Hope&Faith
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- 25 Jul 2016
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my babe :cigar::joyful::roflmao::hilarious:
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Oh my...
May I ask you why?
They can recognize me, with the second citizenship?
Also... we all make mistakes... I was even "forgiven" with the 5-years probation. we all should get, at least, a second chance...
If this is the case, you might want to argue that for your girlfriend that you marry her so Japan lets you back in on compassionate grounds not for you but because 3 Japanese citizens will miss you as a breadwinner. Tell them this after marrying her in Bangkok. Even better if you have a child together: 日本への転居手続きに関してのお願い。Yes, guys. I'm a *****, insane and helpless right now (ain't sarcastic).
In this moment i'm just over-emotional and can't think rationally.
And, yes, Glenski, there is my future wife involved... I didn't want to talk further about my private life. That's all.
After I discovered that we can't settle a family in her homeland, we tried to figure out a solution, to live together in Europe or Bangkok.
But unfortunately she cannot leave... She is a single child and have to tare care of her old parents in Gunma, everyday. She had to move from Tokyo, quit her job and now is working in a local 7-11, in order to stay with them.
Moreover, my "physical" support would be a great help.
But the immigration was immovable.
We are still in touch, she come to Bangkok to visit me (5-6 hours flight for mere 25,000yen, roundtrip, AirAsia) when she can, but I guess, both of us don't wanna wait until our 50's to marry and have kids that late...
So if I won't find a way, it will be soon over, i guess...
I did a single mistake and I'm a human-being. We all should get a second chance. But of course you can disagree, it's just my point of view about life.
Yes, I don't like that unforgiving system and that sneaky racism that is deep-rooted in that Country. But the love of my life is stuck there, I'm denied to help her and being with her. And, yes, I still love and miss the Country itself as a land, not the system.
Perhaps, thinks will change for the Tokyo olimpics... Let's see.
Yes I consulted some lawyers: about my first passport they were all clear... But no one could guarantee me 100% that coming with the second one it would succeed (the most they could said was: dekiru kana (in japanese "kana", usually is used to predict a 50% chance), because someone made it trough, yes, but could be just fortunate cases where the officers overlooked and maybe were inexperienced trainees. Who knows...
You guys where just my another hope. You never know... Sometimes an unexpected info can come out. But I'll continue to research. Perhaps a foreign lawyer living there, might know more about immigration system holes, compared to Japanese ones. But, geez, international lawyers are damn expensive. LOL. But, at this point no other choice.
Anyway, thank you so much for your time also for the critics regarding my personality. They have to be treated always as a treasure to learn more about yourself, what people can see in you and weren't aware of. I should try to be less emotional and be more rational. Thanks. Really.
p.s. about the punch for "self-respect" maybe was misleading. I should improve my english, sorry. What I meant was that, I wanted to be respected as their law commands: who touch first the other is in the wrong side, always. Japanese law. But they shoved me, laughed at me, thinking they were over the law. Well, they weren't after all, coz they got punished, too.
I had to be smarter that time and keep myself calm and be superior to them... But,
I went down to their level, maybe even below... And that's the result. I'm really a baka gaijin, as they stated while laughing at me. They were right. LOL
If this is the case, you might want to argue that for your girlfriend that you marry her so Japan lets you back in on compassionate grounds not for you but because 3 Japanese citizens will miss you as a breadwinner. Tell them this after marrying her in Bangkok.
Do you have some evidence regarding the fact that you were told the ban is temporary? Or was it only verbal? If you have something, you could try to enter the country after that time period and if you are detained you could claim ignorance couldn't you?But I already gave up that idea, thanks to you guys that made me deeply reflect on it.
Funny that those 2 lawyers preferred me to gamble, or at least not trying to convince me that my idea was a pure madness... But I guess that anyone needs to make a living... lol
You still have a couple years until the period is up.
I sympathize with your plight. It's hard to imagine because here in the U.S. we have an impeccable police force who would never treat citizens or minorities with anything but the utmost respect.
Noooooo.This is sarcasm, right?
I have no idea about US police. But I know that in some states, they are clearly harsh and racist. But where exactly? Pardon my ignorance.This is sarcasm, right?
By the way. Me and my babe, are in koh Samui, Thailand, having a great time together.
Anyway, we had a long discussion about our future last night (after making l**e). We are thinking to move and marry in Taiwan, Taipei.
For her it would be great, coz there the lifestyle is very similar to Japan. And the city looks like a jp city. Also, is just couple hours from narita or haneda.
