If You're Desperate for Love, Stay at Home!

[Kanpai Quigley]

I love all girls that are intelligent and attractive. I've dated just about every race/religion I can think of. It's all about chemistry and your "game."

Who needs a relationship when you've got Roppongi and ten thousand love hotels?

 

[cutiepie]

ah cmon' give us some credit

Hahaha...you know it's true! I think the only reason Western guys think Asian girls are beautiful is because we just simply have different features than you guys do. Just like in an Asian country, Western guys all look good ...coz there's not much to compare to

 

[Duo]

Hahaha...you know it's true! I think the only reason Western guys think Asian girls are beautiful is because we just simply have different features than you guys do. Just like in an Asian country, Western guys all look good ...coz there's not much to compare to

nah.... i don't buy it. Sure guys are a bit more willing to take what comes along the way shall we say but we can tell what's what. I think a lot of white guys who are into asian girls are like this because they think they can get laid easier or had a bad experience with white girls so they just use this "yellow fever" thing as an excuse. I mean those guys who go to japan to get girls they don't go cuz they prefer asian girls but because they can or think they can get girls there. If they could get girls bak in their home town no way would they move.

 

[cutiepie]

I think a lot of white guys who are into asian girls are like this because they think they can get laid easier or had a bad experience with white girls so they just use this "yellow fever" thing as an excuse.

I think it is not fair to accuse these guys that way and it is an insult to Asian girls to say that white guys think they could get laid easier dating Asian girls. Alot of Asian girls from the Asian countries are far more conservative than girls in the Western countries. Most wait till they are married before they would engange in any sexual intercourse. But of course, alot of girls have had pre-marital sex there now. I guess my point is, there is no reason to use "yellow fever" as an excuse.

I mean those guys who go to japan to get girls they don't go cuz they prefer asian girls but because they can or think they can get girls there. If they could get girls bak in their home town no way would they move.

Guys that move to another country just to get girls are pretty stupid, if you ask me. Of course, many Asian girls would probably think they are more attractive than they ever were back in his own country, but dealing with someone from a whole different culture, language and religion is taking relationship to a whole different level.

 

[taeter_tot]

I think a lot of white guys who are into asian girls are like this because they think they can get laid easier

or had a bad experience with white girls so they just use this "yellow fever" thing as an excuse.

This scenerio .... Roppongi

Basically,they're losers

 

[Duo]

I think it is not fair to accuse these guys that way and it is an insult to Asian girls to say that white guys think they could get laid easier dating Asian girls. Alot of Asian girls from the Asian countries are far more conservative than girls in the Western countries. Most wait till they are married before they would engange in any sexual intercourse. But of course, alot of girls have had pre-marital sex there now. I guess my point is, there is no reason to use "yellow fever" as an excuse.

Guys that move to another country just to get girls are pretty stupid, if you ask me. Of course, many Asian girls would probably think they are more attractive than they ever were back in his own country, but dealing with someone from a whole different culture, language and religion is taking relationship to a whole different level.

Don't misundestand me. I'm not saying Asian girls are easier or what not, in this case i guess we are refering to Japanese girls since this is the jforum, but what i meant to say is that some guys may perceive to have an easier time or better chances with asian girls because or whatever reason,,,there are many of those that circulate around here

 

[cutiepie]

Don't misundestand me. I'm not saying Asian girls are easier or what not, in this case i guess we are refering to Japanese girls since this is the jforum, but what i meant to say is that some guys may perceive to have an easier time or better chances with asian girls because or whatever reason,,,there are many of those that circulate around here

Yea, I know what you mean

 

[MajideSaiaku]

Easier times with a J-girl?.

As one with experience of them...

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! AAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!....

...HA.......ha........ha....

In the words of police officers the world over in regards to Japanese girls..

"Move along, theres nothing to see here".

 

[tigi]

i agree with brooker. but its great to experience new situations. when u have a date with a girl that u know cause she lives near from u, its different, u can know if she is having a good time or not. But beeing with a girl from outside your country that u dont know what she is thinking about you is exciting, cause u gotta learn his body language and try to understand it. When i have a date with a girl here i dont get nervous. Im sure that when i go there ill be so shy and ill have lot of fun learning about the people from there ^^.

 

[AlexD]

Argh! You mean the japanese dating sim I conquered was a lie? You mean that a teddy bear won't give me 20 relation ship points? Noooo!

I am aware that this is my second post, please ignore the fact that this is the thread I'm posting it in (just found this thread funny)

I do not have any experience with Japanese girls, but I did date semi-seriously and seriously girls from other cultures. Yes, there are variances in "the game" from backround to backround, but I found that, if the essence of the attraction is real, meaning you like the person for who they are, everything is possible. For me, the key is that age old saying, "just be yourself"...

 

[maushan3]

nah.... i don't buy it. Sure guys are a bit more willing to take what comes along the way shall we say but we can tell what's what. I think a lot of white guys who are into asian girls are like this because they think they can get laid easier or had a bad experience with white girls so they just use this "yellow fever" thing as an excuse. I mean those guys who go to japan to get girls they don't go cuz they prefer asian girls but because they can or think they can get girls there. If they could get girls bak in their home town no way would they move.

Dude, I thnk many people move to Japan because they want to know the country, language and culture and have a good time. It wouldn't be a feasibly option to move to another country just because they were losers in their home country and couldn't get booty. Many people come because of different reasons and, yeah, some look for a Japanese girl in the way, but again, not the majority come to Japan for girlfriends and/or to get laid.

