as for advices

[Void]

well, guys
form most of the posts i can tell that you didn`t even try to read that small intro they had on the site

WHO SPEAKS ABOUT VERBAL LANGUAGES?

languages of love (and dialects) include a lot of other things beside verbal comunication... and that`s what the whole story about

]-wandering-raven-[ , why should you be some sort of brat. No, not for me so far.
but for now i`ll use Mars Man`s trick. I`ll return and elaborate lately, when catch some free time %)))

 

[]-wandering-raven-[]

body language does so much better
like when i put the end of my finger on the tip of my tongue and look seductively >_>

Hurrah for people who think void!

 

[The-Beautiful-Roses]

Void, body language is fun. You should try it sometime.
Oh and while I am at it, sorry for my lack of communication, but the question I asked earlier was directed towards Raven. Thanks for the reply though. I appreciate it.
Raven, I don't want a reply.

 

[Void]

Void, body language is fun. You should try it sometimes

Ought to disappoint you. There is no need to try it. Everyone uses it,
often "subconsciously", it is part of human nature. That`s what is extra-linguistic context is all about.
And some use it for pure manipulation. And... (well continue the
list for yourself)

Can you elaborate on this a bit? Curiosity has struck me. As I see it anyhow, if a relationship ends, one should simply take what lessons one can from it, and remember that there were indeed good times, and also that sometimes the two partners just didn't want the same thing. Disappointing, but it is life, and one simply needs to go on living enjoying the moment as best they can, realizing that any pain will subside eventually, and that happiness will once again rear it's beautiful head.

It is true. What i mean is that i don`t agree with "lost love". End of a relation
is not just this. If to treat it only in such way one might never overcome it.
If relation is over it often comes out that feeling of love toward particular
person was "lost" long before the point. Yet it doesn`t mean that everything is gone. Warm (sweet) memories don`t go anywhere, and they weren`t a fake to throw them away. The accumulated experience is not only negative (and the one with minus sign can also be useful). And if to remember Carnegie (not sure how to spell) with lemons and lemonade - there are some other advantages
- freedom (in all meanings)
- chance to meet someone better
- and so on

The death of loved one makes it a little different, but as you`ve said
something to live trough and move on

 

[Kinsao]

Warm (sweet) memories don`t go anywhere, and they weren`t a fake to throw them away.

You know, you just said in words something that I have thought for many years. ☝

It's not just with love, but even when anything bad happens, it seems to blacken everything in its past, as though the happiness of that time has been somehow not 'real'.

Isn't it 80% of communications non-verbal? :?