looking for a asian girl around my age

[Supervin]

Heh, he demands girls only though.

 

[dreamer]

the true question is: is he really 14?
Anyway why not a boy instead of a girl? I understand for the age part being related to interest centers but still...
Beside...chatting to learn a language seems kinda useless ot me when you are not taking any class to obtain some basics.

 

[Kara_Nari]

Ok, assuming that yes he is only 14. He did appear slightly naive at some peoples comments.
When I learn languages, I prefer to learn from the opposite sex. Not for sexual reasons, just because I find it easier to concentrate.
Maybe yes, he does want to show off his pretty asian 'cyber' girlfriend, but other than that... surely its got to be fairly harmless, if only for a couple more years.

 

[shuya]

look the reason for a girl is if i have a boy that teaches me and some of my friends know that they all would say g*y to me and i am for real 14 years old if u dont believe me come to the netherlands and search for me ...

 

[dreamer]

So in the teens world nowaday I'd be considered as g*y just because I prefer a conversation between males more than a conversation where a girl's trying to hit on me...? (; )
Difficult to keep in touch with the trend...
Dang...how strange the teen world has become...
Oh and Kara_nari, age has nothing to do with trying to "get into a girl's pants"
(sorry for the expression... ), some of my acquaintances started at 11 years old (^^; )

 

[Mars Man]

I'm not one to cuss, if I spelled that correctly, but this 'looking for an Asian girl' just somehow seems to have been staring me in the face for too many days now, and I just broke down and here I am...I tried my best to abstain from the temptation to open this thread and look at it (much less post here), and yet, here I am.

I have an Asian girl. She's sleeping in the bedroom at this very moment. She's just another person, another human being, but yet she is so special to me--and that's not just because she's Asian (yet, ironically, partially is) it's because I have to deal with it (her) every dadburn day.

Hey, life goes on. I feel for you shuya !! Really, I am thinking about you. Please do more to learn a lot about more about the world before you look for what's in it, please !!!!!!!!

 

[kirei_na_me]

So in the teens world nowaday I'd be considered as g*y just because I prefer a conversation between males more than a conversation where a girl's trying to hit on me...? (; )
Difficult to keep in touch with the trend...
Dang...how strange the teen world has become...
Oh and Kara_nari, age has nothing to do with trying to "get into a girl's pants"
(sorry for the expression... ), some of my acquaintances started at 11 years old (^^; )

Ah, it's good to see dreamer posting again... ;-)

 

[RockLee]

Hey effe een nederlander of een belg effe vertalen voor mij ik snap er niks van..???

Shuya, this is an English-speaking board, if you don't understand you should either look up, or find a board where they speak Dutch
In Dutch: Dit is een Engelstalig forum, als je het niet verstaat, zoek het op of zoek een forum waar ze Nederlands praten.
Please keep your posts in English, thank you for your understanding !

 

[Carlson]

I'll say only one thing in reference to the title..."Aren't we all?"

I have one.. I find them everyday.. the only thing is, if i could do what i wanted with them after i found them.

 

[RockLee]

I have one.. I find them everyday.. the only thing is, if i could do what i wanted with them after i found them.

tsktsk, perv !

 

[Da Monstar]

There is a point in what CC1 said.

But I think this thread maybe was the wrong idea of trying to hook up with one , but anyway I had my laugh.

 

[MajideSaiaku]

Sorry, i know what its like to be 14, he wants a cyber girlfriend, you dont get called gay for learning a language off of someone else, if you do, their immature and not friends.

Also please look up the love and relationships forum, it has a pinned topic about this asian fever and awsners important questions for you.



FINALLY, man, i highly advise you avoid net relations, at your age its just throwing away feelings on someone you will likely never meet.

Ive done the cyber g/f thing, i know, and even if you do meet and it gets serious, you will have to put up with being apart alot, that is sooo hard i wouldnt wish that kinda pain on osama.

My advice is, find a nice pretty dutch girl, date her, share those high-school first loves with her, and if its meant to be, go steady, marry and have little dutch kiddies.


I love my girlfriend but god knows i wouldnt wish an international relationship on anyone, especially your age.

 

[kirei_na_me]

Nurizeko, I agree with you 100%, mon ami...

