*sigh*... I'm sure most of you don't want to know this, but for the few who do...

Kinsao

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A very minor point from me - one that I didn't think it worth bothering to clarify at the time, but just to satisfy some people's curiosity and also avoid any misapprehensions..........

I stopped being an 'advisor' on Jref because:
(a) I didn't feel that my character is suitable for the role, and didn't feel comfortable in it (it 'cramps my style' if you like!).
(b) My available time is very unpredictable and 'bitty' at the moment, meaning that there will be some relatively long periods when I can't use the net/visit Jref.
(c) I stopped finding the forum discussions so interesting, and yet my 'advisor' role made me feel obliged to try and pay attention to everything, and I didn't want to be tied to that any more.

I was not asked to leave, I did so from my own choice and from those reasons above. :-)

If I don't come onto Jref for a short period of time (maybe a week, 2 weeks... seems like time feels longer on the internet!), that isn't because of any disagreements, dislikes, or bad feelings between me and anyone else on this board. It is simply because I'm doing other things.

I wouldn't normally bother posting something so trivial and self-centred but... well, you know my reasons in the first line. :)

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I'm pretty certain that this is in response to a post I made on another thread. If not, sorry for being so presumptuous!

I never thought anything other than what you said here in the OP. If I remember correctly, when you stepped down, you gave your reasons in some post somewhere.

I personally think you make a good mod, and I am sorry that you are gone, but that's life. I mean, Jref is only as important as you let it be. It's a free forum with an ever-changing membership, after all.

What we all have to do is lighten up a little around here! If visiting Jref seems like a chore, then you especially need to lighten up! (Ironically, I find the need to clarify that I am using the word "you" in the sense of everyone, but no one specifically :p)
 
Well Mikawa, I had a time I wanted to quit moderating too, but then I tought that giving up this soon would be a shame. :)
 
No worries Kin, your not obliged to be a moderator if you dont want to.

And no harm in comming and going as you please.

Jref is always here, in some form or another.

👍
 
Ummmmm!!!!!!

OH, Kinsao "my luv" , I want to know "EVERYTHING" about you anytime!! Those eyes just melt my heart away!!

Uncle Frank

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I was wondering about that Kinsao, I noticed your username wasn't blue anymore. I understand how you feel about the discussions not being interesting anymore. Thanks for sharing darling. :-)
 
Mikawa Ossan said:
I personally think you make a good mod, and I am sorry that you are gone, but that's life.

You aren't alone in that opinion.
 
I totally agree with Mikawa Ossan and Glenn.

You've consistently been level-headed in your opinions and I respect that. Also, I was pleasantly surprised by the range of your interests (as well as the pic you posted in the Post Your Pic thread). 😌 😌
You certainly are a person I would never have met in my real life and are one of the interesting members I'd love to meet in person! 👍

I know there's more to life than JRef but look forward to reading your posts (when you have the time) in the future! :-)
 
I can relate to what you've said. I come and go all the time 8-) My last hiatus lasted about a year but now i'm back to lurking once again and posting sporadically trivial replies as the need arises 8-)
 
Iron Chef said:
I can relate to what you've said. I come and go all the time 8-) My last hiatus lasted about a year but now i'm back to lurking once again and posting sporadically trivial replies as the need arises 8-)

I always worry you have been run down by a kamikaza taxi or stabbed by a young turk Yakuza when you dissapear for so long!! Glad to see you still alive and kicking!

Uncle Frank

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Heh, nice to see your still around to hold the fort down Uncle Frank. It's nice to be in familiar waters again. 8-)
 
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