So.according to Ruffage Japan's cute culture is all about submissive women? what?
I'm not sure what this submissive thing means but I don't like the sound of it. :/
I think Japan's culture culture applies to both men and women, wouldn't you say?
First of all, I never said it is only to submissive women. I have mentioned as my second point that it has become both a male and female thing in recent years, when due to prosperity people no longer have to restrain their indulgent side. It was, however, mainly a female thing way back when Asian women are still seen as housewives. I was mostly talking about prior to the feminist movement when I made that point. Please read my post carefully before pulling out a "what".
Secondly, I'm sorry you don't know what "this submissive thing" means; I thought I made it straightforward enough: although the gender equality issue is dealt with much better than before, there still exists many women (though not all) who believes that becoming a rich man's wife is the ideal occupation. To my Japanese friend's knowledge, the most fashionable girls are also the ones who talk most enthusiastically about hunting for a rich husband. A lot of women who are big on kawaii fashion and accessories need a lot of money to maintain that lifestyle, it is not that unthinkable that they want to hunt for someone with the resources to support that. Not everyone opts for taking advantage of the post-feminist environment and become independent women. And since it is assumed by marketers, fashion or the media (porn industry) that the youthful kawaii image is popular with men, women who want to hunt for a rich husband follow the trend. Just because you don't like the sound of it, does not mean it is untrue. Just because you think it shouldn't happen, doesn't mean it is not happening.
Thirdly, you make it out to seem that I am somehow blaming this on women or patriarchy. I don't know where you get this picture, but I was just pointing out and acknowledging what I see in Asian culture. I never have said I liked it, encouraged it, or think it is right. It is, however, what I see. Obviously one disclaimer in the beginning of my post was not enough, so I will say this again:
I can not say for sure how the kawaii culture came to be as it is today, because I do not have the formal research and evidence necessary to make myself an authoritative source. What I have said in my posts are of personal views and analysis. You may not agree with it, but if you must dismiss my thoughts at least provide some kind of counter-argument.
Lastly,
you were the one who initiated the topic.
You were the one who asked what others thought about the kawaii culture. I gave you what I thought of it, without making any form of attacks. To dismiss my post as some kind of sexist nonsense is uncalled for.
If you don't believe my claims that Japanese women are still encouraged to act as appeasing housewives, you can read the following:
Article from TIMEasia on Japan's gender crisis:
time .com/time/asia/covers/501050829/story.html
Again from TIMEasia: When no choice is a good one -A girl's guide to finding happiness in Japan. Manga drawn by local manga artist and commenter:
time .com/time/asia/covers/501050829/manga.html
(please remove the spaces after "time.com" and add "www" in front to view html)
I think Ruffage see it all trough a woman's point, and that's wrong!
Not only women act cute there are men who act also strange, weird, sick and a lot more.....
Of course I see it through a women's point of view. I am not a man. To say I can see completely through a man's point of view would be bragging on what is impossible. Yet this in no way makes my views any less valid, especially when no counterargument has been provided on your part. Had I say something along the lines of "you can only consider MY point of view", you would be right in saying I am wrong. But I haven't, and you remain free to take in other point of views to compare and contrast. For you to say that I am "wrong" is to suggest that you yourself is intellectually superior enough to dismiss my post as gibberish, not to mention in a way saying a woman's opinion is not worthy of serious consideration. Are you really ready to make that claim?
In regards to your second sentence: What does that have to do with anything? Have I said only women who act cute? No, I have mentioned that men also act in kawaii ways. Have I said that there
aren't men who acts strange and sick? No, because it is irrelevant to the discussion. The topic is on kawaii culture, not mental illness.