Tim, im from scotland, a part of britain, i was born and lived in england for the first 8 years of my life, and to be honest, a brit is a brit, a nationality isnt a colour or race, its an ideology, its a dream, a thought, an ambition, be it white domination or a utopia for all.
when and if i marry my japanese girlfriend we will live in the UK (we've both long since agree'd japan isnt really a place to stimulate the emagination and curiosity of our children) and would like our children to grow up here....they will be half japanese...but being born here, being half british, they will be just as british, even my wife will be british by marriage, because i was born here, and she believes in britain as any native would (though she likes america too....and canada and finland...and danemark... :? )
alot of white british are increasingly intermarrying into ethnic minorities (who are still legally british) so its hardly correct to state that the successive genetic lines of britons since the first arrived here in the long forgotten past are somehow irraversably broken (too early for correct spelling, leave me alone
) its simply the natural change that nature adheres to.
maybe your young tim, or not, but barr opening the flood gates and accepting every illegal that we can squeeze into our fair and fine land, a black briton is no more different then a white briton, and who knows, maybe that black briton will marry the white briton and have little mixed ethnic britons
i know i will be looknig forward to my role in "diversifying" the sepctrum of british people
back on original topic, i feel for ya kirei, and hope you find your mans lost labido, god know's, i hang on mine too dearly to loose it so easily.
thats actually a good point cicatriz, for the short term it might be handy, but there's still the issue of getting the man to step up!, i mean, im going to expect a dulling of my Sexman™ senses as my manly hormones guide me to a premature death, leaving a weeping widow, but goddamnit, its my duty to provide!
i dont think the 95% is a scientificly sound statistic, dont get me wrong, in the west were definatly more sexually open and active but....i'm nothing like that, and most people arnt, sure we dont have arranged marriages to take all the effort out finding someone but we can still do it.
the problem is is that sexual attraction, and that very specific way of showing your affection with someone is just a fact of life, its a constant of human nature, i love my girlfriend, i want to marry her and grow old with her and i only have eyes for her (barr the odd glance at an attractive woman, and then being made to sleep on the sofa that night
) but that still doesnt change the fact that sex with her is one of the most important ways of sharing myself with her, not just the nitty gritty deed of it, but the events that occur around it, the whispered declarations of love and affection, the intimate physical contact, and finally, in a less romantic setting, simply that sexual release all humans need =/.
i liked that quote "sex is only 10% of a marriage but its the
FIRST 10% " because it really rings true i feel in so many ways.
most of us here are young men and women, and in our relationships we give and we receive, but in our age range, in a marriage, you know somethings terribly wrong when a couple havnt had sex in such a long time, if ever within a marriage, at our age, sex is simply a way to confirm the relationships integrity, you might think based on that relationships are shallow, but think about it seriously, whats more beautiful then a young man and woman in love, sharing themselves with each other?....it feels anything but shallow when im with my g/f.
rant over
P.S. i feel sorry for that japanese woman who hasnt got any EVER, even inside the 14 years of her marriage ☝
