Vengeful Ronin said:
Japanese reading skills? Heh, lucky for me I'm enrolled in a Japanese class, and will take it in college too. I'm learning to read it, write it, and speak it.
As for a university job, I could try that too. But I would be more comfortable teaching conversational Japanese, since I hate grammar mechanics.
Exactly how long are you considered FOB anyway?
I guess that depends on the person. I would guess that the schools and the teachers sort of start to tire of each other at roughly the same time. Remember, even such serious institutions as universities often have a formal policy of not keeping the same teacher for more than three years. There have been court cases (centering on discrimination) fought over this. As much as I personally dislike the guy who runs it,
www.debito.org is
the site to start from if you want to look into this.
I don't know any firm numbers on this, but based solely on my personal perception of the matter:
Most foreigners stay 1 year
Some foreigners stay 2 years
A very few stay 3 years
A tiny handful stay longer than that
Lots of people come here after college not planning to stay very long to begin with, a year or maybe two. They want to experience living/working in Japan, but want to get back to their home country to get on with their lives and maintain some sort of viability in the job market. Some plan to stay longer but get burned out or disgusted with Japan within a coupla three years.
Those who stay longer start to get sort of antsy as they approach 30. They start to feel that it is about time to get wherever the hell it is they plan to be until retirement age. For some of us, that means right here in Japan. For others, that means moving on to some other place.
Some come here with just the basic bachelors degree and once they get the lay of the land, so to speak, they start to see how much more opportunity would be open to them in Japan if they had a masters degree or some other such advanced professional qualifications and they leave for what may or may not turn out to be a temporary excursion of a few years to their home country to further their education, planning to come back to Japan.
Some come here, get married, have kids, and perhaps in other ways establish some sort of roots. With this comes all sorts of life-complicating issues which can contribute to a feeling of "I'd better get while the getting is still good". Again, the impending age of 30 seems to play a sort of pressurizing role affecting the decision. Getting into this sort of situation, while it may be the dream of some of the J-Gal obsessed males on jref, means that no matter where you choose to live one or the other of you is always going to be thousands of miles away from their relations and whatever baggage they bring to your relationship. Not all foreign guys adapt well to the idea of living until the age of their decrepitude in Japan. And contrary to what some may think, just because a J-Gal is interested in English and living in foreign countries doesn't mean that they will necessarily do any better job of adapting to life in their foreign husband's home country. Some thrive on it, and others try it for a while and find they just can't hack it. Now enters the spectre of a divorce and the very real possibility that one or the other parent is going to have to deal with their children living not on the next block, in the next town, or in the next state...but on a different damned continent. I'm not saying all this to discourage you or anyone else, or to bum anyone out. I'm just throwing this stuff in to point out situations that can and do arise.
As I've told you in another thread, you're my Tennessee homeboy and I plan to do whatever I can to be of assistance to you with regards to Japan, despite our disagreeing on a few semi-trivial things (such as the undisputable fact that God resides in Tennessee, fer instance).