Hey Nall-ohki,
I appreciate your own respect towards this debate.
Will reply in point-layout again.
1.
Of course independence is important. However, there are much better way to get there than to sell oneself. As I had pointed out in another Thread, the Government in well-organized countries provides solutions and alternatives for occupation.
Unless there is a passion for prostitution involved, there should be no reason to become a prostitute, outside of convenience.
Furthermore, I said it in another Thread as well: Decency is a non-existent entity in the life of prostitute.
2.
I find your allegation, that sex is a human need, quite disagreeable.
Sex is under the very most of circumstances never a need per se. It is a an urge, and quite an animalistic one at that.
Furthermore, I have never stipulated that having sex is wrong, in any ethical way. However, having sex with another man, for any reason, while in a relationship, is quite wrong.
To those partners whom do and can not tolerate their partners to have sex with others, it is one of the most emotionally hurtful and scarring actions to take.
The persons affected can easily lose themselves in hate and ultimately destroy their own as well as their partner's lives with a wrong and unbalanced decision-making.
At least out of consideration to the person being loved, the partner indiscriminately providing sex to others should ensure first that their partners indeed do not have a problem with it.
Anything else, and it is simply cowardice and inconsiderate.
3.
No, it does still make sense.
When one enters a relationship, one usually finds themselves trusting their partner and not making baseless assumptions.
To the person whom cannot tolerate their partner to enjoy sex with others, it is hurtful.
Let me ask you for your personal standpoint.
Would you be okay with a closet-**** as your partner or is only the occupational prostitution an acceptable excuse to have sex with others?
4.
Simply put, if she did love him and considering the stipulations i have so far established, she should have taken his feelings into consideration and have been honest right from the get-go.
5.
No, I believe you to be mistaken in this regard.
It is understandable from her position, but that does not justify it.
Whether to lie to someone or to simpley "leave out" important information is the same thing in my book. I see no difference in it, as both actions hide the same piece of information from the eye of the partner.
As I outlined before, only convenience or passion for prostitution could be her reasoning. Either one of those are not acceptable excuses to be deceitful towards the partner.
6.
Agreed.
7.
True, it is not what you said, but that is what your vindication of her position insinuated.
8.
His feelings were her concern simply because she was in a relationship with him. Whether she loved him or not is another matter.
9.
Again, sex is NOT a need. Prostitution is NOT a need.
Either out of convenience or out of passion for her work are possible a reasoning.
It has to be justified to the partner emotionally involved.
You cannot make someone fall in love with you and then wreak havoc with those intense feelings.
Said havoc quite a few people would consider worse than any physical pain one can endure, because it wrecks one's mind.
I am one of those people.
10.
Nope, I did not attack you personally.
I attacked your vindication of her actions, and related it to the rotten society it comes from.
Cheers
Remixer
I appreciate your own respect towards this debate.
Will reply in point-layout again.
1.
Of course independence is important. However, there are much better way to get there than to sell oneself. As I had pointed out in another Thread, the Government in well-organized countries provides solutions and alternatives for occupation.
Unless there is a passion for prostitution involved, there should be no reason to become a prostitute, outside of convenience.
Furthermore, I said it in another Thread as well: Decency is a non-existent entity in the life of prostitute.
2.
I find your allegation, that sex is a human need, quite disagreeable.
Sex is under the very most of circumstances never a need per se. It is a an urge, and quite an animalistic one at that.
Furthermore, I have never stipulated that having sex is wrong, in any ethical way. However, having sex with another man, for any reason, while in a relationship, is quite wrong.
To those partners whom do and can not tolerate their partners to have sex with others, it is one of the most emotionally hurtful and scarring actions to take.
The persons affected can easily lose themselves in hate and ultimately destroy their own as well as their partner's lives with a wrong and unbalanced decision-making.
At least out of consideration to the person being loved, the partner indiscriminately providing sex to others should ensure first that their partners indeed do not have a problem with it.
Anything else, and it is simply cowardice and inconsiderate.
3.
No, it does still make sense.
When one enters a relationship, one usually finds themselves trusting their partner and not making baseless assumptions.
To the person whom cannot tolerate their partner to enjoy sex with others, it is hurtful.
Let me ask you for your personal standpoint.
Would you be okay with a closet-**** as your partner or is only the occupational prostitution an acceptable excuse to have sex with others?
4.
Simply put, if she did love him and considering the stipulations i have so far established, she should have taken his feelings into consideration and have been honest right from the get-go.
5.
No, I believe you to be mistaken in this regard.
It is understandable from her position, but that does not justify it.
Whether to lie to someone or to simpley "leave out" important information is the same thing in my book. I see no difference in it, as both actions hide the same piece of information from the eye of the partner.
As I outlined before, only convenience or passion for prostitution could be her reasoning. Either one of those are not acceptable excuses to be deceitful towards the partner.
6.
Agreed.
7.
True, it is not what you said, but that is what your vindication of her position insinuated.
8.
His feelings were her concern simply because she was in a relationship with him. Whether she loved him or not is another matter.
9.
Again, sex is NOT a need. Prostitution is NOT a need.
Either out of convenience or out of passion for her work are possible a reasoning.
It has to be justified to the partner emotionally involved.
You cannot make someone fall in love with you and then wreak havoc with those intense feelings.
Said havoc quite a few people would consider worse than any physical pain one can endure, because it wrecks one's mind.
I am one of those people.
10.
Nope, I did not attack you personally.
I attacked your vindication of her actions, and related it to the rotten society it comes from.
Cheers
Remixer
