Worried about kyo

[Champloo]

WHO THE **** WOULD LEAVE KYO?! THAT GIRL NEEDS HELP! >.<! AND THEN TO HURT HIM LIKE THAT AFTER HE'S ALREADY GONE THROUGH ENOUGH! *hunts her down with knife in hand* Let's she how it makes you feel, *****. Sorry, but that is just ****** up, and everytime I hear about it I get pissed off just as much as I did the first time. =_=

 

[Kinsao]

It's a cruel thing to do to someone... but life is like that. Not that I am trying in any way to put down the way Kyo feels - because each person is different, reacts differently, and has their own emotions and pains. Just... I suddenly felt a little... deadened, is all.

 

[-rika- shinya`]

kyo may be loved by many fans now, but he had been hurt deeply by the one he loved

 

[Child_prey]

That's OK, she will burn in hell.
And that woman (if you can call it that...) that sold nude pictures of hide after his death will burn too.

 

[Anchyyy]

And that woman (if you can call it that...) that sold nude pictures of hide after his death will burn too.

Really? A woman sold his nude pictures? ☝ I didn't know that. Omg you must be super stupid to do that. She didn't have respect for him. Burn in hell you *****! :box:

 

[Champloo]

what?!@!??!?!?!!!?!!#%@$#!*&@#$*&!+ THAT *****! YEAH! I HOP YOU GET LIT ON FIRE NOW AND GET BURNED ALIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW DARE YOU??!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HIDE WAS AT A TERRIBLE SPOT IN HIS LIVE WHEN HE DIED AND SOMEONE DID THAT TO HIM?! PEOPLE BOUGHT THEM?! HOW DARE THEY I HOPE YOU ALL GET SHOT!!! >.<! *deep healing breaths* Sorry x.x;;

 

[grenadeglovegirl]

Blah, people can be sooo..... I don't know, disgusting. They should die! *stabs*

 

[advigilo]

what?!@!??!?!?!!!?!!#%@$#!*&@#$*&!+ THAT *****! YEAH! I HOP YOU GET LIT ON FIRE NOW AND GET BURNED ALIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW DARE YOU??!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HIDE WAS AT A TERRIBLE SPOT IN HIS LIVE WHEN HE DIED AND SOMEONE DID THAT TO HIM?! PEOPLE BOUGHT THEM?! HOW DARE THEY I HOPE YOU ALL GET SHOT!!! >.<! *deep healing breaths* Sorry x.x;;

☝ i know its sad... but there are always and everywhere people who do such things.... Like our prince par example... He sold his secrets (giving them premission too print it after his death) too a paper. In the article he confessed cheating, having a lot of bastard children(who were given a lot of
money and such) and more of these things...
not the same like the hide thing... but things like this always hapen...
Desastor tourists...

 

[dniwer]

I don't know how true the story is with Kyo and the girl or whatever, but you guys' reactions are funny to me. I love how everyone hates the girl and thinks she should "burn in hell". Kyo is the one with the problem, not her. If you're not in love with someone and you ARE in love with someone else, you shouldn't stay with the person you're with out of pity or sympathy, but I understand how it can happen. If she was in love with one of his friends, I understand why she didn't tell him, she probably realized how Kyo has such emotional problems so it was something that both her and the friend avoided because they were afraid of his reaction. I mean they were right weren't they? The man ended up trying to kill himself. I'm not defending what the girl did, cheating is absolutely wrong, and doing that to someone hurts beyond belief. I'm just saying that's the way life is sometimes, and Kyo's reaction to the pain he experienced wasn't the right thing to do. I realize the pain that he was in, but blaming her for Kyo's problems is the wrong thing to do. He hurts himself, he tried to KILL himself, that's not anyone else's fault but his own. If it wasn't this thing that hurt him, it'd be another, that's just the way it is when you're psychologically ill.

 

[Anchyyy]

My burn in hell was for the ***** that sold hides nude pictures after his death...

 

[dniwer]

My burn in hell was for the ***** that sold hides nude pictures after his death...

OH, I know, I agree with that burn in hell, lol.

 

[Yokan]

Regardless of whether some people agree or disagree with Kyo cutting or hurting himself, it's his own way of controlling how he feels. He'd rather do it to himself than take it out on someone else, just like singing is another way of releasing his emotions. Believe it or not people WILL hurt themselves on purpose, I recently do it sometimes and another member also does it, but I don't want to say names. It's just how some people are.

 

[dniwer]

I think that him cutting himself is the way he let's out his emotions which, like I said, is a lot better than what he could do instead. Though I don't condone it, and I think that all people with such problems can get help and find better ways to channel their aggression, I DO understand it, believe me...

However, him attempting suicide isn't excusable and people shouldn't blame it on a girl.

 

[Yokan]

Yeah, I agree Sunsweet. If her feelings change, the it would all be a lie. Much like my case when i got dumped 2 weeks ago after 9 months together. ¬_¬

 

[Kinsao]

I totally agree with Sunsweet and Yokan - kinda like what I was trying to say earlier, only I was less articulate. ><

Raise your hand, everyone who has been betrayed...........

 

[Yokan]

*raises hand*

 

[Anchyyy]

OH, I know, I agree with that burn in hell, lol.

