How, How, How?

[BamaFan2989]

Ok, I know I am only 15, but how do you guys get Japanese chicks?

I mean for real... Japanese girls are very hot, and that's a compliment. American girls too, but some are you know better than others, etc. Except for people like kirei_na_me, who are also very hot.

It's just like every guy on this forum has a Japanese girlfriend/fiance/wife.

What's the secret!?!?!?!

Anyway.... Just trying to understand.




EDIT: Misspelled Japanese ^_^-BAKA

 

[Glenn]

Not every guy here has a Japanese girlfriend; I don't even have a girlfriend. Anyway, I think that first you would have to be in a place where there are Japanese girls to become involved in a significant way with one, and second have some kind of contact with a certain girl. I imagine it's not too unlike getting a girlfriend of any nationality or race or whatever. Also, not all Japanese girls are hot.

 

[Dream Time]

not all Japanese girls are hot, and comestic surgeries are quite popular in Japan, so some 'hot' Japanese girls you see could be artificial, especially the celebrities.

 

[Dream Time]

I'm tired of seeing questions like 'how to get white/black/asian/latino/whatever chicks?'

each girls are different, and the only way to to get girls to get to know them personally.

by the way if you are specifically going for girls of a specific race, I see this as some kind of a fetish.

 

[lexico]

Ok, I know I am only 15, but how do you guys get Japanese

Japanese girls are very hot, and that's a compliment.

Japanese girlfriend/fiance/wife.

EDIT: Misspelled Japanese ^_^-BAKA

I'm having a little difficulty understanding your spelling error message.
All of the Japanese are spelled correctly.
If you corrected them, why did you put a foodtnote? :?
If you have a foot note, why did you correct them? :?

What's the secret!?!?!?!

Anyway.... Just trying to understand.

That is a lovely question, I think!
Ah, the woman is the constant force that elevates the man towards heaven!
I'm not married to a Japanese girl, but I think it all lies in your heart essentially.
When you get to understand how wonderful that one particular Japanese girl is, I mean really understand and appreciate her, you don't do anything to GET her.
It just happens!
That's the beautiful thing about love; it comes to you, not the other way around.
There are no magical tricks or phermone to light her erotic desire for you.
Those are all lies. Don get hooked.
Love is the essential aphrodisiac!

Develop your manhood.
Expand your understanding.
Become a jolly person.
And then go to Japan, and see its beauty.
And everything will turn out just fine for you!

 

[kirei_na_me]

I think having Japanese girlfriends/fiancees/wives brought a lot of people here, so that's why it may seem like a lot of people have them. Having a Japanese significant other connects you with the Japanese and Japan, so obviously a lot of people can relate to this forum.

I think we have a lot of military guys around here who were stationed in Japan and happened to meet a woman while living there. Also, a lot of English teachers.

I must admit, again, that I think the reasoning for wanting a Japanese gf(and not to exclude the girls who want Japanese bf's) is questionable and quite superficial. if you want it, though, I guess you have to just be in the right place at the right time. Get some penpals, talk to the foreign exchange students at school(if from Japan), go into an exchange program yourself at some point, etc.

I really think you should be careful seeking out someone just because of their nationality. It's not always peaches and cream.

Oh, and thanks for the compliment. I think it was a compliment?

 

[okaeri_man]

It just happens!
That's the beautiful thing about love; it comes to you, not the other way around.
There are no magical tricks or phermone to light her erotic desire for you.
Those are all lies. Don get hooked.
Love is the essential aphrodisiac!
...
And everything will turn out just fine for you!

not if you're a loser, ugly, or sweat every time you to talk to a girl.

 

[epigene]

Sweating every time you talk to a girl is "kawaii" to some girls...unless you smell!

 

[RockLee]

I also think asian girls are more prettier, but not because it's a fetish or something...it's just that I'm attracted more to asian girls...with european girls I don't feel anything...they don't get to me...unlike asian girls, they are more attracting.I suggest you get in touch with some japanese girls, look on sites or something...and chat.And most of all BE YOURSELF !!

