isayhello said:(O__O) But if IF I was your girlfriend - or wait, let's make it less personal- if your girlfriend, whoever she was, was into yaoi (ehe, like any normal girlfriend would be), you still wouldn't like her dragging you into yaoi conventions ALL the time. Although you might have nothing against yaoi, you wouldn't want it.. err... in your face very often? Off course, a compromise would be good. But sometimes not even compromises would help Relationships are difficult. *panics and starts thinking about her future boyfriend trying to stop her from liking yaoi* Noooooo! I wanna stick with my cartoon-guys.. *mental*
Wow. Care for some shopping?Doc said:Dear, I can sit still in clothing shops for hours at a time, and still not be pissed off. Yaoi conventions wouldn't bother me at all. Hell I might even be interested into looking at some of the stuff just to see what all the craze is about.
*suspicious* I don't trust you. *collects all her shonen ai manga around her* No.. no thanks, I'm fine right where I am... *builds wall with yaoi magazines* I've got them all right here... pretty boys... *hugs jrocker-fanservice tight* I feel soo happy... *locks herself into castle she just built using yaoi magazines whilst having a nosebleed* See, I'm alienating myself from the real world here! *waves and points* Mom, dad? I am becoming a hikikomori. *wall of yaoi falls down on her head* Ouch. *faints*Doc said:Trust me there are open minded guys like me who are out there. You just have to find them that's all. ^___^
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isayhello said:Wow. Care for some shopping?
*suspicious* I don't trust you. *collects all her shonen ai manga around her* No.. no thanks, I'm fine right where I am... *builds wall with yaoi magazines* I've got them all right here... pretty boys... *hugs jrocker-fanservice tight* I feel soo happy... *locks herself into castle she just built using yaoi magazines whilst having a nosebleed* See, I'm alienating myself from the real world here! *waves and points* Mom, dad? I am becoming a hikikomori. *wall of yaoi falls down on her head* Ouch. *faints*
Sorry, I'm too tired for this.
IF my boyfriend listened to metal, he wouldn't be my boyfriend. I'm no good at compromizing, I think. :?
no wait, err.. I didn't say that. Sorry. I.. have.. nothing... against... metal... - no stop! this thread is about YAOI!!!
But guys can like shopping too, Kaitou? :?
*digging herself out of yaoi-magazine-pile* Meat down the road? I'm Swedish, I cannot understand that sort of english... *pretends she didn't understand*Doc said:You'll need some meat later on down the road, and I highly doubt yaoi will provide that for you other than loneliness. ;-) Seriously there are open minded guys like me out there, you just have to look for them. If I wasn't open minded, then why would I be posting in this thread to begin with? Now you're just being silly.
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isayhello said:*digging herself out of yaoi-magazine-pile* Meat down the road? I'm Swedish, I cannot understand that sort of english... *pretends she didn't understand*I'm not as.. err.. obsessed as I seem. *doesn't even believe herself* I promise! I'm not! *hits herself*
hey; you try to persuade me into believing you're a good and open minded guy - well, I know what you really are: A Silent Assassin! *points at text above your avatar* I shall not trust you ever. *runs and hides*
I knew.Doc said:Meat = A crude, yet effective pet name by women for a male's penis.
☝ ☝ ☝ That's tough. I... I... *eyes filling up with tears* no one ever usually shouts at me... *sparkly eyes* Was it the assassin comment? :? For your concern: I'm not anti-social sometimes. I can be very social. Promise! *is being social* ALSO, I couldn't possibly die without getting laid. impossible. Tokyo had waaay to many love hotels *happy giggle*Doc said:Meh, you're just afraid to be open to the fact that there are very laid back men out there. You're a giant chicken you know that! Chicken! A giant Swedish Chicken! You're afraid of a man like me because you know I speak the truth. Fine, live alone for the rest of your life see if I care! You'll regret it you know. Not doing anything with your life to make yourself happy, and you'll die without ever getting laid either (which is not a bad thing, unless you're an anti-social freak which it seems like you are, in which case is rather sad and embrassing on your part). There are men out there like me, just get off your duff and find them you silly girl!
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Err... yeah, no, I'm not anti-social, seriously. Thank you.Kinsao said:Hmmm Isay, I think probably just cos you are so into yaoi, doesn't necessarily mean you are anti social or being afraid of men ☝ seems a little harsh to me. I mean, obviously there are some open minded nice men out there *points at Doc* so... what am I saying?... maybe you are lucky and some day find one of them, yes?Let's hope!
Docs attitude to yaoi is good. I think he's very mature in saying he can accept it, or even try to find out what the whole thing is about (not participating, though) I respect Doc for that - many guys I know just go 'GAY! EWWW! STUPID GAY PEOPLE!' whenever they hear of yaoi or shonen ai...Kinsao said:Wheee, Doc, it is so nice that you are honest. It is good for a man to be honest. In fact, everyone, not just men!Empty compliments not worth much, I think. And, I think your attitude to yaoi is pretty much normal... you can appreciate, but not wanting to actually 'take part', hmm obviously if you are not gay I can see that doesn't have any attraction for you.
Kinsao said:Yup, Rich, you said it. Only improvement on one really hot guy, is 2 really hot guys...
lol @ you and your pink shirt, you nice person you!
isayhello said:Err... what does non-consensual mean? :? *bangs head in table*
isayhello said:thanks for explanation!Oho... now I know what genre I've been reading all this time... No.. seriously.. I dunno about that stuff - but nonconsensual is pretty common in shonen ai and yaoi, is it not. At least that's how I picture it. I guess there are levels of it, though. I've read some soft yaoi with a teacher/student pairing which were sort of non-consensual - but they were good! ( I thought so) I'm not sure though.. if it's rape it's about you can count me out. I guess I probably just don't like too graphic hard core stuff all in all - doesn't really matter then what they 'do' and in what manner ... I like kissing. Kissing is good!