Thomas. You are clearly of a different generation and I meet people with your ideas from time to time. You probably don't even understand what's behind the hospitality and the serving of dried dates and figs as soon as you step inside the door. You truly believe this treatment says anything about the character of a people?
I have grown up surrounded by academic iranian families, as an example. The arabs are refugees, the persians however started coming here even before the iranian revolution. After the revolution the number increased further.
A common saying, worded in different ways but with the same meaning, among iranians is "Sweden is a cheap wh0re. We use her for free education. As an entrance gate into the western world. Then London and Los Angeles awaits us. Today we call Stockholm our home, but tomorrow we will be where the money is. We know no national borders. We are the true aryans and it is our birthright to claim whatever may please us. We are divine beings born from the tears of the heaven's angels, crying for their dead whos blood is our land, Iran, Land of the Aryans".
Recently in Sweden, there was a case with an iranian doctor and scientist who cut of the lips of his wife and ate them because he suspected she was cheating on him.
Iranians are some of the most well educated immigrants in Sweden and yet iranian women stand out as victims of domestic violence. This according to their own women support groups claiming many iranian women get beaten.
Iranians are notorious tax cheaters. So are arabs. Yes, there are a few "nice ones" but even they seem shallow and not able to move beyond fake smiles and serving of dried dates, discussing the weather and talking a little about football.
There are 90-100 million or so iranians worldwide. The only noticeable nobel prize awarded an iranian that I know of was a symbolic peace prize. The peace prize is a Mickey Mouse prize.
Take the jews on the other hand. A people of 16 million or so, even less after WW2, having been awarded three percent of all nobel prizes of all times. There we are talking genuine education with a creative spirit. The persians however view education as superficially as they view everything else. There's no substance behind it and therefore no significant results or impact on the advancement of modern civilization. They are just global market economy predators and opportunists with inflated egos and collective cultural pathological narcissism.
I watched a YouTube video of the most famous plastic surgeon in Teheran. It showed his practice. He considered himself the "Michelangelo" of Iran and played Eine Kleine Nachtmusik while performing surgery. He was overweight and speaking with a lisp as he guided people around his home which was basically a white painted sarcophagus containing stagnated negative energy, decorated with grotesque recreations of european renaissance art not even suited for the dimensions of the house, had they been tasteful in the first place. He made a point of showing how "well educated" and "enlightened" he was. This is the superficial mentality I'm talking about. Vulgar at best.
Also, don't talk about ancient civilizations. The achievements of a people must be seen in relation to the current time and age. Persians, and sometimes arabs too, make a point of chauvinism based on the merits of long dead people who lived during the middle ages or in antiquity. However, even the ancient greeks who favored discipline and restraint described the persians as "decadent, lustful and greedy".
I have honestly never met more cardboard, predictable and shallow people than middle-easterners and my first 10 years of experience of middle easterners was based on academic persians.
Why can't arab countries create and produce much themselves? They have oil and they buy things. They buy german, french, british, american and japanese architects. They buy every building block in the monumental houses they construct. They buy european designer goods. They buy athletes etc etc... It is a mere backdrop functioning as an excuse for "civilization". In some gulf states, half the population is illiterate despite the enormous riches.
If you truly believe in this sort of middle eastern "refinement" and that anyone with a different view must be a brutish, ignorant skinhead or something, then you are the narrow minded person.