If You're Desperate for Love, Stay at Home!

[jarvis]

the key is not to be of the flesh but the spirit...if you let your penis run your life..you will be lost

 

[jarvis]

allthough, I like looking at all sorts of women....

I find japan womens stunning
I find india women stunning,
I find American indian women stunning
I find european women stunning
I find senorita's stunning
Im not that perticular....




it depends on the women more than the race..

 

[Brooker]

I find india women stunning,

I agree. My new gf is of Indian ancestry.

 

[Damicci]

mmm senoritas.. hispanic women are just a lil crazy for my taste though....

 

[Ma Cherie]

I guess I'm not the only person who's guilty of being attracted to a ethinicity of my own. But have any of you ever experienced being attracted to one race in particular for a short time and then move onto to anther race? You know like, you like Asains, but then suddenly you lose your taste for Asains then you move onto Hispanics or whatever? Has this ever happened?

 

[kirei_na_me]

I have experienced that, Ma Cherie.

I had a Hispanic phase, a black phase, an Asian phase, and now I'm back to the white phase. I guess I have come full circle...

 

[Ma Cherie]

I have experienced that, Ma Cherie.

I had a Hispanic phase, a black phase, an Asian phase, and now I'm back to the white phase. I guess I have come full circle...

Really? I'm in a Pakistani phase. First it was an Asain phase, then a Middle Eastern phase. ☝ Guess I haven't come full circle yet.

 

[kirei_na_me]

Oh yeah, I had a Middle Eastern phase too. Bad experience there.

Anyway, I think it's good to go out with people from different backgrounds. Makes you that much wiser. Good going, MaCherie! ;-)

 

[Duo]

Hm, weirdly i remember that you also had this Balkan men phase thing, i mean like Goran, the fake bosnian (actually croat) ER doctor

still got the balkan symptoms ?

 

[kirei_na_me]

Yeah, you could say that I'm still in the Balkan phase. You know, I like that Mediterranean passion.

 

[Duo]

well wat can i say, it's hard to escape that mediterranean hypnosis, it captures you like the siren's chants, and never lets you go till you're all out consumed by it, you can try be smart like ulysses and tampon you ears, but he donna what missed with that, was he that smart, i think not

u shouldn't fight it, just go with it, it'll be like a rapture, let it show you the goodness of extra virgin olive oil and fresh citrus fruits, ah, i wish i was there rite now

@ main topic

hm i dont really ever had this ethnic phase thing, i wonder if it can happen later on....... ☝

 

[MajideSaiaku]

im still in the asian phase, what can i say?, i prefer asian women, i know im an evil evil man ☝

not like i cant appriciate a fine ladeh whatever ethnic backgronud, but ive always been drawn to asian women, my g/f is asian, i hope she will be my asian wifeh-chan.

the problem is letting your preference blind you to seeing folk as human like everyone else, luckily that isnt my issue, but for some, its just sad...

 

[Matadon]

See, I've got a thing for Irish women myself -- the classic red hair, light eyes, and temper that could sink an aircraft carrier at a range of twenty kilometers. *grin*

Then again, I, like many other posters, have run the gamut of ethnicities, and have to say that when it comes to women, I likes 'em. Who cares what part of the world they come from?

Only irritating thing about American chicks is that we have a large quantity of, er, bovines roaming the pastures over here. I mean, yeah, I work a desk job, but I spend 5-10 hours a week exercising in a variety of ways (biking, lifting, climbing, boxing), and keep myself in pretty good shape. The number of women I know in my age range (I'm 24) who are in good shape is staggeringly low; it's not THAT big of a stretch to ask that the women spend some time on a treadmill, is it?

Oh, and the plastic surgery thing needs to stop, and stop now.

 

[Ma Cherie]

See, I've got a thing for Irish women myself -- the classic red hair, light eyes, and temper that could sink an aircraft carrier at a range of twenty kilometers. *grin*

Then again, I, like many other posters, have run the gamut of ethnicities, and have to say that when it comes to women, I likes 'em. Who cares what part of the world they come from?

Only irritating thing about American chicks is that we have a large quantity of, er, bovines roaming the pastures over here. I mean, yeah, I work a desk job, but I spend 5-10 hours a week exercising in a variety of ways (biking, lifting, climbing, boxing), and keep myself in pretty good shape. The number of women I know in my age range (I'm 24) who are in good shape is staggeringly low; it's not THAT big of a stretch to ask that the women spend some time on a treadmill, is it?

Oh, and the plastic surgery thing needs to stop, and stop now.

Hey, I lot's of guys told me I'm in good shape. And I don't even exercise Well, I walk quite a bit. But I understand what you're saying.

 

[kirei_na_me]

See, I've got a thing for Irish women myself -- the classic red hair, light eyes, and temper that could sink an aircraft carrier at a range of twenty kilometers. *grin*

Then again, I, like many other posters, have run the gamut of ethnicities, and have to say that when it comes to women, I likes 'em. Who cares what part of the world they come from?

Only irritating thing about American chicks is that we have a large quantity of, er, bovines roaming the pastures over here. I mean, yeah, I work a desk job, but I spend 5-10 hours a week exercising in a variety of ways (biking, lifting, climbing, boxing), and keep myself in pretty good shape. The number of women I know in my age range (I'm 24) who are in good shape is staggeringly low; it's not THAT big of a stretch to ask that the women spend some time on a treadmill, is it?

