Love and Relationship Advice Section ??????!!!

[Duo]

Isn't this the advice about luv and relationship section??

Why are so many of you taking things weirdly personally and geting pist off about. Like on the thread about the girl with the horny bf that was just asking some advice many of you just blurrted weird personal issues. And not just this thread, but even if we look at the how many bf/gf one is about the same. Sheesh, i get that sex and relationships are touchy subjects but at lest try to maintain some objectivity.

Bah, I tell you I'm glad i didn't try to seek any guidance here through concrete examples else god knows what would have been coming at me.

Other than that, keep up the good work

 

[mizer]

You've got a point Duo! Also it seems to me like, 'why are people going to strangers on the net for *love and relationship advice*?' I wonder...

It just allows the intervention/'advice' of people who are nosy about others' problems, this can be a bit of a pain. Personally I would rather figure out solution myself or talk with a friend.

(What am I doing here, anyway?!?!?!)

But, for anyone who really has a problem, I hope that they get good advice from the forum, I am sure there are some nice people out there who give good advice!

 

[Duo]

You've got a point Duo! Also it seems to me like, 'why are people going to strangers on the net for *love and relationship advice*?' I wonder...

It just allows the intervention/'advice' of people who are nosy about others' problems, this can be a bit of a pain. Personally I would rather figure out solution myself or talk with a friend.

(What am I doing here, anyway?!?!?!)

But, for anyone who really has a problem, I hope that they get good advice from the forum, I am sure there are some nice people out there who give good advice!

yeah I totally agree, i wouldn't really want to ask personal questions on the forum, but that's because i'm a very private person, but I feel that this section should be good to discuss issues of men and women in hypothetical and concrete ways but without personal attachments and such things.

 

[Doc]

What can I say? I just like perving things up a bit. ^___________^

Doc:ramen:

 

[Elizabeth]

Little wonder that posters rarely follow up on their initial problem or are even driven off the boards entirely.....someone writes in upset about a significant other that wants sex too often are are bizarely told in return how much he must love you, will never leave no matter how much you refuse or try talking him out of it. Or if not that, it's entirely about how much the other person loves sex (must make the op really feel great) and can't get it enough...in other words, lady, what must be wrong with you ??

My recommendation would be for a lot of what goes on here to be handled privately, through pming or email, leaving the focus tightly on the original problem and avoiding these knock-out-drag-out affairs with each response vying to out do the other.

 

[Jack]

You've got a point Duo! Also it seems to me like, 'why are people going to strangers on the net for *love and relationship advice*?' I wonder...

It just allows the intervention/'advice' of people who are nosy about others' problems, this can be a bit of a pain. Personally I would rather figure out solution myself or talk with a friend.

(What am I doing here, anyway?!?!?!)

But, for anyone who really has a problem, I hope that they get good advice from the forum, I am sure there are some nice people out there who give good advice!

strangers on the net, dont know you so its just a subtle but honest answer from them.

 

[negro_koolkid]

i find objectivity in young women is nonexcitint because young women are must to mateiral and needy without giving nothing in turn some of these youger women subcome to the peir presure and also use by must older and more experince men i feel that some of these old women are not helping these young women to get adjusted to a japanese lifestyle and customs or being gaijin a women i feel that in a relateship it take two people to make it work hey you younger women and specially the gaijin women be respectful to your mate or lover

 

[Grandpa Frank]

Now There's Some Advice !

i find objectivity in young women is nonexcitint because young women are must to mateiral and needy without giving nothing in turn some of these youger women subcome to the peir presure and also use by must older and more experince men i feel that some of these old women are not helping these young women to get adjusted to a japanese lifestyle and customs or being gaijin a women i feel that in a relateship it take two people to make it work hey you younger women and specially the gaijin women be respectful to your mate or lover

Not sure your ready to take DEAR ABBY'S place, but a different spin on things for sure!

Frank