Mauricio

 

[SushiShin]

After stupid actions and wasted time i come to considering that im a fool! i am one of those who is searching after a japanese girlfriend in japan, now i stop searching! i only have to go back to my homecountry, to the city where i was born and i only have to shout: Yoi! dito!. after some minutes you see a lot of girls, its normal in my country there are 65% women/girls and only 35% men/boys (more then the half isnt straight) so for me and other people this is a little heaven on earth, but im not planning to go back to home just only for the girls but i go to see my family and to eat the food with what i was raised! girls girls girls there are enough in this world but then again: you only live once so enjoy until you past away! greetz everyone and sorry for the too long post!

 

[ghettocities]

Hearing about people's attempts to live my life and them failing to do so is what keeps me breathing.


Josh

 

[undone]

Female impersonation is an old pantomime tradition

 

[Ultraman]

If you're desperate for love, that is jumping the gun a bit. Romantic loser comes too mind. Any woman attracted to 'that' is gearing up for a power trip.

Desperate for sex is a more reasonable starting point. Get it printed on a t-shirt. Women think it is a joke at first, but the propositions come.

Anyway, wouldn't Thailand be a cheaper place to look for love?

 

[annieannie44]

dont think so ..................

 

[Dimitree]

this thread is more loughter that i can take for a year

 

[Oren]

We gaikokujin tend to look at japanese women as some exotic. The fact is that they tend to look at us in the same way. Point is, if you meet a woman, from anyplace for that matter, be kind and respectful, tell her you want to learn more about her culture (and be as sincere as you can, you man-beast), trade e-mail adds., and say some stuff that she's never heard to intensify her interest in the unknown(your culture). Curiosity will be sparked, and after a while of being cool like that (don't forget to express an awareness about the suttle nuances of her culture that you are so sensitive to pick up on in her e-mails), meet her for a lunch coffee and cake at a neutral spot (about halfway is perfect), and shine that winning smile of familiarity and confidence that she will want to see so badly by then. Don't rush. Just because you're super-smart doesn't mean that other people are totally dumb.
This works everywhere. In some places, though, women will rape you--like Rappongi so be careful those who come.

 

[undone]

If you're desperate for love, suck your finger

 

[bluepilot]

aaah, these posts are so funny.

I sometimes felt a little loney in Japan because the Japanese young men that I knew were kinda hard to get on with and most of the young men of other nationalities that I met only seemed only to be interested in Japanese girls.

I sometimes wonder if immature young people like myself go to Japan to get the 'package'. First you get the job, some Japanese knowlegde, some Japanese friends and a Japanese boyfriend/girlfriend.

It feels like a competition to see who can 'do' Japan the best

I resent comments that somehow us Western women are bigger ****** and less feminine than Japanese women (we also are not ALL fat,thank you very much), although, with porno paparazzi brats like Paris Hilton and Britney Spears and this whole 'celebrity' thing, perhaps it is the portrayal of women, not the actual women themselves.

The abortion rates in Britian and Japan are very high which suggests that a lot of young women are having sex in both countries.

On another note, I had an 8 month relationship with my kendo sempai, finished over a year ago but ouch ouch, still hurts

 

[rico2001]

I just wish we had a few Japanese females around my area.

 

[dreamer]

Why a *japanese* one especially?
I am sure you won't be able to make the difference between a chinese, a korean or a japanese woman at first sight...

 

[ARIAM]

I'm an Asian girl and I don't know why western men just love Japanese girls! Well, I feel sad sometimes, because they only think of finding a Japanese girlfriend or wife. Well, maybe Japanese girls are really better than other Asian girls but I just feel so unfair! Sorry if i offended someone!

well japanese girl s also belongs as asian girl (no offend) as long as u resides in the asian continent ur considered as ASIAN...well tru beauty relays on the eye of d beholder tho individuals has there own way of seeing individual beauty of a woman...sorry im only new in this community jus gotta interested wif the topic i dont mean to offend any1 wif al ur respect it a matter of my own opinion only

 

[Revenant]

I lean towards Japanese, but that's probably cause I know a lot more about them than Chinese or Koreans, and cause I'm also a Mongoloid (Native American). It's not that I don't find other races attractive, I do. But the largest pecentage of girl I find attractive are Japanese.

I'm not much for Roppongi stuff though, it just doesn't seem fulfilling, not knocking those that do well in the Roppongi scene, if they do well, good on them (so long as they're not hurting others and using protection), it just ain't my thing.

I'm pretty much just looking for a chick that I can have fun with, and hopefully spend the rest of my days with joined forever at the hips. I'm in the middle of a very long divorce process, and while both the current wife and I agree that we just don't work, we're still generally on good terms. I'd like a chick that I'm good friends with along with compatibility (something we lacked). I'll wait on the right one, despite opportunities for at least on my part non-serious relationships (wouldn't want them to misunderstand and hope for something serious when I see them as attractive but nothing I'm serious about).

 

[dreamer]

Well...it's amazing how things happen in roppongi...I've seen a classmate of mine (far from being good looking but pretty daring) get 3 phone numbers in one evening after trying about 15 different girls...and I'm not even talking of his evenings...
Somehow, all the girls who go there are willing to get picked up...or so I think. Sometimes in Roppongi, they might even come to you...
Personally I'd rather avoid this kind of thing, which is why I hate clubbing over here...