I understand your patriotic spirit... or rather I try to understand it. But seriously, there's difference between fighting and dying for something thats worth dying for. However a country is not among those things. A country, or rather every country is made of a government, loads of morons and probably 3% normal people. Now, im not going to risk my life if there are only 3% normal folks, nor am I gonna die for a government, and my beliefs don't include dying without a reason either.
So, in the end of the day, im sad, I mourn those who died, and continue my life, while those who fought valiantly to save the government and the dumb 97% are six feet under. Well how nice for them.
I'm afraid I have to completely disagree with everything you just said. A country IS worth fighting for. Keep in mind, I'm not saying this in a context of your country starting a war, but in the defense of your own country.
It is sheer ignorance on the part of anyone to say that your government (or at least my government) can simply fall under attack and be destroyed and you can still keep living your happy life in freedom and security. A government isn't just a pretty word and a concept, it is the very foundation of how a country is run, what freedoms you have, what laws are passed, it controls the distribution of money and keeps essential pieces of society running such as the police and the hospitals and fire departments, even such simple things as running water and electricity need to be regulated by a government in order to maintain.
Have you ever wondered why so many countries in Africa or the Middle East are in such a state of disarray? I'll give you a clue: The government. Either because of an upheaval in the government or utter and unchecked corruption or a complete lack of control. Either way, the government faltered and when that happens, you have chaos.
A government exists to provide stability...without it, do you honestly think you can just keep living the way you are now?
And about 97% of your countrymen being total morons who can off and die with no consequence to you? What do you think 97% of people in a country are doing? Certainly not running an entire country? Why, yes, they are. From laborers to politicians to intellectuals, you may no know them, you may not like them, but they keep you functioning. Without those 97% of morons do you think you could go down to a grocery store and purchase pre-packaged food? Nope. Or how about keep the sewer and drainage systems up and running? Don't think so. How about powering that nice little computer you're typing on, do you think you and those 3% of regular people could keep your country running efficiently? ....Hells no.
So for anyone on this thread living in a free country with all your fancy 'human rights' and 'freedom of speech' and 'running water'. If you think any of it is not worth defending or fighting for, I invite you to trade your life with someone living in a country like Sierra Leone. I know they would actually appreciate living in a country with basic human rights, laws and access to food, water, medical supplies because what you're not willing to fight for, I guarantee, if they were in your place, they would fight and more to keep the level of freedom and comfort most of you take for granted.
I believe our ancestors would be spinning in their graves to hear so many of us saying so casually that we wouldn't lift a finger to defend our own countries when so many before us fought and died to give us what we have right now.