Repeat... Despite the tiny rooms (lack of space), the city is a sort of "cheaper Tokyo" (good for us).
The 60% of the land is pure forest, similar to jp nature.
She would feel almost at home. She can speak English and Taiwan people is veeeeeeery friendly and warmhearted, unlike many jp" fake smiles".
Also she have her aunt living in Naha.
600km from Taiwan.
That's for now.
After 10 years we'll think how to obtain a special landing permission, in order to take care of her parents.
Please, wish us good luck!
If you want something similar to Tokyo, I think Seoul is a much better option.
I found Taipei and Taiwanese people far from similar to Tokyo.
How are you going to get a visa for Taiwan, or any other country btw?
Ain't overreacting. Even Japanese citizens explained me that they had been trained to be as much as hospital towards JP and gaijin. Doesn't matter who you are. No feelings, just be polite! It's business like., I think you are overreacting. "Japanese fake smiles" and stuff. I think that's quite unnecessary to say, plus I don't agree at all.
Nonetheless, I wish you both the best of luck!
I didn't say US cops would shoot you, but if you punched a police officer you'd be arrested on the spot and probably get a bit banged up "resisting arrest."
I don't know what news you're referring to, but to me it always seems that when the media talks about souring international relations it's usually an attempt to distract people from domestic problems and the failings of their own government. Asian countries in particular love to drum up nationalist fervor over territorial disputes or rehashing the past.I don't think so... Recently JP and KR would kill each others... Don't you read the news?
I've seen the assumptions of Jus sanguinis bite people pretty hard. If she hasn't spent a considerable amount of time in Taiwan, I wouldn't operate under the assumption that she would find it easy to live there.Well... her mother's side grand parents are from Taiwan (if you look close to the pic, she doesn't look quite look like a "pure" Japanese, rather from Okinawa or Taiwan (different eyes and nose). So i'm sure she would fit in a culture that belongs 25% to her.
I hope you understand and appreciate the immense privilege with which you walk the earth.About visa, no worries. there is always a solution. Now i'm in BKK under student visa, but managing my business in Europe online.
Same for her. Visas, recently, are getting easier to get. Except Japan, USA (who cares... not interested) and "maybe" Australia ( I can say so, coz i have many relatives immigrated 45 years ago in Sydney and doing great! They all hold Australian passport. So for me would be vanilla, coz i have a large family there).
I don't know what news you're referring to....
I'm assuming you're concerned for how your girlfriend would be treated, because Japan-Korean relations have pretty much nothing to do with you or how you would be received in Korea.
I would prefer Busan over Seoul.
I wouldn't operate under the assumption that she would find it easy to live there.
Does your girlfriend know that you shared her photo.... (if you answered "yes" to the above questions then nevermind, but my guess is that you didn't ask permission).
When you started this thread you were reluctant to say much of anything about your situation, so it's a little jarring how far you've swung in the opposite direction.
It's great that you're in love, we can all stipulate that and move on. Some of the things you've written makes me feel a little embarrassed for her. I hope you don't take this the wrong way, I'm not picking on you, I'm trying to show you a different perspective on how your actions might be perceived.
As for Taiwan as an option, it's not a bad one. Taiwan also has its own flavor (and diverse settings despite being a small island), and can accommodate a comfortable life; I enjoyed the time I spent there. Like Korea, it's close enough that your girlfriend can visit her parents frequently, or visit you if she opts to live with them in Japan while you try to work out your legal situation.
I hope you understand and appreciate the immense privilege with which you walk the earth.
I'll end by strongly agreeing with cocoichi about not comparing your experiences to others'. Not only does it do you no good, it actively does you harm. If you really want to compare yourself to others, think about the people who have it worse than you, so you may better appreciate your own situation.
Having just paid my corporate taxes it galls me to no end to support deadbeats who think they're robbing the government instead of me and every other responsible resident of this country when they cheat on their taxes.Both Taiwan and Korea require criminal background checks.
Since OP says he was in Japan for 11 years, I hope those countries do ask for one from here.
Of course OP could skate back and forth between korea/taiwan/thailand on tourist visas while working online for some biz outside of those countries. Not the most legal thing to be doing. But given all of his behavior and comments, above, that's probably to be expected.
I wonder how much of that overseas income the illustrious OP actually declared on his regular tax filings here in Japan? (as legally required)
Having just paid my corporate taxes it galls me to no end to support deadbeats who think they're robbing the government instead of me and every other responsible resident of this country when they cheat on their taxes.