Why are asian women so hot to us, non Asians?

[SushiShin]

Asian girls are cute and nice and hot, but so are all women!
Isn't that normal?? We all love women (O_°')


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[leonmarino]

25% Breast Size, 35% Body, 40% Personality
Thats how I judge anyway

Be careful what you wish for...

 

[yukio_michael]

Be careful what you wish for...

Haha... excelent tune, frightening cover, even more frightening video...!

 

[Duo]

I don't think japanese or asian girls in general are hotter than the rest. In fact I'm surprised so many of you tend to think so. Sure there are many beautiful and sexy asian girls, but I think that the variety and quality of girls in the rest of the world is simply overwhelming.

 

[Mikawa Ossan]

By the way, does anyone ever call you Mikawa Ossanﾆ探ﾆ停?慊 ﾂ？

lol I had a Korean friend whose name was Foonsan. He hated above all else to be called #Foonsan-san# Now I understand how he feels!!

 

[Mr.Kitsune]

Yeah she looks nice, but no chest.
Ive seen jr high girls with more burst.
Asian girls should look more like this,

yessir. I second that notion
I like the whole exotic thing. I don't think he's trying to say that we like just asian girls, just that some prefer them over most others. Personally, I feel that asian born females are more faithful than others... well atleast 97% of the american women I've talked to/dated/ had friends thats dated.

 

[darioargento]

personally i find women with long dark hair attractive , so maybe many asian women fall into this catagory, but the plain answer is ,well they look so damn hot.

 

[yukio_michael]

personally i find women with long dark hair attractive , so maybe many asian women fall into this catagory, but the plain answer is ,well they look so damn hot.

Beauty lies in the of the beholder, but this idea that, yes, the Asian women you've seen are hot, maybe you've seen pictures, I don't know... maybe you've seen movies, I don't know...

...the sad fact of the matter is that every single human being is not a model, and these standards of beauty differ. When we blithely go around saying that "We like Asian women because they look so damn hot." we're also saying that it must be true that 100% of all asian women are "so damn hot..."

You started off good on the long dark hair part, but wound up reversing your score by vastly generalizing a group of people you may or may not have ever been around more than say one or two at a time, if any... And if it's only the pictures you've seen on your pc monitor, it means nothing at all.

People are attracted to beauty, what they find beautiful is their personal business, so what someone finds unattractive, some other person may see as strikingly beautiful... When we classify a race of people as beautiful, we're not only being ignorant (lacking of a specific knowledge), we're objectifying them as a product, ...as if they were massed produced and their attributes could be guaranteed.

Imagine if a race of people classified themselves as beautiful, and other races not as beautiful. Imagine that in order to preserve that beauty, they took specific steps to preserve its purity. Don't take too long to imagine, because they were called the National Socialists.

When you say you like Asian women because they're hot, you might as well say you like Asian women because they aren't ugly... which is just vaguely what you are insinuating.

Do you see what I'm saying here?

 

[SushiShin]

I cannot say its REALLY true but to be Honest i haven't seen ugly Japanese women lately and me above all else knows it, i have seen a lot of Asian women and not single one can tip the japanese women/girls but as i allready said everyone has its own taste and everyone isnt the same! So feel to be free and as you know :


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[yukio_michael]

I cannot say its REALLY true but to be Honest i haven't seen ugly Japanese women lately and...

I try to avoid using words like Ugly... I don't like that word very much.

I'm not saying that obatarian who just shoved me out of the way to grab the last doughnut at Mr DoNut is a hottie, but....

 

[Goldiegirl]

it's clear that Kayo has never been to Japan. I think this would be like me saying that all Spanish men are hot because the only spanish guys I am aware of are Antonio Banderas and Enrique Iglesias....

Ugly is an ugly word.

 

[TOKYO64]

There are hot women every where. Many western men have this fantasy about Asian women being submissive and sexy. But truthfully based on my expierience dating Asian women not all of them are as sexy as every guy thinks. Each woman is different just like western women. I think the hype is overblown!

 

[Anohito]

There are inevitably a number of reasons why some non-Asian heterosexual or bisexual males find Asian females especially attractive. Unfortunately, there are some reasons that are rather unpleasant. In some quarters, Asian females are considered to be more "submissive". Yes, of course, that is a stereotype, but there are non-Asian males who eagerly embrace that stereotype. Also, because Asian females in general tend to be shorter than non-Asian females (I am fairly sure that is still true), there are non-Asian males who want Asian females because they seem more "girlish", and that is indeed what some males want. On another web site, a Western women who went to Thailand said she was appalled at the number of older Western males she saw with younger (and smaller) Thai females. She may have been exaggerating a little bit, but she said that such pairs seemed to be all over the place.

 

[leonmarino]

I'm not saying that obatarian who just shoved me out of the way to grab the last doughnut at Mr DoNut is a hottie, but....

Bwahaha!! That's a word I haven't heard in ages!!

Unfortunately, there are some reasons that are rather unpleasant. In some quarters, Asian females are considered to be more "submissive".

As a kid I always used to say that I wanted to marry a Japanese woman, hoping she would cook as good as my mum!!

