DoctorP
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- 3 Jun 2004
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Dream Time said:some western people might wonder why Chinese teens who are 18+ still lives with their family,
not that we don't want to move out, it is that we CAN'T
we have responsibilities for our families
You are right...I probably don't understand everything, but you could still move out, and still take care of your responsabilities! It could be difficult, but it can be done if you are willing to accept the sacrifices! (ie...no social life, limited entertainment) It wouldn't be fun, but you would have to decide if your peace and quiet, and your freedom are worth those trade offs!
I do understand having to help the family. I did my part for many years, but under my own roof...so that I could have my own freedom! I lived meagerly for a while and sometimes wondered if it were worth it, but looking back at it, I am glad that I did it!
BUT...each person has their own set of circumstances and you know what is best for you...I just hope that things improve.