If you like Japanese women, please tell me why

[BenWa]

I find that I myself have an overwhelming attraction towards Japanese women. I just want to hear the reasons for other peoples attraction towards them. Is it personality, looks, ect.
I find that I like them because of how kind they are. I'm not going to lie, I find asian women very attractive. Most people I know simply ignore personality and look for a huge *** and knockers that could cause an eclipse. I'm not saying looks count for nothing (because trust me they do). But I can't go out with a total **** who tries to get by on her looks instead of personality (she can't be a total dumbass either). I ask this question because Japanese women aren't very voluptous (don't have big chest cannons or yams).

Do you just care about triple D's, or do brains and personality make any diffrence to you?

 

[Anchyyy]

I just like Japanese men (read Jrockers) XD~

 

[leonmarino]

I just like Japanese food.

 

[Kinsao]

I just like Japanese music. ☝




... oh, and men. Well, some of them.



... and language.

 

[Hyde_is_my_anti-drug]

Ah, Japanese women.
They are really nice which is both good and bad 'cause they're almost too nice and let themselves get stepped on and that is not cool. But they're beautiful and usually incredibly kind both of which are turn ons for me.

 

[BenWa]

You've got a pretty good outlook on this.

 

[SaKeVi]

But I can't go out with a total **** who tries to get by on her looks instead of personality (she can't be a total dumbass either). I ask this question because Japanese women aren't very voluptous (don't have big chest cannons or yams).

I'm sorry to tell you this, but some of the pretty japanese girls are "fashion girls" and care a lot about the looks of people, but don't worry!! they love american boys.

I also find japanese ladies very beautiful, they look like dolls, but I like more eastern europe girls (czech, russia...) there is something with them that drives me crazy

 

[oOo_tSuKaSa-SaMa_oOo]

OMG...
japanese gurlz...
i love them...
b'coz they have a freaky weird attitude...
they are so care with style and music...
japanese gurlz always like to do everything if she likes you...
so you will get what you want to...
...
my ex-girlfriend a japanese gurlz too...
so i had many experience with japanese gurlz...

 

[kazika]

Japanese girl are tend to be nicer. What i know they are good to their husband since the past. I am not sure this apply to this 21th century. And yes, i love their japanese food, music and anime~!~

 

[MajideSaiaku]

Its asian women in general.

My personal reasons are the beautiful almost sculpted eyes, the healthy skin tone, the general dimensions, the dark hair (I've never been big on blondes).

The dark swirling deep pools that they call eyes.

the cute nose.


Though I must stress an attractive woman is an attractive women and I oogle all hotties equally, though I may give a second glance for a hottie asian.


Also its because my love is asian, it would take a thousand years and a thousand scribes to describe every little point and detail, every little wrinkle when she smiles, every glowing light she emits with every different look of joy or happyness on her face....

She puts the Love in Making....

So yeah, many reasons why I dig asian ladies of attractive quality.

 

[Kagura]

I think Japanese people in general, hell Asian people in general are attractive. I usually find myself looking at Asian people more than other ethnicities becuase there is just something about them..... I think for me it's because they look so sweet and fragile or something. Not only that but since I like the Asian cutlure, Japanese culture the most, I find myslef getting along better with Asian people. A good majority of my friends are Asian, but damn I REALLY want an Asian boyfriend who likes Jrock ><.

But then again, I tend to find people born in Asian countries cuter for some reason, maybe because they have different experiences, but all Asians that I have met have been REALLY cool.

 

[Live91]

My brother thinks the same. Me and jap boys? I don't have any preferences but yeah I do like asian people!

 

[Kagura]

I really don't either, but I would like to experience having an Asian boyfriend sometime in my life, and have cute mixed-babies! XD

 

[Live91]

I really don't either, but I would like to experience having an Asian boyfriend sometime in my life, and have cute mixed-babies! XD

MIXED PEOPLE RULE! They're so lucky to have so many homes! So many "cultures" so many passports!

 

[atg]

I like the character of Japanese woman. Many are demure, shy, polite and honest. Of course, there are some of them who are not, I don't really like them.

Japanese top actress are usually interesting to watch. They have different aura

 

[aerial06]

Japanese women - it's biological

Japanese women and especially Japanese girls appeal to the inner senses of a man. It's most likely because so many of them are petite, so it's a biological thing that makes men want to be their protectors, or in the case of men with an unhealthy perspective, makes them want to dominate them. They look young and healthy, just what the caveman in us is looking for - someone to bear our children - and hey - it's a two way street. How we men look and behave also indicates whether or not we're considered good prospective mates as well. However, looks only go so far because culture is far more important. Japanese-American women may look like Japanese women, but American culture has usually ruined them just like with far too many American women. Game-playing, two-faced, deceitful, overly critical and demanding. Traditionally at least, Japanese women are reared to be supportive of their men, not in competition with men while still demanding they be treated like the weaker sex. Am I right or not?

