what's going on with the enjo kosay and kogals?

[hippityhop]

i just recently met a japanese girl here and she was one. when i asked her about it, she didn't feel embarrassed nor guilty. it's like, hey, i got paid good money for something i givefrrely to my "boyfriend" anyways

money for sex because of harsh economic circumstances is one thing, sex for money so you can buy expensive clothes, accessories is just pathetic. then again , i am not the girl doing it so who knows what goes on in their twisted minds....

 

[Timsan]

if i was getting offered like $500 dollars to do some decent looking chick i Probably would :\

i think thers a difference between choosing to do that then a flat out hooker

 

[Karri]

For one thing I can't really repect a woman who sells her body for money. It may be an easy way to make the money to get what they need, but what about all the risk that comes with sleeping with so many people. If the girl has a man, and if he knows she is doing such a thing he should put a stop to it. Now what if she give HIV to her boyfriend from doing a job of low status. I say get a decent job to get what you want in life. I don't care how hard I may struggle with money, which I don't because I get paid well, but I would never dishonor myself for anything nor anyone.

 

[jet_dee]

Hmm . I often joke to my friends that I'd become a gigolo in Japan for the money, but I'd probably reach a few moral quandaries myself. Consider that prostitutes will sleep with ANYBODY, so it's not really selling something that you would give your partner for free, that would equate to you having no standards, and taking anyone as your partner.
Also, if my girlfriend was one, I'd want to help her out of it, because there's a lot of insane men who kill prostitutes nowadays.
Then again, for an uber-male's point of view, you get to f**k loads, and get paid for doing something you enjoy. What bloke wouldn't want that?

 

[Keeni84]

I don't see anything wrong with prostitution. Sex is sex. In fact, I wish prostitutes could have labor unions (which would include heathcare and hazard insurance) and would also require stuff like proof of age, etc. Also, if it became legal and sex workers got labor unions, there would be no need for the pimp at all.

I don't understand what the big hang up is about having sex for money. And people who do this are not "twisted", no more than the average mine worker or high rise worker.

 

[budd]

yep, that's what's wrong with america... thirteen year-olds can buy a rifle (to do who knows what), but stuff, maxim, etc. have been banned from wal-mart regardless of purchaser's age

 

[Matthew C. Perry]

I don't see anything wrong with prostitution.

I tend to agree. It ought to be legal for consenting adults. But "enjo kosail" is about junior high school girls, sometimes even elementary school girls who are obviously far to young to decide for themselves whether or not selling their bodies is a good idea. Adults involved in that industry ought to be sent to American prisons where they can learn all about the issue of unconsentual sex.

 

[TwistedMac]

I tend to agree. It ought to be legal for consenting adults. But "enjo kosail" is about junior high school girls, sometimes even elementary school girls who are obviously far to young to decide for themselves whether or not selling their bodies is a good idea. Adults involved in that industry ought to be sent to American prisons where they can learn all about the issue of unconsentual sex.

HOO-YA! having a guy named Bubba unwrap their package!
*christmas is here, little chink* *IIIEEEEEEEEE!!!*

 

[Amazinggrace]

I don't see anything wrong with prostitution. Sex is sex. In fact, I wish prostitutes could have labor unions (which would include heathcare and hazard insurance) and would also require stuff like proof of age, etc. Also, if it became legal and sex workers got labor unions, there would be no need for the pimp at all.

I don't understand what the big hang up is about having sex for money. And people who do this are not "twisted", no more than the average mine worker or high rise worker.

yeah lets see you say the same thing once you know your daughter is a hooker getting fingered in every hole by some dirty filthy perverted oyaji.

another thing.....are you aware of the suicide rate for girls/women who have sold themselves only to end up guilt ridden? J girls are not like western women who are strong minded. J girls are easily led to the dark path of temptation.
its a said issue. I think any oyaji caught with a prostitute should be horse whipped. and If I caught an oyaji with a young girl and I knew what he was doing I would personally take my belt off and beat "it" like a dog.
yes im F`d up like that.

 

[RockLee]

Well....in 1 case I approve...if the woman is older and knows what she's doing.Because nowadays there are so many rapers that I think they should get sex with some prostitue rather than rape some girl/woman.IN the other hand, there are so many young girls that are taken advantage off that it"s so sad

Note: Some girls tend to look younger than they really are, with asian girls they can like show a 22 yo girl and say she's 17 or 18...