 

[mizerable_d]

not all Japanese girls are hot, and comestic surgeries are quite popular in Japan, so some 'hot' Japanese girls you see could be artificial, especially the celebrities.

sometimes people dont have confidence in life because of their looks, i think plastic surgery has saved some lives,ne?

i find that a lot of japanese girls like the "cute and pretty" type. i have a friend who is very cute, and he's only 14 and got himself a pretty hot japanese girlfriend. lol i was so proud of him XD

 

[ragedaddy]

not if you're a loser, ugly, or sweat every time you to talk to a girl.

You'd be suprised, I have seen a lot of these clowns walking around the streets of Tokyo with a fine Japanese Hunnie on his arm.

Ok, I know I am only 15, but how do you guys get Japanese chicks?

I mean for real... Japanese girls are very hot, and that's a compliment. American girls too, but some are you know better than others, etc. Except for people like kirei_na_me, who are also very hot.

It's just like every guy on this forum has a Japanese girlfriend/fiance/wife.

What's the secret!?!?!?!

Anyway.... Just trying to understand.

Hmmm, I really don't think there are any secrets to this concept. It's basically a universal rule that applies to all races: Be Yourself!!! I went to Japan to solely study Japanese, and was not really concerned about getting a Japanese wife. If it happens (Like it did for me and many others) then great, and if not oh well it's not the end of the world. I guess I have never really fathomed the concept of going to Japan, just to get a wife. Interculutral relationships require a lot of work, and so if you are a person with little patience, then I recommend not getting into one of these. Anyways, hey if you want to go to Japan and give it a try, by all means due. However, it may turn out that it's not your cup of tea, so I guess keep an open mind and see where it takes you....Ganbatte!

 

[BamaFan2989]

Thanks for the posts guys!!

First, I didn't mean to sound perverted, ignorant, etc. I was just wondering.

I don't want a wife of just a certain race, religion, etc. I know I am not the hottest thing around here, but I think I have a good personality, and I know some girls that would go out with me. But, I also know that many Japanese girls are hot, of course not all!!, I didn't mean that they all were, but I believe most/50% are.

The reason I put the footnote, lexico, is because I was telling people that I corrected my spelling. Don't most people tell why they edited it?

And, Kirei_na_me, it was a compliment!! You are very beautiful.

Thanks again guys!!

ja ne

 

[Elizabeth]

I don't want a wife of just a certain race, religion, etc. I know I am not the hottest thing around here, but I think I have a good personality, and I know some girls that would go out with me.

Exactly what sort of personality are you looking for....and have you ever even had a conversation with a Japanese girl ? That would give us a lot more to respond to than just that you think they're mostly cute. Some of them may not end up holding your interest very long.

 

[BamaFan2989]

Yes I have many girl Japanese friends. I say that, but they are penpals through email.

Yumiko, Sei, Rie, Yuka, Ayako, and Kumiko. Those are the girls I talk to through email a lot.

Yumiko is one of my close friend's ex-girlfriend. So we talk a lot. I really enjoy talking to them and stuff.

But, anyway I am sure there is someone out there for me !! ^_^ So, I shall wait and see.......

 

[Mike Cash]

Alll the philosophizing and gum bumping in the world won't get us past the key obstacle here. It all boils down to:

PHYSICAL PROXIMITY

Which ought to be obvious enough, it would seem to me.

 

[sabro]

Don't Japanese chicks hatch from Japanese eggs?

 

[Duo]

Ok, I know I am only 15, but how do you guys get Japanese chicks?

I mean for real... Japanese girls are very hot, and that's a compliment. American girls too, but some are you know better than others, etc. Except for people like kirei_na_me, who are also very hot.

It's just like every guy on this forum has a Japanese girlfriend/fiance/wife.

What's the secret!?!?!?!

Anyway.... Just trying to understand.




