Emoni, I wish you had done this in PMs rather than starting a thread. This has put a dark layer of cloud over a fun forum that I love spending time on.
You have a beef with the way something was handled by one of the moderators. Fine. Talk with the moderator / other moderators / admins. Let them discuss the matter. If you don't like the answer/explanation they ultimately hand you, you live with it, leave, whatever. I can't help but think that you rather enjoy this little drama. I don't.
Though I hope it is not your intention, I get the impression after reading your posts that you are implying that your sentiment is shared by others who have been feeling frustrated by the way the forums are moderated, and somehow you are speaking out for the good of the forum and for those who wouldn't speak up in fear of getting on the bad side of the moderators/admins. You mention in your posts something to the effect of "me and other members with whom I have spoken". Reading this thread, I only see 2 other members who also have problems with the moderator in question, one of which I wouldn't even count as he pretty much declared on his very first post and (a few after) on the forum that he didn't want to be taken seriously (and I am glad to learn that the most ridiculous one has been deleted).
And this is for other members who read this. No one can expects moderators to be perfect on every decision they make especialy when an agreeable decision for one person can be anything but for another. This is something Emoni, an individual, has a problem with. If any of you have the same problem, you should talk to mods/admins as individuals. Let us not make it into a public campaign against one moderator. I don't feel that is fair.