I'm simply sharing my honest opinion. If my opinion is not wanted, I respect that. Who even wants a stupid teenagers opinion anyway? If my simple words really caused that much "devastation" for lack of a better term, simply consider that discourse to have never happened.
In other words, I apologize for what I have said. Maybe I should have come up with a better response, and I definitely could have. I was feeling lazy, and shouldn't have. I will be leaving this thread right now, should you need me, I'm just a ping away.
You've shown yourself to be erudite for your age so the "I'm just a stupid teenager" bit doesn't fly. You've used this speech pattern several times.
I asked my knowledgeable friend, A.I., about this and they say:
This type of speech pattern is often referred to as a "self-deprecating qualifier" or "self-deprecating disclaimer."
When someone says something hurtful or critical but then follows it with a self-deprecating comment like "but what do I know, I'm just a stupid teenager," they are attempting to:
1. Soften the blow of their harsh words
2. Deflect potential criticism or pushback
3. Appear humble or self-aware
4. Avoid taking full responsibility for the hurtful statement
However, this tactic is generally ineffective and can even make the situation worse. The self-deprecating comment doesn't actually negate or excuse the hurtful words that came before it. In many cases, it can come across as insincere or manipulative.
This type of language is sometimes used as a passive-aggressive communication technique. The speaker gets to express their negative thoughts while trying to make themselves less of a target for rebuttal or criticism.
