My Theory of Dating in America

[The McTojo]

My theory of Dating in America after returning to Wa following a short sojourn to the Hong Kong and a few other destinations around SEA.

Here.

Discuss. I'm especially looking forward to the married members making their thoughts known.

 

[nahadef]

I'm not going to click on your link. Just post it here if it's worth discussing.

 

[The McTojo]

It's a link to my twitter post about it with the article and it's 100% safe even if you do use a Mac.

Here it is for you, princess:

Living in Japan, I have a good selection of fine bitchez to keep it good. However I like it. Big ones, small ones, soft ones, bony ones - I get them all here.

But I have a theory about dating in America. It's all about being conditioned to thinking a certain way based on environment and circumstances.

I went to Hong Kong recently and saw some butt ugly asian women. They are some of the worst I have ever seen in Asia. They dress all feminine wearing dresses and heels and sashes and I worked out why. Underneath they are harsh and often look just like Chinese men but with tits - very small tits. They look genuinely manlike. When I returned to Japan I realized just how ugly they were in Hong Kong and actually, in Mainland China.

I have a theory that back home men find asian women attractive because of all of the worse options when in fact if you think about it asian women are not the best option at all, without even going into the fact that they come from poor backgrounds and feel the need to compensate with luxury items and putting on airs of being selective and are often loud when no one is looking and rather course - sure signs of coming from poverty.

Women in America - the dating options we have - are either supremely overweight or have baggage like children - so any woman - ANY woman who is skinny regards herself much more highly than she should. Its crazy.

Theres no reason to marry here. The women are so douchy about their 'status' just because they are the only thin people around. In some cities like New York this is even more apparent, as there are a lot of skinny ugly women - think SJP as an example.

When you travel to any country in Europe - where there's a sense of the value of food and walking around - even these so called 'beauties' of NY look just dirty and plain. But if you are here you will find something that looks attractive to you - that Chinese girl who looks like a man, that slightly thinner girl who looks like a Plain Jane.

The mind plays tricks on you and you get used to being a pig in mud - that's the reality of dating in America.

 

[thomas]

I think you're at the wrong forum. Try f*****gaijin.com or the Young Dudes Guide to Japan if they still exist. I hope you're not identical with the "McTojo" we had here a couple of years ago.

 

[Grandpa Frank]

Sure hope it's not the same one.

He hounded us with his racist , idiotic posts for over a year back than. (2005 & 2006)

Uncle Frank

 

[The McTojo]

I think you're at the wrong forum. Try f*****gaijin.com or the Young Dudes Guide to Japan if they still exist. I hope you're not identical with the "McTojo" we had here a couple of years ago.

I am The Genuine McTojo. He sounds like an imposter. I am known as being a gentleman.

How about commenting on the article I penned? Agree/Disagree? Thanks for your like also.

 

[The McTojo]

He hounded us with his racist , idiotic posts for over a year back than. This one shows a location in China , the old one was in Japan.

Uncle Frank

Different McTojo, Winnie Cooper. I am The Genuine McTojo.

I like your post. My IP security is working.

What do you think about my Theory of Dating in America?

 

[Mark of Zorro]

Looked for a theory....found a rant.

About all I found that gives me any traction is that, yeah, there are a lot of heifers in America so being skinny is of great value.

And its also no surprise so many men are attracted to teens because they have not gone to college and gotten fat yet. And for choosing the jailbait over the tub a lard, they are labeled as perverts and pedos. America is indeed a strange place.

About these Hong Kong women looking manish, I really don't know what you mean. Some pics might help.

BTW, small tits are not manish. Men don't have small tits even, generally. But hey, I have met women with no tits who were still very feminine to look at. It helps to also be small, curvy and hairless with smooth skin. There is a lot more to being feminine than having tits, but of course if one is obsessed with tits one might not be able to see that.

 

[undrentide]

Seriously, Is this thread worth a "Serious Discussion"? At JREF?
As Thomas suggested, I believe there must be far more suitable forums out there for this kind of stuff.
Not here.

 

[Mark of Zorro]

Seriously, Is this thread worth a "Serious Discussion"? At JREF?
As Thomas suggested, I believe there must be far more suitable forums out there for this kind of stuff.
Not here.

This "kind" of stuff? I have to disagree that its the "kind" of stuff, as in the subject matter, that is the problem. I think the problem is the crude presentation primarily, and adding to that, the random thoughts tossed in a jumble.

I think there are things worth discussing here, but, The McTojo is clearly going to sabotage it all unless he gains focus and tact.

 

[RolandtheHeadless]

Why do you want married members' opinions on dating? If I was inclined to date, I wouldn't be married.

 

[Mark of Zorro]

Why do you want married members' opinions on dating? If I was inclined to date, I wouldn't be married.

One might think its because married people have experience? Or even that they were so successful, they found a spouse doing it. I mean geez, if they are married, I think its fairly safe to assume they did something right.

 

[The McTojo]

Why do you want married members' opinions on dating? If I was inclined to date, I wouldn't be married.

That's naive.

In Japanenglish "That's Kind Of Naive".

 

[The McTojo]

I think you're at the wrong forum. Try f*****gaijin.com or the Young Dudes Guide to Japan if they still exist. I hope you're not identical with the "McTojo" we had here a couple of years ago.

I don't know where I've seen a bigger bunch of ****ing rubes: Fed Gaijin or G Pot or even The Tokyo Forum (.tk) where I post. All are terrible.

 

[The McTojo]

One might think its because married people have experience? Or even that they were so successful, they found a spouse doing it. I mean geez, if they are married, I think its fairly safe to assume they did something right.

AYFKM? The successful in dating DO NOT MARRY. What planet do you live on?

 

[Mark of Zorro]

AYFKM? The successful in dating DO NOT MARRY. What planet do you live on?

I live on Earth. In fact, I was born here too. As for yourself...Klingon?

Many people good at dating do marry. Thing is that some people are confused about marriage and think its an end to the dating. The ones that don't marry for that reason die alone and bitter.

 

[Chidoriashi]

Attraction is subjective, and probably influenced by a variety of social factors. To me your theory can be applied to any country. Your feelings on American women are subjective, so who is to stop some guy from saying you have been conditioned to like Japanese women based on your environment and circumstances, and in reality the women of South America are the most attractive. It is all about opinion, no matter where you are from. So unless you have some solid reasons to give us for why the US is the only country in the world where society etc, influences attraction, you don't have much of a theory.

 

[Mark of Zorro]

I suppose I should also point out that some people are confused even about dating. The point of dating is different for different people. Some are looking for lifelong partners. Some are looking for someone to love for a few years (me). Some want to boink and move on to the next (the OP it would seem). Some may employ a combo of the above. None of the above are automatically bad. What makes people bad is the way they go about it. Some people go about these in a rude, selfish and abusive manner, with no regard for how they have hurt people if they have, and make no effort to prevent hurt in others.

I never dated looking for a wife. I just discovered that the person I was dating would make a good one. And why should I have no wife, someone to give and take security and comfort? Someone to raise a family with?