there is actually in my opinion a possibility that the girl is guilty as well...
Not to come across as being mean to you or anything...but
guilty of what?
Guilty of not being wise at 14? Guilty of having not planned for the future very well at 14 years old? Perhaps guilty of having some sexually adventurous desires at 14 ? (how guilty would that be, I mean how terrible for a girl of 14 to have some desires of which she is unfamiliar with and doesn't know how to handle yet. Criminal I say! Guilty!)
I mean...and I really do not mean to be insulting here...but isn't that bassically the same as saying "she is guilty of being a young girl."
Obviously there are alot of unknowns about her life, and they should remain unknown from us.
What we know, and what he knew, is that she was a young girl just being introduced to life, with very little personal history on which to pull from. As with all young people in the world.
A few misguided advances, even if they occurred, would hardly make her "guilty"--they would make her young.
Should we pardon or "understand" his need for molesting every adventurous or sexually curious 2-15 year old that crosses his path. After all, they are guilty right?
Do they not, as developing individuals, have the right to grow mentally, physically, and sexually--biologically--as a human must? and is it not the job of those of us who have already grown and have so many more years of experience under our belt to help guide and protect them as they develop through those stages that we have already passed through?
How much more a man paid to do just that? Trained to do just that? Sworn to do just that?
And remember, that is assuming that she is "guilty" of all of the above, which is by no means certain.
Regardless of anything at all that she did, there is NOTHING that could have possibly occurred to alleviate the offenses done by this marine, as expounded on in my previous posts (short of having intentionally drugged him of course).
I can't even begin to express my sorrow for our men taking actions such as these anywhere in the world, and my disappointment and anger if he is not given a particularly strict judgment by both the courts and us as individuals.