*raises hand* After eight months he dumped me

 

[Yokan]

Yeah, but i suppose some people can't help it. I would have rather Lois dump me now than another few months with her not loving me the way I loved her back. =( Infact, I wish she done it to me 2 months ago, cause she said she had been thinking about it for a while...back to what i was saying, Lois can't help it if she don't have the same feelings for me as before, it's just the whole way she gone about it. Totally *ignoring* me now. she eve told me that she ''didn't have to care about me anymore'' etc. what? I have feelings too, made that clear to her. even huffed with me yesterday and said that I was *pissing* her off [i said to her before that i didn't mean to offend her, i was asking how she was or something like that].

meh, that's life...In a few years time I will probably look back in laughter, even tho i don't feel like laughing now. However, i'm not just broken up by the break up, i'm just broken hearted from her CONTINUOUS IGNORANCE. I'm not bothering with her for a while anyway.

Sorry to give my story, but just empahsising that maybe the girl that went out with Kyo didn't like him in that way, anymore.

*gives Anchyyy a big hug and cries with her* ¬_¬
y0kan

 

[Nana007]

I agree with sunsweet about you shoudn't put all the blame on the girl. If love no longer exists you can't do anything about it. It is worse to be in a relationship without love, then to leave so that both you and he can be happier. One sided love is never good.

Although cheating is never good. I believe that you should break it off before you cheat, especially if you are tempted to cheat. Because just the tempation of the thought shows that something is missing in the relationship to make you want to cheat.

 

[dniwer]

It's so funny that I made that post because reading it over makes me see that I need to take my own advice...

What's the point of staying with someone when the love you once shared isn't there? *goes to think ... and sulk*

I realize that post had nothing to do with Diru, and *raises hand* for people who have been betrayed

 

[Champloo]

*raises her hand* Got cheated on 3 times. ;_; Not fun.

 

[j0ylucky]

*raises hand as well* Kind of a hard thing to go through. Currently I'm at the opposite end though. Not too sure if I feel the same towards my husband. :\ He knows too and NO I did not or ever will cheat on him. It was pretty hard trying to tell him that too. We're currently trying to work things out. We'll see how things go..

 

[Lady Blue]

I don't know. I don't like much Dir en Grey, but I'm not surprised at all. If he DID carved it into his skin or not is nothing I want to discuss, there are pretty good make ups this days, but there also very twisted man.

It is very easy to get depressed. And easier to feel lonely even among the crowds, but what I have seen of him makes it not a surprise. I just hope he doen't kill himself, that's so terrible, but I do not take away the HUGE posibility of it. His music puts him in evidence. I don't listen too many songs, they freak me out a little.

I don't raise my hand. I've never been betrayed like that and I either have cheated on anyone, but I've seen what it can do to a person. Anyway, if he gets THAT MUCH affected, don't you think he might have a little problem?

 

[grenadeglovegirl]

Of course he has the problem.


And my *stabs* was at the lady who sold hide pictures, and just other people in general who do things to hurt others without a valid reason other than selfishness.

But, I think Kyo's friend was sort of at fault in the situation. If he really was a friend he should have told Kyo even though Kyo would have been hurt, he wouldn't have been lied to. And relationships are built on trust.

But I do wonder why Kyo hasn't moved on, I thought he had. If he still lingers on it then, well, I guess that's okay, I mean I obviiously dont know the whole situation..... But I just wish he would be happy, but no one is ever always happy, lol

I don't know, if something happened to Kyo I would be sad because a great artist would be lost.

And as long as Kyo is finding ways to deal with his pain (even if it is hurting himself..) I guess that's good.

Okay, that was a lot of rambling, and I don't know where I was going with it. But I hope Kyo gets better... mhms

 

[Child_prey]

I don't know how true the story is with Kyo and the girl or whatever, but you guys' reactions are funny to me. I love how everyone hates the girl and thinks she should "burn in hell". Kyo is the one with the problem, not her. If you're not in love with someone and you ARE in love with someone else, you shouldn't stay with the person you're with out of pity or sympathy, but I understand how it can happen. If she was in love with one of his friends, I understand why she didn't tell him, she probably realized how Kyo has such emotional problems so it was something that both her and the friend avoided because they were afraid of his reaction. I mean they were right weren't they? The man ended up trying to kill himself. I'm not defending what the girl did, cheating is absolutely wrong, and doing that to someone hurts beyond belief. I'm just saying that's the way life is sometimes, and Kyo's reaction to the pain he experienced wasn't the right thing to do. I realize the pain that he was in, but blaming her for Kyo's problems is the wrong thing to do. He hurts himself, he tried to KILL himself, that's not anyone else's fault but his own. If it wasn't this thing that hurt him, it'd be another, that's just the way it is when you're psychologically ill.

The story is 100% ´true, from his own mouth. (interview from the macabre era)
I didn't mean it like "and that's why he is soooo depressed, bcuz one girl hurt him..." it was just one example of many things that happend to him. His parents didn't understand him and friends betrayed him. Blackmailing, lies, cheating, feeling that you are worth NOTHING....
I have to say... He does seem a little sensitive about things... but then again, why should he just forgive and forget, he has the right to be angry. You shouldn't put up with this type of ****!!!

But going back to the girlfriend story-the thing isn't that she didn't want him, if you don't love someone ofcourse you shouldn't force yourself to be together. It's just that she didn't have the common human sense to break up with him, just say the truth!! What she did is basically disapear, he didn't even know what happend to her. Some time passed and he found out she was dating his friend who didn't even mention anything to him just pretended everything was peachy. That is such low and bad style. You can't just fool someone like that. If they just told him, he probably would have taken it better, then you understand the situation. The heart wants what the heart wants.
And that's why she will burn!!