I@m looking for Anglo Saxon who can donate his sperm in Yokohama Japan
- Thread starter BeHappy
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- 8 Aug 2005
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story time, please!
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US military bases in Yokohama still there ??
It would seem with all the young military men in the area of the base , it would be easy to talk a man of your choice to help you out. Maybe if you post a current picture of yourself , it will get someone to offer help?
Uncle Frank
It would seem with all the young military men in the area of the base , it would be easy to talk a man of your choice to help you out. Maybe if you post a current picture of yourself , it will get someone to offer help?
Uncle Frank
Lestat84
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Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.............. Way to ask an awkward question. If you wanna have a baby just hook up with someone and make sure no one uses any protection or birth control. If I need to explain any further then I think you need some help, but not from us 
MitsuKasuka
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Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.............. Way to ask an awkward question. If you wanna have a baby just hook up with someone and make sure no one uses any protection or birth control. If I need to explain any further then I think you need some help, but not from us
She wants sperm donated ;P Not... That.
Often these kinds of arrangements are made over quite a long-distance, and even among friends! O:
Have you tried contacting some sort of fertility clinic? Or even going on some more specific forums?
Lestat84
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among friends, now that's a great way to make things awkward.
MitsuKasuka
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I know yea e.e definitely not for everyone!
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More complicated then you would think.
Will the donor be required to support the child (by Japanese law)? Will the mother get a full health history of the donor and his family history of medical problems if any. Will the child know their father and have contact later in life? Will it be a one time "wam-bam-thank-you-ma'am" type get togeather or a turkey baster fertilization? Will lawyers and doctors be involved? Any money changing hands for the stud fee?Will the child be teased for being a "half" Japanese? So much to think about??
Uncle Frank
Will the donor be required to support the child (by Japanese law)? Will the mother get a full health history of the donor and his family history of medical problems if any. Will the child know their father and have contact later in life? Will it be a one time "wam-bam-thank-you-ma'am" type get togeather or a turkey baster fertilization? Will lawyers and doctors be involved? Any money changing hands for the stud fee?Will the child be teased for being a "half" Japanese? So much to think about??
Uncle Frank
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Thank you for your reply. Yes, I've been to many different IVF clinic in many different countries. I did succeeded once and I want her sister or brother. I prefer boy but...as long as I can have another baby, I will be glad. I've been talking out to my husband about trying IVF again but he cannot accept it. He is denying. Therefore, I need someone to help me out here. I he cannot cooperate, I need somebody who can help me to go through this. I'm not going to contact that person after it's been done and won't expect anything from him so just need that sperm for this one time.
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Yes, I have thought about all those. I don't expect anything from the father ( the donor). If he wants to contact him/her in the future, I will talk to her/hm when she/him grows up. I don't have any lawyers to involved in this. If they corporate, how much is he be expecting for that? I have no clue so I can talk about this matter. I don't think the donor is required to support the child. There is no law for that, I think. I don't expect any of that so. I would like to know the medical history of the donor and any kind of criminal history. If I can talk to that person and had a good impression on him then, I think its good. Child won't be teased of being a mixed blood, She or he will envy her/him. I want to put my kids to international school in Japan so. And I live in Okinawa . I am in Yokohama temporarily for now but I am planning to go back soon. Therefore, before I go back to Okinawa, I need to get this operation done quickly.
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BeHappy, are You interesting in already born children? I mean, I am an owner of two: boy and girl. Those are genuine and in mint condition. They are very easy in care, just feed them and ... pay for university. BTW, any feedback is very appreciated.
I forgot to tell that they will be good brother and sister to Your kid.
Another note: You will get supplimentary bonus dog 'Tooziq' if You will decide to go with girl.
Piece and Prosperity
(one piece per household)
I forgot to tell that they will be good brother and sister to Your kid.
Another note: You will get supplimentary bonus dog 'Tooziq' if You will decide to go with girl.
Piece and Prosperity
(one piece per household)
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BeHappy, yes, I am very serious. They are 23 and 20 year old, but they looks much younger. I think that their mother will agree with that too. They are in america now, but I can ship them to Japan at any moment.
>> Are you asking me to adopt them?
Not really, but it will be nice if You will feed them and pay their tuition for couple years. Also, that dog, it required too much attention, or it will chew everything in five miles radius.
So ... that is fairly good deal. Are You in?
>> Are you asking me to adopt them?
Not really, but it will be nice if You will feed them and pay their tuition for couple years. Also, that dog, it required too much attention, or it will chew everything in five miles radius.
So ... that is fairly good deal. Are You in?
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Hi ewww,
Thanks for your reply. Your children are too old for me. I want the little children and so they think I am their mother but if they are that big, too difficult. Thank you for your offer though. And the dog. May be too busy to have your dog around.
Thanks for your reply. Your children are too old for me. I want the little children and so they think I am their mother but if they are that big, too difficult. Thank you for your offer though. And the dog. May be too busy to have your dog around.
- 8 Aug 2005
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BeHappy, did you say you already did IVF, and already have a child, but your husband is against having another one... and your solution is to just do it anyways?
This is better than I expected.
This is better than I expected.
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What do you mean by "better than you expected" What did you expect, may I ask? Am I wrong to do this? Now he wants the divorce. I said "fine", I wanted divorce for a long time. We have no love, sex, not even kisses just arguing all the time since we had the 1st baby. I don't know which is good for my daughter now. To stay as parents with arguing all the time or single parent and peaceful & lovely life?
