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Carlson
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Well I thought thing were going good. We talked and seemed happy we did the usual and I took her to the train station and when i got back I got to thinking. So i sent her a email asking her if she really liked him or atleast thought she still had feelings. I talked with her later that night and she said yes so I said it was over. I said some mean things to her and personaly just want to know how it work out with them. How wrong she really is about him.
Carlson
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lol but i got this 1 trained to my liking.cursore said:Relax.... don't go near the phone... get a frien and go out chasing girls, as soon you go to sleep with someone else you'll forget about her.... This is a Cursore promise...
I want to go out but right now to much work to many hours.
Carlson
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i broke down and talked to her. well she started the conversation. Im just goign to let her figure out what kind of mistake she made and in the mean time look for someone else. who know maybe by the time she knows she messed up i will have someone else.
i broke down and talked to her. well she started the conversation. Im just goign to let her figure out what kind of mistake she made and in the mean time look for someone else. who know maybe by the time she knows she messed up i will have someone else.
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I think some people are making to many jokes about something this serious...
or am I to serious with love? because some of you just act like a 1 year relation is nothing. ( of course not just popping up the ring, but the ring does mean how much he loves her) and you guys just say, run away bla bla... I expected better from some
or am I to serious with love? because some of you just act like a 1 year relation is nothing. ( of course not just popping up the ring, but the ring does mean how much he loves her) and you guys just say, run away bla bla... I expected better from some
Dutch Baka said:
The problem lay on those so called feelings... love for a person who shows so much disrespect for you it is not true love, can be an obsession or masochismﾂ… but no love. (Personal Experience for 2 times)
When you arrive at the ring after all this trouble it is usually sign of desperation, just to try to glue broken china that is why everyone is trying to convince him to get over it ASAP. Especially if he is 20ﾂ…
- 19 Jan 2005
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It also brings to mind a scene from the Godfather when Marlon Brando smacks his son in the face and says, "You can act like a man!"Armand V said:
Sad to see that you broke down and called her. Now she will know just how "easy" and manipulative you are and she can have you wrapped around her little finger again by just opening her legs or pulling out the golden toy you often talked about. And she can also be free to fool around and search around for Mr. Perfect because she knows you will always be there for her. When it comes to sex men are very weak. I know. Been there done that.
Now all she has to do is wait and soon you will be so horny or engulfed in rage and jealousy just thinking about her making love or talking with another man and that you will call her. Don't be the patsy Carlson. You were insulted and besides, she said she preferred the other guy. Let her go!
Maybe you are Dutch, but some of us are speaking from many years of experience and we are trying to pass down that experience. Unfortunately most don't heed the advice given and prefer to learn the hard way by themselves. In the grand scheme of love, a one year relationship is nothing. True love shows it's face after 4-5 years of marriage. I was engaged for 4 years before getting married because I wanted to be sure this was the one due to my previous experiences.Dutch Baka said:
Just think about the most beautiful, sexy woman you can think of (or man in the case of the ladies) and I will guarantee that sooner or later their mate will tire of making love to them if communication is not developed beforehand and new and exciting ways of making love are introduced into the relationship. It happens in all relationships. That is why it is more important to be friends first and lovers second.
After all can you eat filet mignon everyday and not tire of it or any food or thing that you like for that matter? No, you can't unless you have it in moderation or prepare or do it in different ways that makes it more enticing.
Just my advice for what it's worth. But the choice is still up to you. Good luck again in whatever you decide.
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Pachipro said:
Love that movie! But it wasn't Don Corleone's son he smacked and said that to. It was the singer (a homage to Sinatra?) who was whining about not getting a role in a movie (which led to the horse's head in the producer's bed). Your point is well-taken, though. It is on the money.
DoctorP
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Carlson
Two things...
1) You can not be serious about considering marriage to a girl after only a year! A year is normal courtship for a couple who speak the same language...not for two people of different nationalities who speak (mainly) different languages. There is still a lot to learn about one another.
2) Didn't you used to come here and post how you loved going to Love hotels on the weekends with your girl? If so, don't you think your relationship was more sexual/physical then emotional? At least for her?
Two things...
1) You can not be serious about considering marriage to a girl after only a year! A year is normal courtship for a couple who speak the same language...not for two people of different nationalities who speak (mainly) different languages. There is still a lot to learn about one another.
2) Didn't you used to come here and post how you loved going to Love hotels on the weekends with your girl? If so, don't you think your relationship was more sexual/physical then emotional? At least for her?
