Japanese girls & White guys - White girls & Japanese guys

japaniese+white

  • nice match

    Votes: 183 56.5%
  • will never workout

    Votes: 13 4.0%
  • Maybe

    Votes: 76 23.5%
  • What are you talking about man?

    Votes: 53 16.4%

  • Total voters
    324
The topic that won't die, but yet there are tons of replies. And i'm always one of them. I will not reply to the next one, coming soon.
 
Originally posted by Seppuku
it shouldnt matter what race/color anything two people are if they really like/love eachother who are we to judge ?

lol, yea and the world is perfect and pigs can fly.
 
Interesting thread. I recently met a Japanese girl that I like (I'm a British Indian) and we met purely for language exchange here in London. I like her a lot and quite fancy her too. We get on really well and have a good time when we get together about once a week.

Even though we've only just met I'm waiting to see how things develop between us as friends before I tell her that I really like her. I don't want to upset the applecart so early in this new friendship though I can't stop thinking about her. I know what you might be thinking: she's a new friend so of course she's always in my thoughts and time will tell if I feel the same way about her in a few months.

At the moment it works well in a way as it incentivises me to keep practising my Japanese so that we do learn new things when we see each other, and I'm impressing her so far, I think. :-)

She doesn't pull away if I put my hand on hers while we're talking in the coffee shop, but I'm careful as to not be too obvious. I think I've got it bad for her and it's killing me that I can't say anything at this stage other than just pour it out here!

I hope she's not reading this right now.......
 
I am not Japanese,I am Chinese

but to me it seems like Asian guys & Western girls couples are not very common compare to the Asian girls & Western guys couples

but few years ago I met one beautiful white girl,she liked me,
and gave me some gifts for Valentine's Day,
but I did not get together with her because I wanted to concentrate on basketball.
 
Ask the ol folks !!

I'd like to see a poll of how many Japanese parents and grandparents wouldn't mind a bit if their daughter(granddaughter) married a foreigner. I don't think we would see many positive answers????

Frank
 
One of my best friends(Japanese) told me that before coming to the U.S., her grandmother told her that it would be okay if she married a white guy, but they would disown her if she married a black guy... :eek:
 
Originally posted by kirei_na_me
One of my best friends(Japanese) told me that before coming to the U.S., her grandmother told her that it would be okay if she married a white guy, but they would disown her if she married a black guy... :eek:


Well theres goes my chance down the crapper! :mad: :p :p :p :p :p :auch: :cautious:
 
Originally posted by Troyka
you see true that many japaniesie girls would not even look at the white guy:(

It depends on where you are. While growing up in the U.S. I've noticed that most Oriental girls went out of their way to date white guys. There was definitely some self-hatred going on regarding one's own race. One gal once said that dating an Oriental guy is almost like dating your own brother.

On the other hand, if you're in Japan a white guy may not always get 20 points right away for being white. Perhaps because most women in Japan don't speak such good English and it would be too much of a hassle to date a guy who didn;t speak Japanese too well.

If you noticed, I don't use the term "Asian" to describe the Mongoloid race. I use the old-fashioned "Oriental." To me "Asian" is improper since there are people of different races living in Asia and Chinese, Japanese and Koreans have no right to claim that they;re the only Asians. Also, "Asian" only refers to a geographical location rather than a racial category and therefore it perpetuates the stereotype of Orientals in the U.S. as foreignors ("Where are you from?" "Do you speak any English?"). Many of us who are U.S. citizens wnat to be considered and treated as legitimate Americans. If you called a white person a "European", he would most likely respond, "I'm NOT a European, I'm an American." To refer to such a person as European is to treat him as a foreignor and that is improper. Likewise, I am NOT an Asian. I am an American of the Oriental race.

BTW, many blacks do not want to be called "African-American" and many Indians do not like to be called "Native-Americans".
 
I think, my last post here should be in the other thread, too. It was a direct response to Escaflowne from 01-12-03 16:09. Thanks.
 
done and done :)
thanks for pointing that out bossel, i meant to move that one too, must have missed it...
 
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