uhhh need some help

[Knives]

hey guys i need your help here i kinda messed up.... ok on monday night i was hangin out with my two friends both of them are women and there both named melissa.. ok well one of the girls i know has a B/F well on monday we were sitting there i was giving her a backrub (you know as friends) when we start kissing and then we go outside and uhh have sex... the thing is I asked about her B/F and she says F him so im like ok and we Do IT.. the thing is we have done it like 5 times in the past week and i have no feelings for her it was just like a havin fun thing but i dont want to do it anymore cause of her B/F but she keeps wanting to do it with me and im worried about hangin out with them cause im worried that her B/F will be there he is in the Air force but hes back on base (he has weekends off) i just dont know what i should do so i was thinkin maybe you guys can help.. thx

 

[Damicci]

YOUR SCREWED!
Seriously, the trust if there was any is already broken between you and the B/F so either kepp having fun or dis associate with both of them. Nothing you can do will change what has already occured.

 

[Twisted]

Just be honest with her. The longer you let this go on, the harder it will become for you. People appreciate honesty, even if it hurts their feelings some times.

 

[lexico]

If the realtionship is making you do things that isn't you, and you let it go on, it's not only unfair to him, the bf, but more to you. Her saying it's okay doesn't make it okay. Unless you have some justification to go on. Besides it's dangerous. There are no secrets in this world.

 

[TwistedMac]

... mad restecpa!
*high fives knives*
now go smoke a bowl and worry about the inevitable beating you're gonna get when it comes.

 

[Grandpa Frank]

Hope He Doesn't.....

have access to guns! You know she will eventually "confess" to him, and he will feel it's all your fault! But, life's a gamble and no one's married here, so what the heck!

Frank

 

[Doc]

As they say, "honesty is the best policy". Just tell her how you feel. If you don't it'll consume you, and things will turn very badly in the end.

Doc

 

[RockLee]

Ok, first thing is....why the hell did u do it in the first place??If u waited to do stuff AFTER she broke up with the dude u wouldn't be in this mess.And do you really think that by the fact he is in the airforce make him like rambo ? Just tell her u made a mistake...good luck

 

[cicatriz esp]

... mad restecpa!
*high fives knives*
now go smoke a bowl and worry about the inevitable beating you're gonna get when it comes.

Sometimes you're the best person on the net.

 

[Index]

If her boyfriend was a friend of mine I'd tell him what happened in order to try and salvage the friendship, since he'll find out sooner or later.

 

[TwistedMac]

Sometimes you're the best person on the net.

I know, that's exactly what I always think :27: :27:

 

[Dream Time]

you either keep doing it with her, cherish every moment that you are doing that with her, because who knows what would that guy do when he finds out? he might severally injure you down there, and you could be done for the rest of your life...

or disassociate with both of them

five times with the same girl in one week, you lucky dude

 

[BlackenedEyes]

Well, at least he's not in the Marines.

(This kinda thing happens alot to people in the military. My cousin was going out with a girl and got deployed. When he got back his car and bank account were gone. Of course we just laughed at him, because he shouldn't have given her access to them in the first place.)

 

[lexico]

What you say makes good sense, RockLee, and it better be heard with due attention. However this part I would disagree.

And do you really think that by the fact he is in the airforce make him like rambo ?

Not necessarily rambo. Maybe ten times scarier. The thing is a man (woman, too) ignited by jealousy or one's ego threatened, a wimp can easily turn into a gorilla+whale, gorira+kujira=Godzilla!
I'm serious. And as for confessing to him, I'd keep it a secret as long as I could. Confess only if you feel that your safety is at stake. Even after that it's dangerous. Just don't walk up to him and ask for trouble. Always keep close to the door; have at least two escape routes in mind all the time.

In the worst case be ready to move out of town if you must.
Better take off and start over than the alternative.
Nothing's worth dying for here.
This should be your C-plan, just in case.

You must also be prepared her (assuming she's already attatched to you emotionally) threatening you or taking revenge. Be gentle no matter what. Make a pittiful scene if you must. If she buys it, great. If not, hack your brains for a better plan. Play smart, and don't get hurt. This is messy what you're in.

 

[Knives]

I was actually told that, that its not her BF just some guy she messess around with (like me)... but she reffers to him as her BF but oh well im just gonna not make contact with them lol thx for the replys ppl if i have anymore problems ill be sure to get your guys insight (wish me luck)

 

[BlackenedEyes]

This whole thing reminded me of this song:

"It Wasn't Me"
By Shaggy
(feat. Ricardo Ducent)

(Yo', man) Yo'
(Open up, man) What do you want, man?
(My girl just caught me) You let her catch you?
(I don't know how I let this happen) With who?
(The girl next door, you know) Man
(I don't know what to do) Say it wasn't you
(Alright)

Honey came in and she caught me red-handed
Creeping with the girl next door
Picture this, we were both butt naked
Bangin' on the bathroom floor

How could I forget that I had
Given her an extra key
All this time she was standing there
She never took her eyes off me

How you can grant the woman access to your villa
Trespasser and a witness while you cling to your pillow
You better watch your back before she turn into a killer
Best for you and the situation not to call the beaner
To be a true player you have to know how to play
If she say you're not, convince her say a day
Never admit to a word when she say makes a claim
And you tell her baby no way

But she caught me on the counter (It wasn't me)
Saw me bangin' on the sofa (It wasn't me)
I even had her in the shower (It wasn't me)
She even caught me on camera (It wasn't me)

She saw the marks on my shoulder (It wasn't me)
Heard the words that I told her (It wasn't me)
Heard the scream get louder (It wasn't me)
She stayed until it was over

 

[jieshi]

get out of there fast man! you are looking at a huge mess, hate to say it but you need to cut contact right now

 

[kz_princess]

lol, smells like someone's a$$ is on fire!

 

[Knives]

i know i know!! and it burns i am going to cut off contact i havent talked to her in 2 days so ya but i need to not talk to them so my A** isent screwed

 

[Link]

TwistedMac you tend to remind me of the main character from the Golden Boy anime lol