where do you take your G/F

[sandoro]

hi
i was wondering where you take your G/f, not just for bonking but to have a private time.
of course there are plenty of option like, love hotel, business hotel, restaurant etc..
that cost a bit, what about gaijin house?
i know many gaijin house where accept short term even 1 day, it probably cost 2000 yen a night for a private room, i was wondering if they mind to be taken in there.
what do you guiy think?

 

[MajideSaiaku]

At the age of 42, ide say your own place or hotel room.....

Have you told this young lady you just want to have sex with her?, some chicks dont appriciate blokes leading them on just for one night of bad sex...

 

[Tsuyoiko]

I agree with Nuri - I would expect a man to have his own place. If he didn't take me there I would suspect that he was married

 

[sandoro]

is more complicated than that,
if i had the place i would not have asked.
at the moment i live in gajin houses, alwasy moving around.
the reason is i am divorced, i see my ex and the baby once in a while.
i have girl friends that live with their parents, so everytime we go out we eat at restaurants, or walk around, do shopping, that sort of things, the problem is when i want her to stay over, hotel are very expensive, love hotel, too short and expansive, so i was wondering, if i could take her to a gajin house, which is much cheaper and have a private room.

but i guess maybe she would feel intimidated by the atmosphere.
basically i just have to continue as it is.

 

[MajideSaiaku]

look for a place, i assume you have a job there, despite the gaijin house moving, its not a short term solution, but find somewhere cheap to rent, at the least it saves you this feeling of displacement, i know i couldnt live here in japan constantly having to move about like a vagrant.
Did you say you have multiple girlfriends?......anyhow, i guess you could go dutch with her and get a fairly cheap hotel if it exists.
Sorry i dont have any better advice, i cant say ive been in the same situation as you.

As for young women living with their parents, it doesnt seem to be uncommon here. Im staying with my girlfriends family for my stay here, suffice to say you find a way to ...have fun..... when you want to.

 

[sandoro]

look for a place, i assume you have a job there, despite the gaijin house moving, its not a short term solution, but find somewhere cheap to rent, at the least it saves you this feeling of displacement, i know i couldnt live here in japan constantly having to move about like a vagrant.
Did you say you have multiple girlfriends?......anyhow, i guess you could go dutch with her and get a fairly cheap hotel if it exists.
Sorry i dont have any better advice, i cant say ive been in the same situation as you.
As for young women living with their parents, it doesnt seem to be uncommon here. Im staying with my girlfriends family for my stay here, suffice to say you find a way to ...have fun..... when you want to.

i tell you it is a big beautiful problem when you are in love with 2 beautiful girl,
also you don't want to spend toomuch money, of course is alwasy half, but i have to do it twice in alternate day, soon i have to make a quick choice, to choose the one.
here in tokyo love hotel are too expansive and is only for few hours, i want to have a relazing time with them.
anyway, i will find the way.

 

[MajideSaiaku]

Best of luck sand, i think you deserve some

tell us if you get things sorted.