Japanese girls & White guys - White girls & Japanese guys

[Damicci]

ant what does that writing in that picture say ?

The girl is supposed to be saying "I love ant ant revolution."

Hmm i am trying the whole jref friends thing and i got 3-4 girls to respond to my emails out of like 8 i sent out. just trying to make friends is hard enough but i have a japanese girl friend who strangely grew up in hawaii and is hawaiian by nature

but I have been told that the "brothers" are making a come back these days.

P.S. I am one of the "brothers" :: puts fist in the air ::

 

[TwistedMac]

Fight the Power!

 

[Flashjeff]

Hmm i am trying the whole jref friends thing and i got 3-4 girls to respond to my emails out of like 8 i sent out. just trying to make friends is hard enough but i have a japanese girl friend who strangely grew up in hawaii and is hawaiian by nature

but I have been told that the "brothers" are making a come back these days.

P.S. I am one of the "brothers" :: puts fist in the air ::

Well, I guess you've been lots luckier than this "brother"! But then, given how old and dorky looking I am, I can't say I'm surprised!

 

[shots42]

I think mixed is always decent!!! Those who say different live in a box!!

 

[Duo]

no one is saying that, i'm just saying why do people have to travel all the way to japan for sm luvin when they should look for it in their own country ?

 

[Duo]

The girl is supposed to be saying "I love ant ant revolution."

hey,thx

 

[Ruthless_Child]

Hn. Love is love, and who you love is up to you. What race or culture does not really matter to me, but to some it may be based on that. Argh, this is a complicated matter. It is far deeper than just black or white. It depends on the person, their vlaues and morals, and what they like in a girl/guy. It could go beyond the color of their skin, but it could be the color of their skin that attracts them in the first place. Myself, for example. I have a severe Japanese guy fetish. However, I am not as shallow as to go on race alone. I look at how he treats himself, his family, the enviroment, and go on that...AND WHAT IS IT WITH GUYS CUTTING THEIR TOE NAILS ON THE COFFEE TABLE! ARRRGGGH!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Duo]

u like all the guys all the same, yet you happen to have a japanese fetish, strange, don't really make sense ☝

 

[Doc]

Kind of like save the world , eat a piegon. ;-)

Doc

 

[Chiaki_Kuriyama_Fan]

if they can commit and learn each others languages and love each other, than its a good match...

 

[isayhello]

my japanese guy fetish goes beyond reasoning. *nosebleed*
i have GOT to marry a japanese guy!!!!! *desperate*

hehe.. nah, only kidding, I guess, love must go deeper than looks and race, at least when it's supposed to be a long lasting relationship or marriage...

when it feels right, nothing else matters. that's love.

 

[Doc]

You know I'm one of those guys who have a preference for Japanese girls, but I don't let interfere with my decision on a relationship. I'd still like to date one just to know what it's like (understand the culture better etc. etc.) However, after reading that Japanese girls cheat a lot on their boyfriends, husbands, etc., now I'm not so sure I really want to anymore.

Doc

 

[chimeraspirit]

I am a white female and I have a Japanese Boyfriend. We are very happy together and we get along great. I am American and he is from Japan. His english is very good and he is starting to teach me some Japanese. I am happier with him than any man i have even been with. Yes, I feel it can really work out because it has for me.

 

[MajideSaiaku]

sometimes i forget and then have to remind myself "wow...im dating a japanese girl, she comes from a far away place thats different from my own, she speaks a different language and yeah....wow.....japanese.....and im dating her...."

i think if you were to find yourself in such a relationship, and you two fall in love, you soon learn to forget the fact she/he is japanese or another nationality, it just seems to slowly become blended into what makes her, her, so its just part of her and you dont seem to be to concerned about it anymore.

another thing i learned is that while your all crazy for japan and japanese, your unlikely to actually get a japanese partner, that just isnt the way it works, if you want a relationship, you learn to love them for them, not because of where their from, thats how a solid relationship is formed and thats what japanese tend to look for.

i know this because the entire time i was an otaku (shameful past) the most i got from a japanese chick was meeting one once, and getting called an otaku and having her turn her back on me, at the time i thought it was funny, and it still is, i cant explain why its funny, just that a japanese chick called me an otaku *shrugs* anyway my point is, it doesnt get you relationships!

so sorry if im bursting any bubbles, it might be possible, but while you pine for japan with this rose tinted unrealistic idealic fantasy of it, girls/boys will just avoid you for anything more then maybe used as a short term trophy partner, thats even if they think your just normal enough not to act wierd around them.

though, there might be some otaku lovers out there, who knows.

 

[jieshi]

hehe my email use to be @otakumail.com then a japanese pen pal explained to me what an otaku was (very different from the meaning given here in australia) and that if I was going to keep japanese pen pals I better lose the @otakumail.com lol

 

[BlackGirls_are_nice2]

Ummmm..............................

