The thing is you have no choice where you are born, it is decided for you, along with your citizenship.
People may knock the U.S., but here, your citizenship is a choice, not a birthright. My ancestors are from Italy, Germany, and Lithuania. I've dated girls who's ancestors came here three hundred years ago, a hundred years ago, fifty, and twenty. All of them were Americans.
I dont need to have a raging hard-on for Scotland to appriciate it, to appriciate the fair laws, to appriciate the economic comfortability, the good climate, I definately dont need patriotism to wish the best for my family and friends and the well-being of my community.
If that is how you feel, then you are definitely confusing patriotism with nationalism.
I would fight for my country if the need arose, but that was my choice in my own time of my own will.
And you are implying that the willingness to do so is
not patriotism?
As I said, patriotism is for adults to decide.
Children should be taught values, and patriotism is a value. It should be instilled in them, because it is good teaching. If people were patriotic, they'd desire what was best for their society and their country--what is good. Patriotism isn't blind. It is an appreciation for those who have gone before and sacrificed for you to have things you might otherwise not have had. Liking and disliking aspects of your homeland is separate from patriotism.
I might march under one, but I wouldnt die for a flag.
I would, because whether you realize it or not, your flag
is your country.
Except for a few semantic points, though, you and I agree a lot about what patriotism is. Nevertheless, I do believe it should be taught, and isn't necessarily just empty ritual. It is part of your culture. A prominent Native American historian once said that a people never dies so long as they still sing their songs, learn their stories and histories, and feels connection with one-another. Patriotism is just that--shared cultural legacies, and a love for those legacies. As an American, I am proud of many historical figures from my past, I know many of our songs by heart, and even enjoy mythical events, such as Washington chopping down the cherry tree (which, yes, never happened).
The lack of patriotism shared between me and my current generation is tangible. You can see it. People are more worried about Gucci and Lost than they are whether-or-not we are doing the right thing in Iraq. And the only reason people in the US want us out isn't because they truly believe it is wrong, it is because they are afraid of getting drafted, or afraid that they'll have to keep paying $50 to fill their SUV.
In centuries past, Americans were willing to sacrifice things in order to achieve something. Now, we aren't. Because patriotism is the antithesis to selfish consumerism. To be a patriot, you have to be selfless.
Nationalism and selfish consumerism, on the other hand, go together. People are more apt to vote for someone who lies about being patriotic than someone who truly is. And nationalist regimes FORCE you to sacrifice. They make it too inconvenient to fight for your freedoms and rights. People in my country would gladly sign away their freedoms if it would guarantee they could still watch American Idol and have sex with their gardener. Why? Because we no longer have any sort of patriotism. There is either apathy, or nationalism.