Japanese girls & White guys - White girls & Japanese guys

japaniese+white

  • nice match

    Votes: 183 56.5%
  • will never workout

    Votes: 13 4.0%
  • Maybe

    Votes: 76 23.5%
  • What are you talking about man?

    Votes: 53 16.4%

  • Total voters
    324
Im not going to read all the threads nor am i going to even try.

I think that if a person loves 1 an another then there is not problem.

I am a "white guy" dateing a japanese girl. we tend to get a few looks now and then depending on where we go but thats about it.
 
StarlitDreemz said:
Race shouldnt matter. it's all about LOVE.

Too bad there are a lot of ignorant people in the world who do not see it that way. :(

Doc 🙂
 
As sad as it is... fact remains that race does matter in our world and it will take perhaps another 100 years or so for it completely to be not considered at all.
 
I have a Dutch friend who had a Japanese father and a Dutch mother.
His parents fell in love with each other during the Japanese occupation in Indonesia.
They met in Malang, East Java, and became lovers. In 1944 my friend's mother had to go to Central Java to the same concentration camp as I in.
Can still remember the little baby, I was 17 years old then. I met him again 5 years ago together with his Philipino wife. ( Ya, the world is small).
He told me that he had met his father just once in Japan, because while his father fell in love with his mother, his father was married to a Japanese woman and had already three children, he couldn't leave her.
My friend's mother never married, she has been waiting for her Japanese lover for many years.
 
Will it ever be not be considered at all, Duo?

It not race, then it will be others things to replace it. Human nature doesn't change.
 
Golgo_13 said:
It depends on where you are. While growing up in the U.S. I've noticed that most Oriental girls went out of their way to date white guys. There was definitely some self-hatred going on regarding one's own race. One gal once said that dating an Oriental guy is almost like dating your own brother.
On the other hand, if you're in Japan a white guy may not always get 20 points right away for being white. Perhaps because most women in Japan don't speak such good English and it would be too much of a hassle to date a guy who didn;t speak Japanese too well.
If you noticed, I don't use the term "Asian" to describe the Mongoloid race. I use the old-fashioned "Oriental." To me "Asian" is improper since there are people of different races living in Asia and Chinese, Japanese and Koreans have no right to claim that they;re the only Asians. Also, "Asian" only refers to a geographical location rather than a racial category and therefore it perpetuates the stereotype of Orientals in the U.S. as foreignors ("Where are you from?" "Do you speak any English?"). Many of us who are U.S. citizens wnat to be considered and treated as legitimate Americans. If you called a white person a "European", he would most likely respond, "I'm NOT a European, I'm an American." To refer to such a person as European is to treat him as a foreignor and that is improper. Likewise, I am NOT an Asian. I am an American of the Oriental race.
BTW, many blacks do not want to be called "African-American" and many Indians do not like to be called "Native-Americans".

Hate to use a baseball-bat and knock you down, but oriental is no better, the "orient" can mean anything from turkey right through to the eastern seaboard of japan.

Though your right that not all asians are infact asian.
In britain saying asian ussually means those of indian subcontinental origin.
Suffice to say british have had to learn to distinguish between the two meanings of the same word when used.
 
duo has a point there. i don't think it should matter however. they have to learn some things from each other. but then it is also important that they should get along well with each other's families, as perhaps there will be some families with older generations or traditional ideas who may object with that.. :?
 
Duo said:
As sad as it is... fact remains that race does matter in our world and it will take perhaps another 100 years or so for it completely to be not considered at all.
100 years is pretty optimistic, don't you think?
 
Mikawa Ossan said:
100 years is pretty optimistic, don't you think?

Well, just think about what's happened in the last 100 years. Ideas have changed a great deal in a generation or two, and it's entirely possible that the trend could continue until 2100.

I remain optimistic. :-)
 
The chances of it working out or not are just as big between people of different race than of the same.It could be a little problematic although if they come from totally different cultures though.
But everyone can express himself through musik so that solves the problem.:-)

But I've got a question Golge said something about white guys being the prefferred choice?
Is that really true I can't quite get that into my head:p
 
i could imagine to marry a japanese woman :) i find them very nice and beautiful
 
moffeltoff said:
No the most beautiful women live in Frankfurt ;)

im sure they have some?... that or you just got to stop being so picky.. lol:-)
 
Carlson said:
im sure they have some?... that or you just got to stop being so picky.. lol:-)

But it's so difficult to stop being so picky....^^
And if you ever come to Frankfurt I'm sure you'll agree that the most beautiful women do live here ;)
 
The only reason i would go to frankfurt is for some drinking, nyahahaha!, germans almost have as much tolerance to drink as us scots....almost :p

(I kid, i dont drink.)

Beautiful country Germany, beautiful people, I'm glad my granpa and ma came from there of all places.
 
nurizeko said:
The only reason i would go to frankfurt is for some drinking, nyahahaha!, germans almost have as much tolerance to drink as us scots....almost :p
(I kid, i dont drink.)
Beautiful country Germany, beautiful people, I'm glad my granpa and ma came from there of all places.

You have german roots you are scottish and you still don't drink :D
Tztztz.... ^^
 
I picked it can work out, because mine has!
I am white/korean(25% Korean), and I have been dateing a full Japanese woman for about four months now.
There are some things we both are trying to change for each other(Like her being more open to me, and what not), but I have seen no problems.
I know when we move back to her home town things will change big time.xD
 
It takes a special kinda japanese woman to not only like but thrive, living in a foreign country, DAMN these women love home sweet home, the thing is, i dont see whats so appealing about a wafer thin poxy little apartment and total lack of public space.

I suppouse its comforting though to someone whos grown up there.

Suffice to say when i get my own place it better have a back and front yard.

And if we dont even have a cat im going to be annoyed. :p
 
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