Hey, new here =]

[sandra_narcissist]

Hi, I'm new here, well I kinda joined awhile ago but never really posted anything on here coz I'm....shy? I was looking for some music and happened to stumble across this site, I joined coz the people on here seemed really cool,and I have always loved Japan, people and culture and music so it's great. And I love this site, so informative
Hope I get to meet new people and have a good time posting here
Thankies

 

[Philip]

Welcome enjoy!

 

[Absolute Zero]

Hello and welcome, new person. Welcome to the site and enjoy your stay at Jref.

 

[sandra_narcissist]

Thanks!! Looking forward to meet everyone!

 

[Han Chan]

Hi, I'm new here, well I kinda joined awhile ago but never really posted anything on here coz I'm....shy?
Thankies

Dear Sandra
A warm welcome to you. You choose to call yourself "narcissist", but you also suggest that you are shy?

I wonder if you know that narcissistic personality disorder can be a serious disorder. Here is how Wikipedia describes narcissistic personality disorder:
Narcissistic personality disorder - Diagnostic criteria:

1. has a grandiose sense of self-importance
2. is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
3. believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by other special people
4. requires excessive admiration
5. strong sense of entitlement
6. takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends
7. lacks empathy
8. is often envious or believes others are envious of him or her
9. arrogant affect.

 

[sandra_narcissist]

Dear Han chan, actually, I know what narcissist means, it's just that it's kinda like an ongoing joke between me and my friends that out of all of them I'm the one that likes to dress up and is the one most concerned about my look. So that's why I've been titled a narcissist among my friends and I've kinda grown quite attached to it I guess, but I am sorry if I caused any misunderstanding or offended anyone on here .......and this is just my third post.....

 

[Han Chan]

Dear Han chan, actually, I know what narcissist means, it's just that it's kinda like an ongoing joke between me and my friends that out of all of them I'm the one that likes to dress up and is the one most concerned about my look. So that's why I've been titled a narcissist among my friends and I've kinda grown quite attached to it I guess, but I am sorry if I caused any misunderstanding or offended anyone on here .......and this is just my third post.....

Dear Sandra
You certainly did not offend anyone. I merely thought that you had chosen a name which did do you justice. I am shure that you are a nice person. Actually most real narcissists strongly deny beeing narcissist.

 

[Mars Man]

The sun could shine no brighter than what it is right here and now, as I sit here all sumggled up to my PC, in this little office, lying at the foothills of the grand Japan Alps. The light that gives life is slowly melting away the snow that blanketed our environment, but not our moods nor hearts. It's the kind of light that makes one want to shout out to the whole world, so, I'll use that energy here and now to shout out a BIG

Welcome to JREF !!

Yeah, we got music here, and in a variety of forms too. (I'll tend to that in the days coming up no too far away....) I know, sandra_narcissist, that you can enjoy a good time here with all the J-music stuff and discussion!!

Hope to see you 'round !!

 

[Seon-a Kim]

Welcome to the community, hope you enjoy and feel free to check out the rest of the boards and post wherever you feel like

 

[sandra_narcissist]

Wow, I feel so welcomed already! lol
And I loved that speech of mars man, made me feel all excited!
Thanks everyone! Man the people on here are pretty cool!

 

[Mars Man]

You're welcom sandra_narcississt !! I hope it will give you energy to last for a good long while !! Enjoy the forums !! MM