Oh, and the plastic surgery thing needs to stop, and stop now.

Good post, Matadon. I'm liking you more and more.

I stay at home with my children, and I was determined not to be the stereotypical housewife who sits around eating bon bons. I stay very active. I walk sometimes twice per day and if it's raining or too cold or too dark, I will use the treadmill. I also mow my own grass and I spend a lot of time in the garden. I was not going to have anyone saying that I sit around doing nothing!

 

[Grandpa Frank]

WHEN & IF.......

I have experienced that, Ma Cherie.

I had a Hispanic phase, a black phase, an Asian phase, and now I'm back to the white phase. I guess I have come full circle...

you get to a phase where you are looking for a grandfather figure/lover, let me know so I can renew my Viagra perscription.

Frank

 

[kirei_na_me]

I'm ready when you are, Frank! :winklove:

 

[Davey]

dave being 17 says: scoring chickies on ibiza is much more easyer then at home, because on ibiza i can get drunk without my mom is watching me.. thats why i want to come to japan, to get some CHICKIE.....

dave being 20... haha this is so funny.. lots of guys think like this yeah,, and i think it is even easyer in south east asia,, ( just you should pay there... been there done that...)


... im to open sometimes.... ☝

 

[MajideSaiaku]

Only irritating thing about American chicks is that we have a large quantity of, er, bovines roaming the pastures over here. I mean, yeah, I work a desk job, but I spend 5-10 hours a week exercising in a variety of ways (biking, lifting, climbing, boxing), and keep myself in pretty good shape. The number of women I know in my age range (I'm 24) who are in good shape is staggeringly low; it's not THAT big of a stretch to ask that the women spend some time on a treadmill, is it?

At least in my little corner of britain, girls dont seem interested in looking after themselves, for a large chunk of them.

But, at least the college is chocabloc full of hotties.

For many its something they cant help, just as i am genetically perma-fit™
but i cant stand folk are only to blame themselves yet feel the need to charge all of society with the blame for their obesity.



Anyway, back on topic to ethnic groups, all i can say is, when a goddess on earth presents herself, no matter which group, any normal bloke will agree a hottie, is a hottie

I'm still in my asian phase but, i've had the asian preference since i really started becomming aware of my sexuality, i dont descriminate against anyone else for it, all hotties get fair attention ultimatly, so i cant be labelled descrimatory, even racist as some PC thugs like to try, and since my girlfriend is both asian, and a hottie (at least thats what i see, lol) i am allowed to be bias

Anyway, if anything, doing the done thing of primarily sticking to my own racial group, is just as bad (or not as i see it) as a preference for another group.
We live in a communicationally(made up word?...*shrugs) smaller world, multiculturalism is now a fact of life for many countries, not one racial face can be put to a western european country or north american, and as such, these racial groups are increasingly niteracting, and interacial relationships are on an all-time high, so, i think, aslnog as its just a harmless preference, for whatever reason, then we should accept it as a sign of progressive times, when, hundreds of years ago we would have looked at an asian with supsicion and mistrust.

Also finally, as an almost unrelated observation, its ironic that i find it odd when people go "wow, your girlfriends japanese?!, cool" and i dont think about it, once upon a time i would think it was cool myself, and wonder how they manage.
Then i learned it works like most relationships.


Anyway, dont go to japan if your desperate, there's enough asian girls in your home country, one of which might want to date you.
And no, japanese girls arnt easy, and if you are seeking a proper sincere relationship, i would personally say from experience they can be better partners then girls ive PERSONALLY known in my own native enviroment but, you will still have falling outs and friction and yeah, they are human beings just like the rest of us.

 

[Thomas Quinton]

I'll stay at home. it's $1,800 round trip to Japan from where I'm at.

 

[JoyInYourLifeCOM]

So True So True

Life is hard enough why make yours and someone else's even harder

 

[kokusu]

I guess I just fall in love wherever I happen to be . . .

But, I think kindness and compassion make women beautiful to me. Sure, some women 'look' more physically attractive to me than others; I think that is just one of those human nature sort of things. But, even a 'beautiful' women becomes ugly to me if her personality is sour. Likewise, a women that to others is perhaps plain to me is made beautiful by a kind and warm-hearted personality. For me, to fall in,ove and have a relationship, there must be kindness . . .

Since these personilty traits, though expressed differently perhaps, are not exclusive to any one culture, I think a women of any ethnicity has the potential for beauty or ugliness (this follows also for men . . . I say 'women' only because . . . well, because, that is my interest and the perspective from which I write :sorry: ).

I would agree that travelling to another land and culture just to prowl for a companion is a bit . . . disingenuous way to express/find love. But, on the other hand, I don't see any reason why one could not travel the world with a heart open to the potential of meeting that someone special, ne? I guess what may be really important is to focus on cultivating those qualities in ourselves that we hope to find in someone else . . . :romance:

 

[Doc]

I think I'll stay at home, make some money, build a two story house, buy a Siberian Husky as a guarddog/companion, and live my life in peace. ^____^

Doc

 

[cursore]

There is that something in Japanese girls that I cannot quite describe if I ever split up with my GF I'll look for another Japanese girl.

 

[Carlson]

well for someone who has always had trouble with relationships... it dont matter if im in america or japan. and your right.. when i came to japan i heard all the rumors that japanese women love american men... heh only the ones at hostess clubs... eventualy i stoped looking and thats when i found mine.