Funny , among the military guys was this terrifying thought that the female they were hot for would be a guy , LOL. Another culture thing that drove them nuts was once in a while on the bar dance floor , 2 girls would be dancing together or even more fearful , two guys would dance together . I always was thankful my second week on base an old Airforce Master Sargent told me if I wanted my 2 year tour to be great , learn the language and the culture of Japan. It made my 2 years there like heaven.
As a small funny story , my girlfriends best friend could have been a Playboy Bunny , so beautiful. A guy would buy her drinks and sat across from her at a small table. She never learned how to drink lightly and guzzled her drinks. Every time when she finished her third drink , she would projection vomit onto the guy. I guess it was mean of me , but I never warned them what they were in for. As always , pardon my war stories.