Jungle Boy
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- 1 Oct 2004
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I have never had a girlfriend. There are no women in the jungle, just trees.
how many gf / bf you have had?
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Camui
Crimson Butterfly
- 3 Oct 2004
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that's true..no matter what you're gonna get hurt eventually...I think its probably better to expirience those types of things at a young age cuz its not as hard to recover from than when you're older...by then mistakes can be greater if u don't have expirience..that's just my opinion..not to mention I would think living like that would make u a lonely person...you're mising ot on a lot of things....
EscaFlowne
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- 14 Nov 2003
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If there is anyone that you guys should listen too, i think it's Wintr for just how real he is!
Japanimaniac
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- 6 Oct 2004
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The love and relationship forum is more interesting than I thought.
Girlfriend 1 - I was 15. it lasted a few months
Girlfriend 2 - Shortly after girlfriend 1. I was in the "I need to be with someone!!!" phase
Girlfriend 3 - I was 16. This one lasted about a year. Didn't realize what I had
Girlfriend 4 - Again, in the "I need to be with someone!!!" phase. After a couple months, I realized how much girlfriend 3 meant to me. She was my everything. Been trying to get girlfriend 3 back ever since
Pain is definitely inevitable, and it is also usually the only thing that will make you realize the truth, even though most of the time it's too late. Life is so ironic.
Girlfriend 1 - I was 15. it lasted a few months
Girlfriend 2 - Shortly after girlfriend 1. I was in the "I need to be with someone!!!" phase
Girlfriend 3 - I was 16. This one lasted about a year. Didn't realize what I had
Girlfriend 4 - Again, in the "I need to be with someone!!!" phase. After a couple months, I realized how much girlfriend 3 meant to me. She was my everything. Been trying to get girlfriend 3 back ever since
Pain is definitely inevitable, and it is also usually the only thing that will make you realize the truth, even though most of the time it's too late. Life is so ironic.
cicatriz esp
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- 21 Aug 2004
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Camui said:
This is, to be blunt, ridiculous. If there's anything i've learned, it's that love is who you know. If someone is isolated beyond their control, then there's no "game" to play. Some people dont have a choice in being lonely, especially younger guys. Girls arent going to come to them, and if they dont know anyone, then they're f*****.
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Eternal Wind
聖天使
- 30 Jan 2004
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How many Girlfriends did I have?
Hmm....3
First one was memorable but it turned ugly after 3 months...
Second one was too fast and ended up after 3 months also....
Third one which is now...is still going~she is "the One" I've been searching for...
Hmm....3
First one was memorable but it turned ugly after 3 months...
Second one was too fast and ended up after 3 months also....
Third one which is now...is still going~she is "the One" I've been searching for...
cicatriz esp
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- 21 Aug 2004
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Winter said:
Yeah, I've read posts here and there (not just on this board) by people who claim to have never had a relationship by choice. I can't say that I've believed any of them.
Suki-Yaki
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- 22 Jun 2004
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yeah yeah yeah all of these girlfriend boyfriend stuff... :auch:
How come I never had a boyfriend ?!!
As hard as I try , but I can`t get progress . I`m living on the greetings and smiles and nice gestures of the boys I like , this is so pathetic ..
And now in japan ,cute boys are everywhere!! Just to add into my misery~~~
However !! Someday!!! *confronts the sun*
How come I never had a boyfriend ?!!
As hard as I try , but I can`t get progress . I`m living on the greetings and smiles and nice gestures of the boys I like , this is so pathetic ..
And now in japan ,cute boys are everywhere!! Just to add into my misery~~~
However !! Someday!!! *confronts the sun*
Eternal Wind
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- 30 Jan 2004
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Suki chan so pityful!
Your lover will appear one day!
All u need to do is find or wait.
Your lover will appear one day!
All u need to do is find or wait.
dreamer
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- 15 Aug 2003
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Hahaha as stated before, I've never had one either
Actually I dunno why, I've always kept not going close to girls, since each time I'm around one I get clumsy and all...
(actually the few times a girl was interrested in me I practically ran away)
But well... dear suki-yaki, if you want a boyfriend, you have to get close to boys, not only greeting them. Waiting for one to come to you is a loss of time; try to show them that they interest you and you'll eventually success.
Actually I dunno why, I've always kept not going close to girls, since each time I'm around one I get clumsy and all...
(actually the few times a girl was interrested in me I practically ran away)
But well... dear suki-yaki, if you want a boyfriend, you have to get close to boys, not only greeting them. Waiting for one to come to you is a loss of time; try to show them that they interest you and you'll eventually success.
Suki-Yaki
焼肉わが家が一番
- 22 Jun 2004
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uurrgh..
easy to say ... but how ?? :?
And are you saying that even when you`re interested in a girl , you don`t look?? Does this mean that the boys I like may share something towards me..??
