Well, I'm probably not all that interesting, and moreover I haven't been a member of this forum long (but I like it a lot and plan to stay pretty active; very friendly people on it), but anyways here it goes:
As time went on after the divorce of my parents I became increasingly pessimistic and cynical. My brother's (graduating from Princeton university June 6; good for him, but he still could have tried for less of a history of condescension towards me) treatment of me and my sister's (always good to me, probably understands me better than anyone in my family but lives way off in Texas; also has, until about a year ago when she went through big changes for the best of things, had a history of needing money from my parents) somewhat large mistakes at college didn't help this.
My parents divorced when I was going into "6th grade" (for non-Americans, I'm finishing 12th grade now, last year of high school, am about to go to college to major in history). Divorced parents are becoming increasingly common, the circumstances though could sometimes be unique.
Anyways, to shift focus on me now (and why this is important), in 8th grade, in an effort to fit in somewhere, I tried smoking weed (marijauna), and ended up getting into doing it consistently for a little over a year, when I just made the personal decision (didn't need to be caught, though two years after quitting I told my parents about it) that something didn't seem right about what I was doing or with the personalities of the people I was doing it with. In 9th grade however, my first year of high school, I did amazingly well in history.
I took a history course over the summer between 9th and 10th grade to move up into honors history in school. I loved all history, but what consumed me was WWII, the Great Depression, and the people who remember it. This was mainly because of the stories of my grandfather before, during, and after the war. He died shortly before the divorce of my parents interestingly enough.
While I tried to hang out with the "smart" kids during 10th grade, I found that they could be superficial and condescending. As crummy people as the kids who decided pot was the answer to their problems (I lived in both worlds, I was a cynic in both worlds). I also, embracing my Irish Catholic heritage in some sort of move for self-pride (which I do still have

) became increasingly aware of anti-Catholicism, and while that is around I should have been Christian at least before Catholic.
While my grades were looking up already, 11th grade was when my life really turned around. I was preparing for confirmation while the Pope was on his deathbed. I listened to all the stories about what he did with the Church underground to save lives during WWII, and I felt inspiration and yet emptiness, still somehow I didn't understand what I was missing. The night I was confirmed and met the Bishop, I decided I had to find out, what really made people from that generation, like John Paul II, so willing to put humanity first? Other people like Schindler and Dietrich Bonhoeffer, grandparents and even those they fought against, seemed to have such clear minds about what was right, even despite the complex world around them.
Well, I found the answer, but not how I expected. A kid who used to be one of the kids putting me down as some little punk who lives for nothing but thrills like getting high, approached me and asked me if he could talk to me after school in the library. Cynicism still had vast power over me, but something luckily made me decide, "ok, sure."
I was amazed when he asked me for forgiveness. He said that he had been arrogant with a lot of people like me in the past, and he was sorry. Then he introduced me to what all Christians (Catholic like me, Presbyterian like him, whatever) should be foremost about. Forgiveness and humbleness.
Will used to make fun of this kid who was muslim, not because Will was exactly a bad person but because of ignorance and arrogance. At the same time he always wore crosses, Christian type shirts, and other items to say "I'm a Christian". So one day, when he was teasing and pushing this kid around, the kid quietly turned to him, pointed to the cross he was wearing, and said "What is it exactly that this means to you?" and he then walked away without either of them saying another word. My friend Will was, and I quote, "shaken". It was that which caused him to find out what his faith was actually about, and it was forgiveness. The basis of BOTH OUR faiths (Christian) is that Christ died on the cross to forgive EVERYONE'S sin, and it's a fool and a hypocrite that spends his time being cynical of others at that, and worse yet to harm others that have done nothing to you. Will certainly made a big point of apologizing to that kid also, with whom he's best friends now (perhaps because the kid helped Will find himself I think particularly).
I can't fully explain all the changes that then took place, but for some reason it seemed that I started viewing a lot of people as much more human and all as generally good, rather than with the cynicism I formerly regarded them with. I was "reborn a Christian".
Now I respect the many faiths by the way on this board, particularly Islam these days because of the lack of understanding of so many people of that religion. If you're not a Christian the only thing you need to know is that basically I salvaged my miserable life through faith in God, and faith in people, and my long phase of EXTREME cynicism came to an end, and I wish anyone (of whichever faith) else who feels their days darkened by the seemingly all superficial people in the world, that they will find the creator (by whatever name you call him) is GOOD and moreover (the important thing for atheists persay, who refuse to believe in god) is that God's creations, all of us here and the rest of humankind, is good. It seems simple enough, but I lacked that understanding.
So that's Michael O'Brien for you. Jeez, sorry by the way, I know I wrote a book.... and not even a very good one at that! ;-) :wavey: