Japanese girls & White guys - White girls & Japanese guys

[yukio_michael]

If I actually had to pick from an american or a japanese guy, I'd pick japanese and I'm american! lol

Since a good majority of your other posts deal with men who happen to sing in Visual Kei bands, I'll tell you that your image of Japanese men is probably pretty different than the way that the majority of the common population actualy are.

 

[yukio_michael]

I forget where, but some where on jref (maybe the chat) i heard a referance to "honkers" being popular with japanese females. Honkers (i guess) are a referance to noses. lol I once had a gf (from a japanese family) that was really concerned about her nose for some reson. She referred to herself as a Koala... She was a weird one.. X'D

Personally, I know that I never paid so much attention to the bridge of my nose, and how different it was to my girlfriends--- so, my mention of this comes from my personal experience too.

I like to think that race will always matter in some way, and it should... I hope that we don't all become homogenous in such a way that we can't appreciate each other's differences.

 

[kohlrak]

I like to think that race will always matter in some way, and it should... I hope that we don't all become homogenous in such a way that we can't appreciate each other's differences.

It gets really bad, though, when some people call it racism. Then you feel obligated to go out with some one just to prove you're not a racist, which is wrong.

 

[yukio_michael]

It gets really bad, though, when some people call it racism. Then you feel obligated to go out with some one just to prove you're not a racist, which is wrong.

I don't think anyone should go out with someone solely based on race--- that works out the same as dating people solely on looks, regardless of race.

That said, I don't think there's anything wrong with saying you like a particular type of person. My first Japanese crush was a girl who happened to like Persian guys... me, I happened to like Asian girls... guess how well that worked out. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes though, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Hopefully we never date someone just to prove a point.

 

[kohlrak]

I don't think anyone should go out with someone solely based on race--- that works out the same as dating people solely on looks, regardless of race.

That said, I don't think there's anything wrong with saying you like a particular type of person. My first Japanese crush was a girl who happened to like Persian guys... me, I happened to like Asian girls... guess how well that worked out. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes though, and there's nothing wrong with that.

Hopefully we never date someone just to prove a point.

Sadly some people do...

 

[El P8s]

Race really doesn't matter in a relationship, but one thing that does matter in a relationship is culture. People from different countries have different expectations of others, and while they are not always diametrically opposed, you both should have an understanding of each other's culture to have a happy and loving relationship.
I do think that race matters when it comes to personal preferences... I think I would be lying if I said it didn't... There are in fact, beautiful women all around the world, but people sometimes like a painting by one artist over the paintings of another... It all has to do with aethetics, and if for example someone's look is exciting and different to you, then this can make the relationship even more special because you come to love someone and their differences, and you notice the things like the bridge of their nose, or their ears, or their hair that you might have never paid attention to otherwise... it can definitely make your relationship very special.

I personally think ,that if both parties are significantly educated culture isn't that big a obstacle =)

 

[El P8s]

Oh, I don't think you are dear.

Ok I must admit I probably don't live in an area with a large percentage of black people ,but something I noticed is just ,that most white guys (of course I can only draw conclusions from what I heard and saw) are less attracted to black women ,than to white or asien women ,while the majority of the (sorry in advance for saying this^^) "white chicks" tend to be quite drawn to black men.
Strange isn't it

 

[Ma Cherie]

Ok I must admit I probably don't live in an area with a large percentage of black people ,but something I noticed is just ,that most white guys (of course I can only draw conclusions from what I heard and saw) are less attracted to black women ,than to white or asien women ,while the majority of the (sorry in advance for saying this^^) "white chicks" tend to be quite drawn to black men.
Strange isn't it

Yes, it is, but it's not surprsing. I think there's alot of negative misconceptions about black women that may have something to do with it. Then, I could be wrong.

 

[El P8s]

Yes, it is, but it's not surprsing. I think there's alot of negative misconceptions about black women that may have something to do with it. Then, I could be wrong.

What exactly do you mean?^^

 

[Ma Cherie]

What exactly do you mean?^^

Well, I also feel that sometimes, attractivness could have a little to do with misconceptions about certian races of people. Like I said, I could be wrong about this, but sometimes the reason why a person may be attracted to another race could have something to do with what they learned about that culture. For example, Asian women are stereotyped for being submissive, so a person could have this stereotypical view, and may find more assertive women less attractive. So my comment earlier about there being alot of stereotyptes about black women (i.e. more demanding, loud, etc.) could be the reason why some people may not find them attractive.

Did this explanation help a little? It's the best way I could say it. But I am well aware that this isn't the case, I understand that people just simply have a certian preference.

 

[El P8s]

Hmm well the reason I find black women attractive is just ,that I like the tone of their skin
But that's just me although I personally don't know any stereotypical attributes black women are supposed to have , could you fill me in?^^

 

[Ma Cherie]

Hmm well the reason I find black women attractive is just ,that I like the tone of their skin
But that's just me although I personally don't know any stereotypical attributes black women are supposed to have , could you fill me in?^^

Well, darling you like what you like.

I see that you're from Germany, so I understand that you haven't heard any stereotypes of black women, but the ones I will mention are mainly in the US

One is that black women are hypersexual and promiscuous
A dependancy on social programs or in other words, welfare
Involved with drugs
Poor and has a whole bunch of children, all from different fathers!
And the ones I mentioned above, demanding and loud.

Well, those are the one's I can think of.

 

[El P8s]

Hmm never heared of that but then again I am only a sauerkraut =D although I am half a tommy my heart is a kraut ^^

Could you tell ,what is stereotypical for white guys in the US (and perhaps for people from germany?)

 

[Ma Cherie]

Hmm never heared of that but then again I am only a sauerkraut =D although I am half a tommy my heart is a kraut ^^
Could you tell ,what is stereotypical for white guys in the US (and perhaps for people from germany?)

I don't know too many stereotypes for people from Germany, except that they never smile. ☝

Stereotypes I heard about white guys are:

They're usually associated with conservatives
They're wealthy, or what is called white trash
Don't like talking about race
being serial killers

And that's all I heard

 

[El P8s]

Why are white guys serial killers?^^

 

[RockLee]

*Remembers Linna Inverse with his German socks up to his knees*

 

[Kinsao]

Oh yes, white guys are most definitely serial killers. This place is crawling with them! :shiver:

Maybe it's not typical, but although I live in a city with a very high proportion of 'non-white-British' people, it's rather uncommon to find a white girl going out with a black guy. I don't know why ☝, because people of different races/backgrounds seem to get along pretty well in this city as a rule ... although maybe people tend to stick to their own community... ... maybe that's the reason we get along OK... :?

 

[kohlrak]

White chicks scare me.... And i'm white.. X'D and... by scare i mean scare scare, not a boy girl cooties scare thing or nervous scare thing, i mean scare. X'D Then again, maybe it's my own experiences. lol

Did this explanation help a little? It's the best way I could say it. But I am well aware that this isn't the case, I understand that people just simply have a certian preference.

Exactly... I'm a very submissive guy actually. X'D I just think that different things appeal to different people, regardless of background. Though, if you do have a psychological background with one race, it really would effect, but i don't think the main attractions are due to mainstreams. But it really can have an effect. Like i said, i like asian females. But every time i see a pic of misty i almost throw up due to what the psychological effect she had on me. Other asian chicks i think are cute, but not her. lol Everyone still thinks she's hot...

 

[yukio_michael]

Maybe it's not typical, but although I live in a city with a very high proportion of 'non-white-British' people, it's rather uncommon to find a white girl going out with a black guy. I don't know why ☝

I think it's because people identify themselves more across class boundaries, or at least, class boundaries are an imporant factor in English social structures... they always have been when I've been there.

 

[Kinsao]

I think it's because people identify themselves more across class boundaries, or at least, class boundaries are an imporant factor in English social structures... they always have been when I've been there.

I think with the black/white thing, it is a 'race thing' rather than a 'class thing' - although I know what you mean about the class boundaries and you are right. Although in some respects it is getting less so... not to say that class boundaries don't still exist, but maybe not quite where you expect to find them.

 

[El P8s]

I know I am beeing really stereotypical now but I always had this idea ,that black guys and white girls was quite a common site just not the other way round.

 

[yukio_michael]

I know I am beeing really stereotypical now but I always had this idea ,that black guys and white girls was quite a common site just not the other way round.

I don't have any data that supports this, but I think you are correct on this.

 

[kohlrak]

I'm a white guy, amber's black... I'm not gonna get into the details of how exactly what moffeltoff said works for me...

 

[kuroachia-jin]

Hi everyone!
I'm croatian girl... Is there any japanese boys for me?

 

[ArmandV]

Hi everyone!
I'm croatian girl... Is there any japanese boys for me?

It depends upon how much money you have.