 

[shuya]

sorry i have to say i hate dutch female's i want asian female as my women but after i readed all of that i think that the sex doesnt matter if you are a male or female i only want to learn japanese so male or female doesnt matter..

 

[Rich303]

I love my girlfriend but god knows i wouldnt wish an international relationship on anyone, especially your age.

Yes, it can be a nightmare!
I met my GF in London (thinking she lived here),only to discover she was going home really soon. I sometimes wonder if my life would be easier if we hadn't stayed in touch - but, we got on so well that we did.
I visited her in Japan and we are still in touch, but it's hard to keep it going sometimes.
But anyway, now you say you don't mind if it is a girl or boy, so I won't say anymore.

 

[godppgo]

Yes, it can be a nightmare!
I met my GF in London (thinking she lived here),only to discover she was going home really soon. I sometimes wonder if my life would be easier if we hadn't stayed in touch - but, we got on so well that we did.
I visited her in Japan and we are still in touch, but it's hard to keep it going sometimes.
But anyway, now you say you don't mind if it is a girl or boy, so I won't say anymore.

At least you two can see each other if you really wanted to. My gf can't visit me most of the time because of diplomatic/VISA reason. Only I can go visit her.

 

[dreamer]

Ah, it's good to see dreamer posting again... ;-)

Well let's say I'm back for now


Otherwise yes a long distance relationship is difficult and that's precisely the reason why I didn't start one (even though I can say it was the first time a girl told me she really would have liked us to be closer than friends...).
Anyway I think Shuya still has time to think about it, he's still young
By the way, I hate most french girls as well when it comes to love relationships so I unerstand how you feel but don't make stereotypes so quickly ^^

 

[Mikawa Ossan]

Iam looking for a asian female around my age (14) for chatting on msn and teaching me japanese or something..

Incidentally, just because someone is asian doesn't mean that they know Japanese.

 

[shuya]

ok ok then someone who knows japanese but i dont want someone older then 21 year..

 

[Mitsuo]

Shuya,

I hope you can find someone that is of your age limit to teach you japanese. It is always easier to learn something if the person teaching you is your age. You relate better to them and they can speak your "language", if you know what I mean. If you are searching for a cyber g/f , well, I wish you luck in your search. But I don't recommend going cyber, especially because of all the reasons Nurizeko gave.

I learn better when my professors are women. It's nothing sexual, but they have softer, higher voices, and it helps me listen. So, I will give you the benefit of the doubt, and I will believe you when you say that you just want to learn. Don't let your friends screw things up for you. Usually when people call you gay, it means that they are trying to cover up their own homosexuality.

But I'm still sticking with lessons. It would be more efficient, and professional.

Anyways, Good Luck Dude!!

 

[shuya]

i like this forum every one is kind to each other

 

[TwistedMac]

i like this forum every one is kind to each other

Heeeeere's Johnny!

 

[Davey]

Shuya kung, have a look here: http://www.uchiyama.nl/ngjapinned1.htm maybe you are able to find some adresses for in the netherlands!!! we have 6000 japanese in the netherlands! I'm sure you will be able to find a girl in here.

 

[ullvarg]

You could start by checking out japan-guide.com forum - Questions -
It's not really a forum, you can write an ad for a pen pal and check others.
If you start by getting to know someone maybe they can help you with the language. BTW allot of the ads there are for language exchange

 

[Elizabeth]

Yes, it can be a nightmare!
I met my GF in London (thinking she lived here),only to discover she was going home really soon. I sometimes wonder if my life would be easier if we hadn't stayed in touch - but, we got on so well that we did.
I visited her in Japan and we are still in touch, but it's hard to keep it going sometimes.

Yeah, it at least for me it has required visiting every two or three months for 1 or 2 years or more before even starting to judge whether it's the distance that's making you uncomfortable or the relationship itself. If the regrets don't pass eventually and you're still wondering if you love this woman every time you see them, it's probably time to think about breaking it off. And whether it ultimately lasts or not, at least you get in some great travel experience and the chance to see yourself through a new culture and language.

On stereotyping and generalizing for other people, especially an OP I have no personal information on and besides who never asked, that's something I have an anathema to at a really, really disturbing level. Online and long-distance are both viable possibilities depending on the person and situation...it's just one more thing to be decided as an adult individual by individual.