remember I'm just trying to get the ball rolling for some interesting discussions here, so just try and remember to have some fun in this topic okay?

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