I know I have to try , but I can`t hold my self to even talk them in the eyes ... uuhnn maybe someday ...
easy to say ... but how ?? :?
And are you saying that even when you`re interested in a girl , you don`t look?? Does this mean that the boys I like may share something towards me..??
I know I have to try , but I can`t hold my self to even talk them in the eyes ... uuhnn maybe someday ...
dreamer
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- 15 Aug 2003
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By the way you are reacting I think you're still quite young (Hope I'm not hurting your feelings)
Human beings tend to act contrary to what they feel like. For exemple a shy boy who's deeply in love with you will most of the time say that he doesn't like you or something like that, when pressured by something (most of the time friends or classmates).
I'm not saying that everybody's like this, but if you can overcome your fear to talk to boys and if you manage to feel comfortable around them then you'll have no problem finding a boyfriend.
Human beings tend to act contrary to what they feel like. For exemple a shy boy who's deeply in love with you will most of the time say that he doesn't like you or something like that, when pressured by something (most of the time friends or classmates).
I'm not saying that everybody's like this, but if you can overcome your fear to talk to boys and if you manage to feel comfortable around them then you'll have no problem finding a boyfriend.
jieshi
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- 5 May 2004
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@ suki-yaki
Most guys are shy when it comes to relationships and feelings. Its not like the movies all the time when you get a good looking guy walking up to you going "hey i really like you want to go out sometime". To be honest if a guy ever does that he would have had to work up so much confidence to say that to you (I know from past experience. do you know how gut wrenching it is asking a girl that?)
Maybe you should try taking the first step and show the person you interested in them.
Ask them out for dinner or something, maybe drop a line like "i've been thinking about you lately" (though I dont know how subtle that is lol)
i think it will all work out for you. like I said in another thread, if a relationship is meant to happen it will happen relatively easily.
Most guys are shy when it comes to relationships and feelings. Its not like the movies all the time when you get a good looking guy walking up to you going "hey i really like you want to go out sometime". To be honest if a guy ever does that he would have had to work up so much confidence to say that to you (I know from past experience. do you know how gut wrenching it is asking a girl that?)
Maybe you should try taking the first step and show the person you interested in them.
Ask them out for dinner or something, maybe drop a line like "i've been thinking about you lately" (though I dont know how subtle that is lol)
i think it will all work out for you. like I said in another thread, if a relationship is meant to happen it will happen relatively easily.
EscaFlowne
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- 14 Nov 2003
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Part of your post was right Jieshi, though some guys actually are confident when they talk to girls. It's not that hard, the first step takes that you believe in yourself. Alof of younger men, wont say teenagers, miss out on some good healthy relationship experience because they believe certain beliefs like what you said. Confidence is the key to the young men and women of the world!
Suki-Yaki
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- 22 Jun 2004
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Maybe..
It shouldn`t hurt me , since I`ve heard it like a hundred times now ..
Welly , not really young. 18 years old. But I think the kind of relationship I want should have started on my early teenage. Ofcourse that`s just so typical .. oh well..
The problem is not only with talking to tha honey. It`s also what comes later that could be fatal. I mean , what if the boy rejects me or gives me a dirty look??! I will melt into sand and perish in the deepest layers of earth !!!!!
dreamer said:
It shouldn`t hurt me , since I`ve heard it like a hundred times now ..
Welly , not really young. 18 years old. But I think the kind of relationship I want should have started on my early teenage. Ofcourse that`s just so typical .. oh well..
The problem is not only with talking to tha honey. It`s also what comes later that could be fatal. I mean , what if the boy rejects me or gives me a dirty look??! I will melt into sand and perish in the deepest layers of earth !!!!!
dreamer
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- 15 Aug 2003
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Suki-Yaki said:It shouldn`t hurt me , since I`ve heard it like a hundred times now ..
Welly , not really young. 18 years old. But I think the kind of relationship I want should have started on my early teenage. Ofcourse that`s just so typical .. oh well..
The problem is not only with talking to tha honey. It`s also what comes later that could be fatal. I mean , what if the boy rejects me or gives me a dirty look??! I will melt into sand and perish in the deepest layers of earth !!!!!
18 years old...sigh...I wish I was still 18 years old
Anyway if the boy reacts like you said it shows that he's immature and a total jerk, thus not worth having a relationship with.
Anyway being rejected sure hurts, but well...if you don't try you'll never succeed. As my grandfather was saying: the only risk you take by trying something is to success it for if you don't try things won't change.
Of course I too would have liked to have a relationship that started when I was younger, but well...it can't be helped now.
You can't alway be sad thinking about the past and you should learn to live your life fully thinking only about future.
Really, you should follow my advice ( and I think I'm not the only one thinking like this) and give it a try ^^
jieshi
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- 5 May 2004
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dreamer said:18 years old...sigh...I wish I was still 18 years old
Anyway if the boy reacts like you said it shows that he's immature and a total jerk, thus not worth having a relationship with.
