I met Junko in Osaka, while I was stationed in Japan with US Marines 8 years ago. Junko was 19 and seemed to be such a nice girl, I was 6 years older.
We slept togeter, she told me she want's to be my lover and a girlfriend and she asked me to wait for her. On the last day before I left Japan, I told her that I love her... I was suprised with the way she reacted by chocking and had this expression as if I said "I hate you"...instead "I love you"...
Anyways I didn't mind, and I would write love letters to her, to which she would respond "thanks for nice words" and generally avoided writing about her feelings, she never even once said "I miss you".... Yet she told me to "Look toward seeing me" she was planing to come to US to study at the college and see me.
It took 1 and 1/2 years before she finally came, during which time she send me only 8 letters (with 9 months breake), and I always called her first...
but instead of chossing university on the East coast (I lived in NC) she went to....Seattle, WA on the oposite coast (because all Japanesse students were there)....And she informed me that "she's finally comming to US to study at College in Seattle and although she has only 7-9 days winter or spring vacation she can see me then..." But that also implied she will spend next 2 years away from me. I guess her carrier and getting out of Japan was more important for her, and she ignored my needs completly while expecting I'll put up with this.
I was tired all of the wait especially that she never wrote me that "she missed me". I started dating other women and I didn't respond to her letter because I felt dissapointed, because she wanted to reduce me to the "vacation boyfriend"...She broke my heart, and I regret I ever met her, I think she was egoistic and selfish. Too bad I couldn't see through her lovely face, and see her true intentions in the first place.
I doubt she would ever be able to love me, and I'm romantic guy and I neeeded more affection, especially that we had long distance relationship..so the wan no sex either. I understand that she was under no obligation to fall in love with me, but I believe it was unfair of her to keep using me and accept my love letters and gifts, while she was not able to do the same thing for me. I think she should be honest....
Are all Japanese women like this? Or was I naive to fall for a girl that was unable to love...?
Last month I had a dream about her, so I had second thoughts, I found her number so I tried to contact her last weekend, and I got her answering machine, I even recognized her voice after 7 years, not only she didn't call back but she changed her number one day later.....so I can't get through. I don't think she ever blamed herself for our split up. I just made me realise that she is still cold, hartless woman...
Wally
We slept togeter, she told me she want's to be my lover and a girlfriend and she asked me to wait for her. On the last day before I left Japan, I told her that I love her... I was suprised with the way she reacted by chocking and had this expression as if I said "I hate you"...instead "I love you"...
Anyways I didn't mind, and I would write love letters to her, to which she would respond "thanks for nice words" and generally avoided writing about her feelings, she never even once said "I miss you".... Yet she told me to "Look toward seeing me" she was planing to come to US to study at the college and see me.
It took 1 and 1/2 years before she finally came, during which time she send me only 8 letters (with 9 months breake), and I always called her first...
but instead of chossing university on the East coast (I lived in NC) she went to....Seattle, WA on the oposite coast (because all Japanesse students were there)....And she informed me that "she's finally comming to US to study at College in Seattle and although she has only 7-9 days winter or spring vacation she can see me then..." But that also implied she will spend next 2 years away from me. I guess her carrier and getting out of Japan was more important for her, and she ignored my needs completly while expecting I'll put up with this.
I was tired all of the wait especially that she never wrote me that "she missed me". I started dating other women and I didn't respond to her letter because I felt dissapointed, because she wanted to reduce me to the "vacation boyfriend"...She broke my heart, and I regret I ever met her, I think she was egoistic and selfish. Too bad I couldn't see through her lovely face, and see her true intentions in the first place.
I doubt she would ever be able to love me, and I'm romantic guy and I neeeded more affection, especially that we had long distance relationship..so the wan no sex either. I understand that she was under no obligation to fall in love with me, but I believe it was unfair of her to keep using me and accept my love letters and gifts, while she was not able to do the same thing for me. I think she should be honest....
Are all Japanese women like this? Or was I naive to fall for a girl that was unable to love...?
Last month I had a dream about her, so I had second thoughts, I found her number so I tried to contact her last weekend, and I got her answering machine, I even recognized her voice after 7 years, not only she didn't call back but she changed her number one day later.....so I can't get through. I don't think she ever blamed herself for our split up. I just made me realise that she is still cold, hartless woman...
Wally