Worried about kyo

[boobiebutt]

i wonder if there is ever a band that had a vocalist that sings out of one of them artifical voice things they stick in their neck T_T that would be cool.....

kyo should take care of his voice! rawr! and himself for that matter...

 

[j0ylucky]

I thought I heard something about Kyo not drinking because of one incident (sp?) where he got really sick afterwards.. *shrug*

 

[Honey Vanity]

Yeah, Kyo doea have a tendency to over use himself to an unhealthly point. Remember when they had to cancle their concerts because f the problem he washaving with his voice? Poor baby.

 

[boobiebutt]

maybe he IS losing his voice

 

[Honey Vanity]

No, I don't think so. Not in a physical sense. But in the sense that he's loosing his heart yes. In school we're taught that when we're dealing with most of out patience a good percentage is mental. Even with common stuff like colds it can usually be traced back to something in the mind. I think Kyo is loosing himself.

 

[Anchyyy]

Even with common stuff like colds it can usually be traced back to something in the mind. I think Kyo is loosing himself.

I agree with that. But he has to realize he is breathing just for himself. He has to realize that to live is something beautiful. He has to find out that many people love him, even tho he is maybe feeling alone in the moment. It's not helping that someone would tell him that. He must find that truth all by himself. Friends can only support him and show him that they care.

 

[Honey Vanity]

As someone whos been on both sides of the treatment, it is So incredibaly hard to ask or accept any help what so ever. People resist treatment even when theyre at the point where theyve been dragged by their friends to the treatment center. There has to be a change where he is first willing before any of the rest can happen. It dosent matter how deep hes in or how much people care if hes not ready its not gonna happen. Not even the knowledge that people care.

 

[neostereo]

Don't shoot me for this, but I also hear Kyo has a drinking problem now too. ;_; He really worries me on that one.

Errm, I dare to doubt this, since he has said he doesn't even like to drink. ._.

Where is all this pointless **** coming from? I mean, Kyo's problems, Totchi, blablabla! Could someone give me some reliable sources? I'm getting really tired of reading all these pointless rumours.
And nothing personal against anyone, I'm just extremely pissed. A while ago there was a rumour that Kyo had died/killed himself, I could've killed the ***** who had the guts to say that. I'm SO mad about all this crap!

*does some freak-dancing*

 

[-rika- shinya`]

we have already dismissed it as untrue because when asked of a reliable source, nobody can give one. there used to be silly rumor like this too around the year 2000-01, talking about totchi leaving the band. and look where diru are now! there are just too many things like these. some people are just too free/has some problems to be making up that kyo had died they need to get a grip. just don't get too worked up about those people, neostereo. it isn't worth your time

 

[Champloo]

Well, it ges to the point you don't know WHAT to believe anymore. v.v;;

 

[-rika- shinya`]

i hope no one will end up doing a 'gackt'. this is getting too ridiculous..

 

[Champloo]

What do you mean, a 'Gackt'? *is not with the time apparently*

 

[-rika- shinya`]

what gackt did with MM. noone from the band knew he left and later they only knew through the news..☝ this has nothing to do with diru, and I don't think this is will happen to them.

 

[Honey Vanity]

sorry that this made you angry.

Personally I'm not beliving anything untill someone provides a link.

What I'm upset about are the pics posted early on on this forum. And who ever said that Kyo had died seriously had their communications crossed.

 

[neostereo]

Yeah. Nowadays I tend not to believe anything bigger if it isn't mentioned in an interview or official sites. x_x I'ts just damn annoying when you have to read that kind of crap from everywhere.

 

[Honey Vanity]

Ugh! Tell me about it. I mean its hard enough to figure out what's going on with what we know for CERTAIN let alone guess with all this crazy other stuff flying around. Especially on a forum such as this one with such a sensitive topic.

 

[-rika- shinya`]

sorry that this made you angry.

i agree..don't get too worked up over this.

 

[Honey Vanity]

Yeah, in the long run we're all just worried bout the man.

 

[neostereo]

Yeah, and that was the original point of this whole conversation. I think I'll just ignore all the crap-posts.

 

[Honey Vanity]

Well said!

In fact since this seems to be such a sensitive topic why dont we make sure to provide links whenever we talk about interviews and what not just so we can all double check the things we hear. I mean this whole issue is upsetting enough as it is. I think the last thing the potential rumor mill that makes some people's mothers cry and some people's fathers slap them is stuff from this thread.

 

[Champloo]

Ok, Toshiya said he talked to Kyo about the chest carving. Kyo said, it's just for show, and that it wasn't anything big. I said: It better be. <.< Or I will spork him. XD I personally think he was weirded out by the question, if I know the guy correctly. I also don't know if Toshiya was just repeating what Kyo said when he talked about it in times prior either. ;/ However, this being said out of one of their own mouths, you can trust it.

 

[-rika- shinya`]

i'm confused about your post champloo btw where did you get the interview?

 

[Kinsao]

I think (although I have no proof or link ><) that it's almost sure the other band members have talked to Kyo about him hurting himself... because it is a problem for him... (I don't mean that in an insulting way to anyone.) I'm sure they would have tried their best to help him, even though it's not easy. In the end it's down to him and to cope with things in whatever way he can.

About smoking... it really does damage the voice. Just because you can't hear it straightaway doesn't mean it's not doing any damage. And of course, some people's throats are more resilient than others', so they could smoke and sing for years and maybe not notice anything, whereas other people could get affected more quickly.

In any case, a lot of smokers don't get problems with their throat or lungs until later in life, say, when they're in their late 40s, or their 50s and 60s. And I don't want anyone to get lung cancer or some such disease when they are old, neither!

Personally I think you can hear the difference in Kyo's voice more recently, and I think the quality is deteriorating (I mean slightly - I don't mean to say his voice suddenly became no good or something!). Although some of it might be to do with the hammer he gives his voice, rather than anything to do with smoking.

As for the other rumours - pfft! who will possibly know yet?!

 

[neostereo]

Kinsao, you're right about smoking, and Kyo's voice. Has anyone noticed how much he screams and yells and stuff, and doesn't "sing properly" so much anymore? It's not a bad thing necessarily, but I think he should take good care of his voice, since it's one of the best voices I've ever heard. I also want it to stay like that.

[ //: And about the throat/lung-problems: My uncle has been smoking since he was 12 or something, now he's around 50 and he's got COPD. :/ Luckily, my dad's quit smoking. ]

 

[Yokan]

Yeah true perhaps the [Orgamistic] screaming can make his voice change! but I like it that way too If it makes his voice change very badly though, he should stop.