 

[bossel]

yeah lets see you say the same thing once you know your daughter is a hooker getting fingered in every hole by some dirty filthy perverted oyaji.

If she's adult & doing it voluntarily, it's not your business anyway.

another thing.....are you aware of the suicide rate for girls/women who have sold themselves only to end up guilt ridden?

No, I'm not. Anyway, ending up guilt ridden is a fault of the society which induces these guilt feelings through overcome morals.

its a said issue. I think any oyaji caught with a prostitute should be horse whipped. and If I caught an oyaji with a young girl and I knew what he was doing I would personally take my belt off and beat "it" like a dog.
yes im F`d up like that.

Yes, you are.
Prostitution is just a business like any other (at least it should be).

 

[Mike Cash]

yep, that's what's wrong with america... thirteen year-olds can buy a rifle (to do who knows what), but stuff, maxim, etc. have been banned from wal-mart regardless of purchaser's age

I have never understood people who, when disparaging America, feel a need to resort to the use of hyperbole, distortions, and incorrect information. If one is of a mind to disparage America, it can be done quite easily and effectively while confining one's self strictly to factual statements.

The following classes of people are ineligible to possess, receive, ship, or transport firearms or ammunition:

Those convicted of crimes punishable by imprisonment for over one year, except state misdemeanors punishable by two years or less.
Fugitives from justice.
Unlawful users of certain depressant, narcotic, or stimulant drugs.
Those adjudicated as mental defectives or incompetents or those committed to any mental institution.
Illegal aliens.
Citizens who have renounced their citizenship.
Those persons dishonorably discharged from the Armed Forces.
Persons less than 18 years of age for the purchase of a shotgun or rifle.
Persons less than 21 years of age for the purchase of a firearm that is other than a shotgun or rifle.
Persons subject to a court order that restrains such persons from harassing, stalking, or threatening an intimate partner.
Persons convicted in any court of a misdemeanor crime of domestic violence.

 

[PopCulturePooka]

If she's adult & doing it voluntarily, it's not your business anyway.

Keep up. Theya re talking about children. Under 18's for the most part.

And if it was my daughter it'd sure as hell be my business regardless of her age

No, I'm not. Anyway, ending up guilt ridden is a fault of the society which induces these guilt feelings through overcome morals.

Or the guilt that you debased yourself and let some dirty, stinking, natto-breathed old shithead debase you in every way for a fricking Louis Vatton bag too keep up with your friends. Because lord knows NOT having an LV bag is much worse than not having your dignity.

Yes, you are.
Prostitution is just a business like any other (at least it should be).

For legal consenting adults.

 

[digicross]

Enjo Kosai is a general term.

Enjo Kosai is a general term, it's doubtful that many (most?) that do it thinks of sexual intercourse when they do it, to some it's just a way of pleasing people (and maybe also yourself) and getting some extra cash.



As for kogyaru's attitudes.

Well... That's girls, it's actually not limited to Japan, nor any particular time era.

Though it should be noted that girls that gone unsupervised could lead to negative situations.



As for socialization with compensation.

Er... This is an age old thing, and I don't mean sex for money.

One of the oldest example is marriage. One of the most recent ones is dating. It's not strange at all though should a girl proposed to go on a date in exchange of her protection, or perharps just to have fun.

"Jaa nee... Deeto ikkai!" ("Well then... One date!")

Okay, be honest, how many Gils did you spent on the date or to get the date?



As for sexual intercourse for money.

Well... Marriage is also a kind of way is a sexual intercourse for money or any other type of compensation, provided there's a sexual intercourse in thr marriage.

Now for girls having sexual intercourse in exchange for money or other type of compensation.

I think that the question that should be ask is... has the permission already been given for a sexual intercourse?

If the girl is an orphan without any guardian, then... I guess that's really up for her to do things according to what she wants.

But if the girl has a parent or a guardian, then... what's her parent or guardian say regarding this matter? Like someone once said, the parent or guardian don't care how old she really, what they want is, has she been given permission by them to do so?



As for having sexual intercourse with young girls.

It should be noted that teenage girls are actually adults. And the last few thousands years, that is what it always been, only recently that their status as adults were dropped and they're reduced as mere children until the age of 18 years old (or even 21 years old?). As matter in fact, the term 'teenager' is only a term that was used recently.

Of course, by the time they're 18 years old, they're pretty quite old. So I guess you see the reason on why men actually prefered teenage girls than... ahem, 'older girls'.