 

[kooo]

Japanese women and especially Japanese girls appeal to the inner senses of a man. It's most likely because so many of them are petite, so it's a biological thing that makes men want to be their protectors, or in the case of men with an unhealthy perspective, makes them want to dominate them. They look young and healthy, just what the caveman in us is looking for - someone to bear our children - and hey - it's a two way street. How we men look and behave also indicates whether or not we're considered good prospective mates as well. However, looks only go so far because culture is far more important. Japanese-American women may look like Japanese women, but American culture has usually ruined them just like with far too many American women. Game-playing, two-faced, deceitful, overly critical and demanding. Traditionally at least, Japanese women are reared to be supportive of their men, not in competition with men while still demanding they be treated like the weaker sex. Am I right or not?

I've been a participant in Japan related forums for a few years, and I often read this sort of thing. I understand that a lot of men who are interested in Japanese culture find Japanese women attractive because they see them as more feminine. I think it's fine to have a preference and that it's wonderful that they've figured out what they like.

However, prefering Japanese women to western women does not mean you should be critical of western women, or even "masculine" women. I find the rampant generalizations of people inaccurate and unnessecary. I don't believe they're compairable anyway, because they come from totally different cultures. I think Japan is a place that encourages feminity in women while western countries, particularly America, discourage it. I do not believe that most/all western women are "Game-playing, two-faced, deceitful, overly critical and demanding", and I believe that a relationship involves two people and if you're finding these negative traits in the woman you date you should evaluate your actions in the relationship as well as the women you choose to date. Further more, if you do not find masculinity in a woman a favorable trait, it doesn't nessecarily mean masculine women deserve to be critcized.

That was kind of a lousy ramble, but basically, I think that if a man prefers feminity in a woman that's great, but he shouldn't criticize women for not meeting his ideal, especially if that man is making broad generalizations.

 

[Ma Cherie]

I think we need to re-define what we mean by "masculine women" because I personally don't understand this notion. What are examples in which Western women act too "masculine?"

 

[Kinsao]

I have a feeling this thread is in the wrong section of the forum... ☝
*pokes mods*
(it's an interesting discussion though! )

 

[Kagura]

I honestly find people from their original countries more appealing for some reason, especially if they're from an Asian country, I find the Asian cultures very interesting, and the people seem to be so nice and mellow.

 

[Karamuucho]

MIXED PEOPLE RULE! They're so lucky to have so many homes! So many "cultures" so many passports!

lol don't forget though mixed races come with their down sides (maybe more so when it comes to Japan) but I won't start a heated discussion here! haha


Personally I like Japanese women, but its only really a small difference to me, I've found myself attracted to women from all around the world, so I guess it's gotta be a mix of looks & personality.

 

[Davey]

It depends on the women, not on the country they were born in.

But I have to say that I think Japanese woman, are more cute, and most of them have better fashion than the girls I know from the Netherlands...

Ow and avarage Japanese girls are way smaller than those tall Dutch girls, and because I am not that tall myself, I like Japanese girls..

So yeah, I love my Small, cute and fashionable wife.

 

[gaijinalways]

I have generally preferred smaller women, and of course most Japanese women (especially to me at almost 2m) are small. That, and yes generally good skin tone is nice. As to behaviour, a good Japanese woman will take care of most matters concerning the home, though I must admit my wife has a big appetite for travel but the plus side is I have gone more places than I might have gone on my own !

 

[yukio_michael]

I just like Japanese men (read Jrockers) XD~

You do realise that Japanese men look nothing like the bishounen models you girls seem to go for, right? You realise that the whole object of 'visual kei' is to provide a safe, elegant form of male to young females, right? You're buying an image that is being sold to you, sorry.

Saying that you like Japanese men, when those men happen to dress in drag and kiss each other on stage is a little rediculous--- or at least, extremely naieve.

~ Okay, regardless... The people who answered this thread. What are you basing your answers on? Do you like Japanese men or women based on an image you saw on the internet? Are you basing your ideas about Japanese men or women based on someone you've met in your class, something you read, a movie you saw, a manga you read, an anime you watched? What?

You'll forgive me if I think that some of these descriptions of Japanese men & women seem pretty naieve. They're all based on some sort of perceived fantasy that doesn't echo reality very well.

ed: I'm trying not to sound condescending, but I keep reading these, I love Japanese men (especially ones in drag), or I love Japanese women, the small docile ones who might have existed once as some form of yamato nadeshiko... These attributes come up again and again, as if everyone were watching the same anime, or listening to the same music, to build their perceptions about the Japanese.

 

[Revenant]

They are really nice which is both good and bad 'cause they're almost too nice and let themselves get stepped on and that is not cool.

Errrk! Not that don't engage in their own bit of manipulating and cajoling..... the method may be different, but they are after all human and have their own desires that are just as strong as a 'western' woman's.