mash27 said:
The other side of rigid gender roles is a society where men become increasingly feminized while women become increasingly masculine. This is what is happening in the west and believe me it ain't pretty.
Actually, this is also what is happening in Japan. I have heard a lot of young Japanese women complain about how effeminate Japanese men are these days, and there are a lot of very feminine, frail-looking male celebrities in Japan. It was actually quite startling the first few times I saw such men, as it certainly doesn't mesh with the western conception of physical prowess equals virility and manliness.
Men and women are very different, men have their needs and unique adaptations and women have theirs. However The west has been brainwashed by feminist discourse for the last 200 years into forgeting the most basic facts about males and females and the nature of their relation. I won't go into this since u can google it but women are better suited than any man to raise children. They have soft round bodies, breats and a maternal instinct. Men have none of that. Men on the other hand are better at visualizing space and have superior mathematical capabilites. In general humour, creativity and intellectual achievement are the realm of man ( not becuase women were excluded as feminsits would have u believe) but because men are by nature more competitive and driven (more testosterone and the need to compete with other males in order to mate with the females).
I understand that you're a fan of Nietzsche, you really don't need to explain all this to respond to a comment about rigid gender roles. In fact, I'm not even saying that gender roles are unnatural or wrong, but that it's important for women to be able to choose their own destiny, rather than have society dictate it for them. The Japanese workplace is so stratified that the OL are in a category of their own, exempt from any real form of upward movement in the company, as they are
all expected to quit after a few years to settle down and become housewives. To many, this is not such a bad fate, but there are those who are frustrated by this system of discrimination. That is what I mean by rigid gender roles. I'm not arguing that men and women are the same, but that we shouldn't try to prescribe everyone's fate because of their sex.
Or have u ever been turned on by a woman who was a philosopher, mathematician or mechanical enginneer? Any woman who enters these fields does so at the expense of her feminity.
are you saying that women who are smart or career-oriented can't be attractive?
THerefore from this prespective, the gender situation in Japan where men are men and women are women seems more attractive to me...
As I said above, the situation in Japan is not necessarily what you might think it is, especially in the younger generations.
There's also the concept that a good worker is a worker who looks busy.
In the west too.
I think I've addressed that point elsewhere in this thread.
In the west divorce is not a walk in the park either and many professional men also get very little time with their wife and kids. My Brother is a doctor is Switzerland and gets home at 7 or 8 and barely has the time to see his kid. This has more to do with life in general and captialism to a certain extent rather than Japan.
You say this is about capitalism, but this relates to my earlier point about "busy workers," and the aforementioned topics of efficiency already covered in the thread. Salary men are not required, but so heavily pressured that they are strongly obligated to stay several hours past "quitting time," and afterwards have other engagements they are obliged to attend, such as going out with their seniors. Many of these men do not get home until late at night or early in the morning, or simply stay at a capsule hotel or some similar lodging. Some companies actually require workers to move closer to the office, away from their families. As I said, for salaried men, office life is especially detrimental to home life. It might also interest you to know that it's almost always the man who receives custody of the children in divorce; the wife will usually return to her own family, if they'll let her.
Bullying exists everywhere. Wherever spineless whussies are present, bullies will be around the corner. It's the Job of parents to make sure they raise strong confident children who can take care of themselves at school.
Japan has hikikomori and North america has EMO's, starwars geeks and other varieties of degenerate people. All societies have these issues in one form or another.
You have made so many comparisons to the west, I'm starting to think that you aren't interested in examining Japan in its own context at all...