Not to sound hateful or anything like that but, What's with the Japanese and White couples all of the time. It never fails, everytime I go to some type of forum, there is talk about Japanese and White couples. There are more people in the world than just "White" you know.
Since when did the white man become king of the world?......oh wait a minute, I forgot that this world is run by whites. I guess other ethnic groups just don't stand a chance.
What about Japanese and Black couples? Maybe even latinos or someone else.
Here's an idea, let's just say interracial relationships with the Japanese although technically, Japanese people prefer to date their own.

I am very disappointed in this post!

 

[jieshi]

@ blackgirls_are_nice2

no one here is being racist at all. first off you will notice, there are quite alot of europeans on these forums= white people hence forth the title. you will also notice there are plenty of latino's and black people (if that sounded derogertory, I apologise) putting there input about there experience's with japanese girls, a good example is one of our members king of tokyo.

No one is being racist, imagine how long the title "japanese girls and white guys, and black guys, and latino guys and swedish guys..........." it would go forever so lets all just be happy ok?

 

[JacksonZ]

I personally love interracial couples. And I say yes to nice match.

 

[Duo]

There is nuttin wrong with interracial couples but, I don't like when people have racial preferences like some will only like japanese girls or some only sm other kind, i think people should be open minded when it comes to things like that........

 

[MajideSaiaku]

i disagree duo, even you have your own preferences, you wont admit it, and maybe your denying to yourself, but there is women you desire and women you dont, its simply human nature and part of what overall makes us unique.

this knida preference has been likened to racism, but then, nobody is being racially abused or assaulted or anything, its simply someone desiring a certain group of women over others, and i believe it doesnt make them closed minded, i think mroe then anything duo, your opinion is developed from runaway PC that people are taught in this day and age.

of course i believe that being only human, its quite possible for these people to fall in love with white, black asian, arab, pokadot, lol.

 

[Duo]

i disagree duo, even you have your own preferences, you wont admit it, and maybe your denying to yourself, but there is women you desire and women you dont, its simply human nature and part of what overall makes us unique.

this knida preference has been likened to racism, but then, nobody is being racially abused or assaulted or anything, its simply someone desiring a certain group of women over others, and i believe it doesnt make them closed minded, i think mroe then anything duo, your opinion is developed from runaway PC that people are taught in this day and age.

of course i believe that being only human, its quite possible for these people to fall in love with white, black asian, arab, pokadot, lol.

Hmmm, yeah sure i have my preferences, like everyone else, i prefer girls of smaller stature and usually am very drawn to european girls, but that doesn't mean that I can't like or fall in love with a girl from a different race or nationality or whatever, like my last gf for example was american and i liked her more than any other girl so far; when i see an asian girl walkin down the street or smth and if she catches my eye, my head turns, if i could i would probaply go out with her, but what I refer to is to people that like for example only kind of girls, like lets say they overappreciate asian girls or smth and disregard the others that pass by them. Having a preference and having a specific target for a partner are different things in my view. Well I donna, i thin you are right that we all have our preferences and what not, but I think there is a difference in whether you dont let these preferences get in the way of your love decisions or whether they fully guide your romantic life.

 

[Rich303]

I hope so!
I guess it might involve a bit more effort because of the cultural difference.
But, as a non-religious person I have to say that nothing matters in life except love!
and maybe Techno,possibly a bit of Reggae...sorry, Rich 303

 

[-Rudel-]

What do you think of that kind of relationships???

First time I saw this post. Just thought I would share my experience.

I'm currently engaged to my beautiful Japanese fiance Akemi.

After we have been seeing each other for a while, it was time for me to meet her parents and her older brother.

Since Akemi use to listen to Hip-Hop and all, her familiy assumed I was black. They disagree with her dating black males. It's wierd. But since I am white, everything was ok to them. She tells me she is scared of black males.

I always wonder what would happen if I was black.

All in all, it's all about the love, support and understanding! Not race and color.

 

[Damicci]

First time I saw this post. Just thought I would share my experience.

I'm currently engaged to my beautiful Japanese fiance Akemi.

After we have been seeing each other for a while, it was time for me to meet her parents and her older brother.

Since Akemi use to listen to Hip-Hop and all, her familiy assumed I was black. They disagree with her dating black males. It's wierd. But since I am white, everything was ok to them. She tells me she is scared of black males.

I always wonder what would happen if I was black.

All in all, it's all about the love, support and understanding! Not race and color.

That kinda pisses me off.
but she probably has her reasons. I mentioned in another post that there are alot males from africa in japan and they are quite rude to japanese women. Which leads me to believe alot of japanese people probably think all black people who pop up in japan visiting or not are from africa.
Just thinking about it pisses me off some more. grrrrr

 

[Chiaki_Kuriyama_Fan]

:; sings songs from monty pythons the meaning of life :: everybody needs a dick if its only just a little ***** penis's..:: goes on ::