Dating a Chinese girl...

[cursore]

Hi!

You might say: Cursore is betraying Japanese women for Chinese.. Bad Cursore!!!!

But beside that next Saturday I'm going out with this nice girls to a restaurantﾂ… however I don't know much of Chinese culture and what might be rude or notﾂ… is there any don't which can help me out not to look too stupid?

Cheers!

 

[jieshi]

I would think the best things you can do are to be a gentleman, sincere and polite as possible- if she sees you are trying to treat her with respect, she is more likely to enjoy her time with you

 

[MajideSaiaku]

Dont let resturaunt mangeress' say "she is a pretty young Tokyo woman!".

I went to a Chinese resturaunt with my girlfriend, and the manageress commented on how she was a pretty young woman and was she from Hong Kong.

She is from Tokyo.

Just read up on Chinese culture but dont worry about it too much, she should appriciate your different from her culture just as much as you appriciate hers.

 

[cursore]

Dont let resturaunt mangeress' say "she is a pretty young Tokyo woman!".
I went to a Chinese resturaunt with my girlfriend, and the manageress commented on how she was a pretty young woman and was she from Hong Kong.
She is from Tokyo.
Just read up on Chinese culture but dont worry about it too much, she should appriciate your different from her culture just as much as you appriciate hers.

Whoops... I hope you didn't go to the one in Glasgow centre... I don't remember the street name but it has two entrances one in each corner and the restaurant is on the first floor.. Been there twice...they are crazy...

Well I'm going down to London (for work as well) and we will go probably to a Korean restaurant.. it is going to be fun...

 

[MajideSaiaku]

The Royal China in Aberdeen, mate.

The Lucky Boat is my fave Chinese take-away, the fried rice from there is good, though for some reason I havnt been back there since I was assaulted outside there by some drugged up tit.

I think the Royal China is like a chain of resturaunts? fairly good and nice places, chances are theres one in Glasgow.

 

[jjmaster]

hi buddy,keep going on what u've think in ur mind

 

[Minty]

I think you are Italian right? I think in general Italian culture is the closest Western culture to the Chinese culture. Like Italian family Chinese families are close and live together. Most Chinese men are mama's boy like the Italians.

It also depends on how westernized is this Chinese girl, it would help if you tell us where is this Chinese girl from? China? HK? Taiwan? SG? M'sia? ...etc

Also whether she is English educated? Half Chinese educated half English educated? Yeah, like everyone said be a gentleman to her.

Good Luck

 

[cursore]

Thank you Minty, well I'll see her tomorrow, she is from the PR of China but quite close to HK, she is have been in UK for the past 5 years.

Well all-standard recommendation about being a gentleman... I think I'll manage that easily

 

[happygaijin]

Go for it, cursore. 'Take it easy'-approach-with-no-expectations-and-no grandeur-plans is always better on first date. Who knows, you might get 'lucky' in the first date...;-) Gambatte and let us know how was it...

 

[cursore]

Done it... I don't think there was the sparkle but that was a nice evening, considering that I travelled on the bus for 8 hours, well not for dating her, I had to go to London anyway.