how many gf / bf you have had?

[Brooker]

I think the fact that this forum is annonomous might make people more honest. Maybe. :? Why lie to impress people who don't know who you are?

 

[cicatriz esp]

winter: if that is true, than that is really something to be admired. I just have a hard time believing people are honest when i constantly see so much lying, cheating, and backstabbing around me on a daily basis.

dream time: 1 gf at 19 falls well within the average. It's not something you should worry about.

 

[Brooker]

How about this question... How old were you when you had your first girlfriend or boyfriend? I was 18. I think I've done ok, so you 19 year olds with only a few girlfriends shouldn't really worry about it.

 

[Anyuni_Nakashima]

Hmmm...I'm always to busy with school and work to have a serious relationship. But, sometimes I think about it and wish I had one. I have a tendency to push guys away, or end up being one of the "guys". Also, I think I have major trust issues...

Ohh Well...Who Matters !!!(my 5 yr old brother always says that, so I decided to barrow it)

Anyway, I had my first b/f at 16. At the most I have had 4 boyfriends...out of all of them, I consider only one of them to be a serious one.

 

[Tuffy]

Not counting the "encounter" types... I would say 3 gfs in all.
Just one of those I would consider as really serious which lasted over 2 years.

(proud to say that only 2 of the 3 are now institutionalized)

☝

 

[jovial_jon]

No boyfriends for me yet. (Yes, interesting thread indeed.. ) I don't think I'm the type to go out with someone for the sake of it. And about people lying on the forum - I suppose all you can do is have faith that people will tell the truth! Even if they don't, it's pretty unlikely that we'll find out...

 

[lineartube]

I lost count. Well, I wasn't counting anyway, but If I had to guess the figure, more than ten, less than 20... And I only started seriously dating after high school.
During high school it was more "fun and games", like experimentation, so I don't count most of my girlfriends at those times.

 

[Ewok85]

I'd only say one girlfriend... i've got plenty of 'girlfriend' friends, but who doesnt?

I'm quite happy with who I'm with, and since meeting her my life has just become better and better (just got a job today, a reaaally good one too. Its all because of her :winklove: )

 

[mad pierrot]

How about this question... How old were you when you had your first girlfriend or boyfriend? I was 18.

Are we talking "dates", or the first time you slept with someone?

 

[Ewok85]

Depends on how you classify someone to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. Sleeping with someone doesnt always mean you have that kind of relationship, and vice versa.

 

[Brooker]

Mad Pierrot wrote....

Are we talking "dates", or the first time you slept with someone?

I was talking more about someone you spent a lot of time with and had a romantic relationship with.

 

[mad pierrot]

Aha. Thank you for clarifying that. Then 4 in my case.

 

[Dream Time]

Sorry, my post was a bit vague and trollish :s

To me, it seems this topic is a bit like the ubiquitous online poll about penis size. Who's going to tell the truth? The men will usually exaggerate the number, and the women will usually downplay theirs. That's what i meant. You cant tell me there are honest people on the web ... i refuse to believe it!

no don't worry,this thread isn't intended to be serious

 

[Brooker]

Aha. Thank you for clarifying that. Then 4 in my case.

4 years old? Ok, maybe we should also say, a relationship that was quite serious (which is subjective of course).

 

[Mimmy_08]

Well, I have (of course) one boyfriend and I am serious and I love him, actually today is our 3 years and 7 months anniversary. hehehe...

 

[Dream Time]

How about this question... How old were you when you had your first girlfriend or boyfriend? I was 18. I think I've done ok, so you 19 year olds with only a few girlfriends shouldn't really worry about it.

I was 16


but,the first 'relationship' I had,it was when I was like grade 6,thats probably the longest 'relationship' even though she never became my girlfriend,
the 'relationship' went until I left the high school when I was grade 11
after grade 6 we didn't meet each other often,but everytime we did,through eye contacts I knew the feelings were still there.

 

[Brooker]

I think of having a girlfriend or boyfriend and being in a relationship as being the same thing. Maybe we all need to come up with some sort of definition here.

 

[Dream Time]

Well, I have (of course) one boyfriend and I am serious and I love him, actually today is our 3 years and 7 months anniversary. hehehe...

congrats!!


I wonder,why girls remember those 'anniversary' stuff so clearly,
and sometimes girls would ask their guys 'how long have we known each other?'
'how long have we been together?'
'do you remember the date of our first date?'
..etc..etc..etc

if the guy didn't know the answers,he is doomed...

 

[mad pierrot]

Doh!

I meant four serious relationships, in total. From what age? 18.

We should start another thread called, "How many STD's do you have?"

 

[kirei_na_me]

Well, I wasn't exaggerating. I counted from grade 8 when I had my first boyfriend until the time I got married. I'm not as young as some of the rest of you. Also, all of those relationships were not sexual.

I have been married for almost 7 years. My life has been pretty much over since then.

 

[EscaFlowne]

well since i finally return i will answer...

Hmmmmmmmmmmm my longest was three years, ....its a long list so i will say under twenty...a little over 10 and 3 that were really serious. And as of now i'm single. Feels...alright i guess.

 

[mad pierrot]

I can't say I've ever wanted to stay with someone longer than a couple years. Not that it's anything particular against the people I've been with; I just get bored and need to move on.

(It also doesn't help that for the last 6 years I've never been in one place for very long.)

 

[DoctorP]

Sorry, my post was a bit vague and trollish :s

To me, it seems this topic is a bit like the ubiquitous online poll about penis size. Who's going to tell the truth? The men will usually exaggerate the number, and the women will usually downplay theirs. That's what i meant. You cant tell me there are honest people on the web ... i refuse to believe it!

Nope no honest people here! I've had 635 g/f and 3 b/f! I started dating when I was 7!

 

[EscaFlowne]

Well Mad, that 3 year relationship i had-I was in over 3 states and I still kept her. Believe me everyone! There's one girl out thier for you and that one was mine!

awwwwwwwwwwwwwww

 

[mad pierrot]

Impressive, Esca.

:sorry:

(Bows to your faithfullness.)

How many married people do we have on this forum?