ShadowSpirit
normal is so passe
- 3 Dec 2008
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Keep in mind that kanji is a borrowed alphabet from China. There is more to consider than whether the tattoo would be accepted or rejected within Japanese culture.
Well I'm in the US Navy and I have 2 tattoos. I'll say that it is frustrating to me for someone to say that tattoos are immoral. I figure if a person wants to pass judgment on me over it, then it speaks more about their character than my own. Yes, I've mentioned appreciating natural beauty more than inked skin. However that is my personal preference on physical attraction and doesn't influence my opinion of people. In case if anybody is wondering why I would get tattoos if I am not attracted to them. I was 13 and 16 when I got my tattoos. It wasn't until I got into my early 20's that I noticed (for my own preference, I don't speak on behalf of anybody else) I am more attracted to women without tattoos. This isn't to say I won't date a woman who has tattoos. I have and would again.
If you want one, you should get one. I'm sure many people would be concerned that you make the right choice on which kind you get. Cause age is kind to wine, but not to tattoos. Your personality will change, your body will change; these factor into the opinion you will have of your tattoo years down the line. If you're comfortable with that fact, then by all means, get a tattoo. On an optimistic point, here are some pro-tattoo suggestions I recommend you to consider...
1) Think about how much you want people to see the tattoo. My first tattoo I got is on my left shoulder and I was bummed out that most of the time nobody could even see the tattoo unless I was shirtless or wearing a tank top. So I got my 2nd one on my right wrist so people could see it all the time. I don't wear a watch on my right wrist and thus it is seldom covered unless I'm wearing a long sleeve shirt.
2) Consider the conversation starters the tattoo will bring. If you get something with any sort of writing on it (latin, Spanish, Japanese, etc..) you ARE going to be asked about it often if people can see it. Even if it is in English and you are around primarily English speaking strangers. They may ask why you chose the phrase that you did. If this sounds annoying to you, then consider yourself warned.
3) Put on a fake tattoo in the spot that you want the real tattoo. It'll help you see how much you like the idea of having a tattoo in that spot. Put on clothes, see if it reveals the tattoo enough or not enough to your liking. That way you won't get something permanent and later wish you had it placed just a tad more to the left/right/up/down.
4) Consider if there is a fad appended to the tattoo or not. As cool as some tattoos might be, you might be drawing yourself in to a crowd that you didn't realize exists. Maybe barbed wire might make you seem like a jock, or a symbol of a skull and roses has you pegged as a biker. These aren't facts, just outlandish examples I'm making to advertise the point. Besides, you might want to be original. How often have you seen tattoos of batman, Mickey Mouse, anchors, hearts, etc..
5) Finally, shop around. It seems like no matter how hard you look, you'll always see a tattoo that you think is cooler than the one you chose. This is why tattoos can be addicting for people. Basically, don't let your urge to get a tattoo rise too far above your preference for what you want the tattoo to be about. Check out a few tattoo parlors and thumb through their albums. Get some ideas, don't be shy to ask for modifications or adjustments to the designs you see. These artists are usually talented people and can draw just about anything you can imagine. The designs they offer are more of a template for you to decide upon.
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