Anyway being rejected sure hurts, but well...if you don't try you'll never succeed. As my grandfather was saying: the only risk you take by trying something is to success it for if you don't try things won't change.
Of course I too would have liked to have a relationship that started when I was younger, but well...it can't be helped now.
You can't alway be sad thinking about the past and you should learn to live your life fully thinking only about future.
Really, you should follow my advice ( and I think I'm not the only one thinking like this) and give it a try ^^
@Suki-Yaki
What dreamer has said is true. Do you really want to be in a relationship with a guy who isn't going to love you endlessy, cherish you and treat you like you are the world? I know I wouldn't want to be with a girl who would treat me like crap and use me to get her own way, that would suck.
And being rejected does hurt! I have had a few girls do it to me, they have led me on until I admit to them how I feel and then drop the bomb that they've been playing me the whole time and then they turn into the most evil people I have ever met! though thank god I have learnt from these experiences and am much better at recognising these girls!
Just keep perservering and it will happen, you will get that boyfriend and sweetie, I promise you he will be the most perfect guy for you
try not to stress to much!
Suki-Yaki
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- 22 Jun 2004
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Thanks ...
Uhhnn... I should thank you all for re-asuring me , thanks :haihai:
Finally I got myself to speak to him. I bought him a Naruto toy as a token of friendship . and i think he liked it
But suddenly out of nowhere there is this chinese girl whose going all over him all day!!!! ... *sigh* ... I`m too weak for competition ..
As far as I am concerned I think I`m loosing him, but , I`m glad that I was able to do something , or atleast , something has begun to start in order to say that it ended ...
Right now I don`t know what feeling exactly is that I`m having .He is sitting next to me and she is sitting right behind me .. (yeah , what a crowded room !)
OHHH!! That Baka !!
Someone to love me endlessly ... ??
Uhhnn... I should thank you all for re-asuring me , thanks :haihai:
Finally I got myself to speak to him. I bought him a Naruto toy as a token of friendship . and i think he liked it
But suddenly out of nowhere there is this chinese girl whose going all over him all day!!!! ... *sigh* ... I`m too weak for competition ..
As far as I am concerned I think I`m loosing him, but , I`m glad that I was able to do something , or atleast , something has begun to start in order to say that it ended ...
Right now I don`t know what feeling exactly is that I`m having .He is sitting next to me and she is sitting right behind me .. (yeah , what a crowded room
!)OHHH!! That Baka !!
Someone to love me endlessly ... ??
EscaFlowne
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- 14 Nov 2003
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:auch:
Suki-Yaki, obviously this guy is playing you like a fool. Every and any woman should have more respect for herself and even more from her man. I mean you bought him a Naruto toy!? I wish had a lady to do that. For him to have another woman jumping on him and following so closely around you two means something as well. You should do the right thing and loose this guy and feel confident that you can get any guy that will treat you 10 times better! :bikkuri: Someone, such as yourself will find someone to love you endlessly but this guy is definately not it. Do yourself a favor and drop him. Believe you will feel better once you he gone.
Suki-Yaki, obviously this guy is playing you like a fool. Every and any woman should have more respect for herself and even more from her man. I mean you bought him a Naruto toy!? I wish had a lady to do that. For him to have another woman jumping on him and following so closely around you two means something as well. You should do the right thing and loose this guy and feel confident that you can get any guy that will treat you 10 times better! :bikkuri: Someone, such as yourself will find someone to love you endlessly but this guy is definately not it. Do yourself a favor and drop him. Believe you will feel better once you he gone.
jieshi
Japaustralian
- 5 May 2004
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EscaFlowne said::auch:
Suki-Yaki, obviously this guy is playing you like a fool. Every and any woman should have more respect for herself and even more from her man. I mean you bought him a Naruto toy!? I wish had a lady to do that. For him to have another woman jumping on him and following so closely around you two means something as well. You should do the right thing and loose this guy and feel confident that you can get any guy that will treat you 10 times better! :bikkuri: Someone, such as yourself will find someone to love you endlessly but this guy is definately not it. Do yourself a favor and drop him. Believe you will feel better once you he gone.
EscaFlowne has hit the nail right on the head! loose the guy he definitely doesn't deserve a girl like you. Don't settle for less than you deserve
dreamer
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- 15 Aug 2003
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Well maybe Suki-yaki's loved one is just shy and can't make up his mind...
I mean...that it happened to me to react the same way (ie: unable to make up my mind) when 2 different persons ask me to go out with them, and when I value them as much.
However for me it doesn't mean that you should give up ^^
In France we have a saying: "Love is like war, every move is allowed".
I think you just hqve to be more...daring
I mean...that it happened to me to react the same way (ie: unable to make up my mind) when 2 different persons ask me to go out with them, and when I value them as much.
However for me it doesn't mean that you should give up ^^
In France we have a saying: "Love is like war, every move is allowed".
I think you just hqve to be more...daring
