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Generally speaking that sounds creepy to me too... It says, "hello", I'm interested in you first and foremost because of your race... Maybe he thought he would impress her.But she also said that a "strange" American guy once walked up to her out of the blue and started speaking in Japanese, and it made her feel uneasy.
Yeah, it's a shame that so little sinks in... it's part and parcel of Nova and other business first, language second schools... Imagine conversation schools advertising on television, oh wait---- that's NOVA. But in a way I think it fits Japan, because its rarely used outside--- those who are interested in learning English will do so, though probably not through Nova... there's enough English written on clothing and magazines, and other such consumables that a little bit helps... It seems even though there is a stigma to knowing "too much" English... it's a lot like Kanji is in the United States, used as a sort of as a cultural gimmick.In Japan, everyone and their mom wants to speak English which can be annoying for foreigners trying to be taken seriously, while in America, you know, like less than 1% of the population knows Japanese from Greek.
if i'm not wrong, it means 'your bowtie is a bit strange. can you let me touch it?'
Kansai....well, I can't speak for anyone but myself, but when giving out general Japanese advice, etc., I try to stick with what I understand to be "standard" Japanese. That and anytime I've ever had to address customers on the job, it has always been "okyakusama" or the wrath of an angry god would befall me!None of you obviously live in the kansai region, I could not tell you how many places use "okyakusan". Actually, I have been called "あんた" by a fat おばはん before! LOL before! LOL
Sorry Mikawa, It was not my intention to be giving out advice. Just an experience from a kansai boy.Kansai....well, I can't speak for anyone but myself, but when giving out general Japanese advice, etc., I try to stick with what I understand to be "standard" Japanese. That and anytime I've ever had to address customers on the job, it has always been "okyakusama" or the wrath of an angry god would befall me!
No, don't misunderstand me. It is a great point that in Kansai, people speak differently! I may ignore regional variation often when talking about the Japanese language in general, but we should never forget that they do indeed exsist!Sorry Mikawa, It was not my intention to be giving out advise. Just an experience from a kansai boy.Everyone is right sama should be used.
You mean the customer greeting "irasshaimase" ? (いらっしゃいませ) as in "Welcome !" "Good day/ evening!" shouted outside restaurants and inside shops, right ?It seems the more complicated Japanese you might use, the more you can get yourself in neck deep... had I said, "Okyakusan, hai, irasshaimasen".... and that's not very complex, just "okyakusan" which isnt very well known (I mean as a casual vocab phrase) as "customer".... that I could have gotten myself into one of those conversations where they thought I was more fluent than I was (which was sort of like what happened at the start as always!)....
Please stay on topic, and writing in Japanese in the English part of the forum is rude and frowned upon. Please keep the Japanese posts in the Japanese section.だいたい正しい。もう一度当ててごらん。
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Thanks Mikawa. We sure do speak differently down here, actually I don't really know hyoujyungo (標準語), it is quite embarrassing.No, don't misunderstand me. It is a great point that in Kansai, people speak differently! I may ignore regional variation often when talking about the Japanese language in general, but we should never forget that they do indeed exist!
I commend you for pointing that out in the first place!
Yep Yep! I don't know why I sometimes think there is a syllabic nasal n at the end of that word from time to time... but, I often do... Thanks for reminding me! Something you hear hundreds of times, but never use yourself...You mean the customer greeting "irasshaimase" ? (いらっしゃいませ) as in "Welcome !" "Good day/ evening!" shouted outside restaurants and inside shops, right ?
いらっしゃいません=Will not come, go, you are not (honorific)....(Negative indicative)Yep Yep! I don't know why I sometimes think there is a syllabic nasal n at the end of that word from time to time... but, I often do... Thanks for reminding me! Something you hear hundreds of times, but never use yourself...
On occasion you'll also hear what sounds more like いらっしゃいます and that if possible can be cut even deeper to simply らっしゃい。Well, at least I wasn't making up a word that doesn't exist...! Thanks Elizabeth, your help is always appreciated!
If you're asking what you, yukio_michael, should you use as a greeting, stick with "okyakusan" unless you plan on continuing to address these people in humble form. Also keep in mind, particularly from a foreigner with limited skills, okyakusama as the first words out of your mouth could come off as seriously overpolite -- meaning sarcastic or flippant.Coincidentally, I was reading some text the other day about honorific speech, and specifically, okyakusan was mentioned, but there was no mention at all of okyakusama... Are we in agreement here that at the business level okyakusama is preferred, and okyakusan (though, say, in Mizu Shoubai, service industries, maid cafes, etcetera... okyakusama wouldn't be unnatural), ---okyakusan is fine at the retail level.
Or unintentionally humourous.Also keep in mind, particularly from a foreigner with limited skills, okyakusama as the first words out of your mouth could come off as seriously overpolite -- meaning sarcastic or flippant.