EDIT: Misspelled Japanese ^_^-BAKA

Why are you lookin for only japanese gf's, i'm sure there is plenty of cuties out there in the US. Some nice blonde shorty with a pony tail, is a shame to let that slip away from you, no girls out there can out do those cuties from VA, i wish i was there right now

 

[kirei_na_me]

I wish you were there right now too, Duo...

 

[Fantt]

Fantt's Guide to Dating:

Eliminate all thoughts of physical attractiveness from your mind.
Open yourself to dating anyone who seems interesting, regardless of looks.
Be completely honest with anyone you date.

After a date, ask yourself:
"Did I have fun tonight?"
"Would I have fun if we went out again?"
"Did she/he stimulate me mentally?"
"Did she/he stimulate me physically?"

If you answered yes to most of these, go again. Rinse and repeat until you get married or until the answer to most of the questions is No.

Be open to dating "ugly" people. You only have to go out once to find out what the answers to the questions are. Be open to getting hurt emotionally. Eventually it will pay off. Did for me... big time.

 

[kirei_na_me]

Fantt, are you for real? If you are, your wife is one lucky woman. ;-)

 

[Elizabeth]

Yes I have many girl Japanese friends. I say that, but they are penpals through email.

Yumiko, Sei, Rie, Yuka, Ayako, and Kumiko. Those are the girls I talk to through email a lot.

Yumiko is one of my close friend's ex-girlfriend. So we talk a lot. I really enjoy talking to them and stuff.

That's wonderful. I don't know many Japanese girls interested in as many or the same things as you, so it sounds like you're well on your way to marital bliss. First things first though....is the problem asking one of them out, finding someone more proximate or someone more compatible ?

 

[BamaFan2989]

Well there aren't many Japanese girls where I am from, wait... none ^_^

I don't feel comfortable asking girls out ^_^ It's like a show where the 15 year old tells about all this lol.

I can't wait to "get married" and "have kids", and I know that sounds weird, but I am just that kinda person. I must wait though until I find that person.

I hope it happens soon though, did you guys ever have that fear when you were young of never finding anyone?

Oh well... I will wait and see...

 

[Fantt]

Yes, I'm for real. It was a life experience thing for me. At a point in my early 20's I decided that I'd had enough being a big loser (no prom date, no dates period, no girlfriend since 7th grade etc etc), so I devised that plan to get my social skills ramped up. Sure, I went out with some less than attractive women and had some crappy dates, but I was ready for that going into it. The trick was making my mind up that I was ready to start dating and that eventually I would find a woman to have a great relationship with. The attitude is the key, and it worked.

Bama, I didn't date anyone, ever in high school. So if you date only one girl just one time between now and when you graduate, you won't be the biggest loser ever. Don't worry though. You have a great, inquisitive attitude and that actually turns on some girls. The key is to not set fantasy level attractiveness standards, be cool and just take life as it comes. I have a friend (age 35) who's standards of attractiveness for women is so high he's still single and never goes on dates - he's worked himself into a corner. Don't do that and you'll be fine.

 

[Duo]

um although i guess u have good intentions and although this worked out for u, i dont think the message is very good. Basically ur just sayin just settle for someone but i donna i mean that's takin the easy way out i guess, and about ur friend, maybe he just is lookin for his woman, i mean he shouldnt have to settle for someone that he is not attracted 2, that would be just a lie and just a way to aquisce to society's weird unspoken rules

 

[kirei_na_me]

I have a friend who's the same way. She WILL NOT lower her standards(as far as looks go) and it's getting ridiculous. She's my age and has never had a serious relationship with anyone. Not that there's something wrong with that, but she complains about it. All she wants is a "hot" guy. It's like she doesn't care about anything else. And you know what? She wants this HOT guy, but she's not very hot herself. I'm afraid that in 30 years, she'll still be complaining she's lonely when we're both 58 years old...and she'll still be looking for a HOT guy. She just does not have her priorities in the right order.