1) I think the は here just puts more emphasis on 仲直り as the subject having not been done, hence the 気まずい雰囲気
2) 〜せず/〜ておらず is grammatically identical to 〜しないで/〜ていないで, but more commonly found in written Japanese. This is distinct from 〜てなくて which is just a basic "didn't do X, and..." (in which case, the two clauses can be more independent of one another), and where the following clause occurs "without X having been done."