 

[Sukotto]

That whole submissive thing is weird.

I don't particularly find that sexy at all.

And rather kind of creepy with the mom thing to top it off.

 

[Damicci]

Western men succumb to stereo types. Everyone believes in the great dream, only to realize how sour reality is.

 

[leonmarino]

And rather kind of creepy with the mom thing to top it off.

I was a kid ok? And besides, if we may believe Freud, we all want partners that resemble our parents.

 

[Sukotto]

Sorry.
I thought you were joking.

I was a kid ok? And besides, if we may believe Freud, we all want partners that resemble our parents.

Do you think this is true?
Doesn't it sound like an over generalization?
Maybe he just wanted to do his mom?
I've never studied human behavior, so I do not know.
I am ignorant in this field.

 

[yukio_michael]

Sorry.
I thought you were joking.

Do you think this is true?
Doesn't it sound like an over generalization?
Maybe he just wanted to do his mom?
I've never studied human behavior, so I do not know.
I am ignorant in this field.

I don't think what was said was all that shocking, nor very uncommon... I mean, it's pretty common outside of Freudian logic to understand that many men seek partners that resemble their mothers... sometimes, because we found that we were controlled by our mothers and we want a woman whom we can try lose that feeling of loss of control we had previously... Women have similar issues with their fathers...

It's psychology, it's not finite math... we're not dealing in absolutes here... and your guess might be as good as mine, but I'm pretty sure that leonmarino doesn't want to kill his father and wed his mother...

Oedipus - Wikipedia

 

[leonmarino]

Indeed, like Michael says, it's not that uncommon to think in those lines. I've only had some basic courses in psychology, but it sounded very plausible. Likeness begets liking; we human being are more easily attached to things and people we find familiar. I know from personal experience, and in my direct surroundings, that people more often than not seek relationships with people of their own "kind", on average. Now, how one perceives his own "kind" is very much dependent on the situation; it can be same lifestyle or taste for music, up to racial and even physical/facial characteristics.

I am not saying that I want to date a girl that is exactly like me, or like my mom. That would indeed be scary to say the least. However, I do feel more easily attached to girls that share characteristics with my own background and people that are important to me and my upbringing.

It's psychology, it's not finite math... we're not dealing in absolutes here... and your guess might be as good as mine, but I'm pretty sure that leonmarino doesn't want to kill his father and wed his mother...

Bwahaha!! Hell no.

But indeed, it is and always will be psychology. Actually if we adher to the works and thoughts of Karl Popper, some of Freud's theories are no real scientific theories because they are not falsifiable. It's interesting to think about it nonetheless.

 

[Sukotto]

I have heard of the ancient Greek tale of Oedipus.
But I didn't think there was anything to that part of it other than
someone making a prophecy of him marrying his mother and then
it happening.

I had thought the phrase "Oedipus complex" merely referenced the story
to name the new theory.
But perhaps the it is much, much older
afterall.

 

[kirei_na_me]

I don't think japanese or asian girls in general are hotter than the rest. In fact I'm surprised so many of you tend to think so. Sure there are many beautiful and sexy asian girls, but I think that the variety and quality of girls in the rest of the world is simply overwhelming.

Why I love Duo...

 

[yukio_michael]

But indeed, it is and always will be psychology. Actually if we adher to the works and thoughts of Karl Popper, some of Freud's theories are no real scientific theories because they are not falsifiable. It's interesting to think about it nonetheless.

If you really want to wrap your brain around some weird stuff.... read some Laccan.

This is a good primer.

 

[Kinsao]

There are hot women every where. Many western men have this fantasy about Asian women being submissive and sexy. But truthfully based on my expierience dating Asian women not all of them are as sexy as every guy thinks. Each woman is different just like western women. I think the hype is overblown!

One of the most sensible things said on this thread.

 

[Pachipro]

There are hot women every where. Many western men have this fantasy about Asian women being submissive and sexy. But truthfully based on my expierience dating Asian women not all of them are as sexy as every guy thinks. Each woman is different just like western women. I think the hype is overblown!

They seem so sexy to non-asian men because that is what the western male has been led to believe by the hype in movies and fashion magazines and such where only the best, most beautiful are portrayed. It is also their fantasy to imagine that all Japanese women are they type they see portrayed especially if they are young and are seduced by anime, movies and magazines.

However, for many western men, myself included, we are first attracted to them because of their facial features. Don't ask me why, I just am and cannot explain it.

But, live in Japan long enough and date enough women and you will discover that, other than facial features, their demeanors and personalities are no different than western women: You have your skinny ones and fat ones; shy submissives and outgoing, domineering types; fashionable and not so fashionable; sexy ones and not so sexy ones; quite ones and loud ones; lazy ones and not lazy ones; there are those that will use you and those that will not; many will nag you and many will not; some are great in bed while others are lame, etc., etc. In other words, they are basically no different than many women the world over.

All one needs to do is live there for a few years to discover this and they too will be enlightened that the myth of the Japanese woman, especially in modern-day Japan, as portrayed in the west, is just that, a myth.